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Big shift in sexual perspective
    #21956589 - 07/17/15 02:59 PM (8 years, 6 months ago)

Just recently broke up with my girlfriend of 8 years. Sex wasn't the main reason, but it did have an impact upon my decision.
It wasn't that we had bad sex, it had just gotten boring and much more sparse than before. She was never crazy adventurous, but wasn't a straight missionary dead fish either.

So I have been out of the dating scene long enough to have it become entirely different than where I left it. I did alright in college when it came to getting stank on my hang low, but the girls today are hyper-sexualized. They devour porn, actually enjoy gagging on cock and being abused. Back in my day, that was the exception, not the rule. I remember having the occasional female wanting to be choked or spanked, but these 20-somethings are down for whatever and quite vocal about what they want and how they want it.
When I was fucking 22-26 year olds as a 22-26 year old, I don't remember shit being like this.

I started noticing this paradigm shift while I was still dating and kind of felt like a dog in the house watching other dogs have a great time in the yard. Started resenting my gf at times because of it.

I remember hearing this horror story about a guy I knew whose gf sucked some dudes dick in the middle of a party, in front of everybody. Even though I barely knew the people, just hearing the details of the story bothered me deeply. Up until about a few months ago, the thought of my gf just kissing someone else would make me cringe.
then I had a dream one night (what I would have considered a nightmare previously) where my gf nonchalantly fucked some other guy and admitted it to me. In the dream I felt actual relief, and instead of waking up disgusted and angry, it made me notice my change in sexual perspective.

I don't know if this is just "a good theory" and if it came down to it whether or not I would be ok with it in practice. I don't know if this is because I actually love my gf, or if I fell out of love with her and care less? The former could be true because I really do want her to find happiness and find the joy that she seemed to have lost; I kind of (in theory) want her to go fuck someone else at least once. The latter could be true because maybe now I just don't actually care, or that it relieves me of guilt for fucking someone else at the very end of our relationship.

So I started fucking this one chick after I had made up my mind about breaking up, then the other day me and my ex decided it would be ok to be booty-calls for each other. So she came over and we had pretty passionate sex, she seemed to be exuberant and much more joyous than I had seen from her in previous years.
Now this side bitch I am fucking is constantly talking about threesomes, both types 2b1g and 2g1b. I never broke the subject with my ex about ever doing a threesome because she never seemed really high on the bi scale (every girl has a little les in her) and there was no way I was going to let some other dude fuck her in front of me.

But now I find myself actually entertaining the idea. Almost to the point where I might try and broker a threesome with my ex.

I guess my point in typing all this is that I just had a personal revolution and stopped seeing sex as something sacred or serious. I remember one issue in my relationship that kept coming up was that it seemed like my gf despised me having fun without her. I always hated that she would call me if I was out with guy friends and yell at me for not sitting at the house being bored with her even after I had explicitly invited her to come out.
I guess defending that position has come around and now I apply it to sex. Outside of STD's/pregnancy, there really is no logical objection to letting the person you love find pleasure with someone else. If you truly loved them, then you would be happy for them right?

I remember reading another horror story on this forum years ago about this guy and his gf invited a friend over to fuck her while he jerked off in the corner (kind of weird IMO) and he was perfectly ok with all that, but then the guy started fucking her on the regular and somehow that felt like cheating to him. I don't understand the cuckold fantasy really, but that is maybe just vestigial pride? Like I would almost give my ex a high five if she told me she got fucked stupid by some guy, but if I were to be put into a devils threesome with her, I don't know if I could sit idly by while she sucked another dudes dick. For some reason, blowjobs are kind of still sacred for me.

oh well, just rambling at this point. Twas nice to write some of this shit out.


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