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Re: Watching people suffer wishing you could do something for them [Re: SleepyE] 1
#21952013 - 07/16/15 01:11 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I mean, there's people everywhere. There's always opportunities to meet new and like minded people, its just up to the individual to go out and be proactive. Being shy isn't something you have for ever you gotta be proactive in breaking through it by forcing yourself into situations that make you uncomfortable.
I've learned you should never feel bad for anyone or yourself, were all dealt the hand we get and the way you play em is what makes you who you are. We all have the ability to be happy. Doesn't matter if your the most beautiful outgoing wealthy person or the complete opposite. You have to be happy with yourself because depending on others for your happiness will never bring you true happiness.
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Re: Watching people suffer wishing you could do something for them [Re: DiscoBiscuitsTrip]
#21952024 - 07/16/15 01:16 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Also beauty isn't always physical man. You can be a 12/10 but if you have a shitty personality it don't matter.
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Re: Watching people suffer wishing you could do something for them [Re: DiscoBiscuitsTrip]
#21952042 - 07/16/15 01:21 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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definitely, from what i have seen in life it seems personality is much more important than appearance. Moreso for guys then girls i think.
Thats what men should be cultivating the most of, but a little bit of physical concern never hurts 
all about balance i think.
i definitely think myself is out of alinement but thats why social interaction is so important because you need them to calibrate your personality based on how they respond to you, postive or negative, if its negative work to correct that flaw in yourself to become more sociable and likable.
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Re: Watching people suffer wishing you could do something for them [Re: SleepyE]
#21952194 - 07/16/15 02:05 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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To me personally it sounds like your over analyzing, I used to be the same stop thinking so much and just flow that's what I try to do now. Be yourself.
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Re: Watching people suffer wishing you could do something for them [Re: DiscoBiscuitsTrip]
#21952237 - 07/16/15 02:22 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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yeah dude, i literally have a fuck load of anxiety from this over-analyzing,
its tough for me to voice whats on my mind and catch times when i appear superficial or narcissistic. Which is an illness in my eyes and unfortunately one that i have to deal with. Ive gone through periods of solipsism and the very nature of that caused me to become narcissistic, now am in terrible guilt of my narcissistic behavior. keep having ideas that everyone hates me for it and its causing a lot of anxiety, im sure some do but not all.
Fuck i wish i wasnt fucked in the head
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Re: Watching people suffer wishing you could do something for them [Re: SleepyE] 1
#21952291 - 07/16/15 02:40 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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The best explanation that i have heard for why life treats some people unfairly comes from Buddhism. Whether it is true or not is not for me to decide. Here it is nonetheless. Karma from our past lives causes our current situation. There must be bad people and bad situations in each lifetime so that a handful of people can transcend the bad and become enlightened. A lotus grows from the mud and muck basically. If life seems unfair it is because we are the muck that is allowing someone to reach enlightenment. Eventually, it will be our turn and their turn. Just not in this lifetime.
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Re: Watching people suffer wishing you could do something for them [Re: SleepyE]
#21952304 - 07/16/15 02:47 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Remember this, it's something I always have to remind myself.. It's not a race to spit out your answer. Maybe on some game show, but not in real life.. Don't be compelled to answer or say something just to get it out there.. Sit back and think on it for a minute.
Most of my dumbass moments were when I blurted out shit without thinking about it. Sit back and ponder for a minute and when you're ready to commit, submit that shit yo.. Hella intellectual pondering.
Sometimes dead air is perfectly acceptable in conversation.
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Re: Watching people suffer wishing you could do something for them [Re: Amanita86]
#21952754 - 07/16/15 04:45 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Definitely when i dont think about what im saying i can come off as an ass hat, and stratocast i often thought that to, even tried to weigh how bad ive been based on my current situation, right now i just want to behave and present myself in any way that people will not object too.
So modesty, kindness, and positive i think are the key not to offend anyone
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Re: Watching people suffer wishing you could do something for them [Re: SleepyE]
#21953104 - 07/16/15 06:06 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Like I said in your other thread: There are lots of problems in the world, and being a social outcast is not one of the worst of them. What if you're beautiful and you're eventually kidnapped and turned into a sex slave?
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Re: Watching people suffer wishing you could do something for them [Re: s240779]
#21953198 - 07/16/15 06:29 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Agreed, some people have it really bad, do u think it has to do with karma or is fortune randomly distributed?
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Re: Watching people suffer wishing you could do something for them [Re: SleepyE]
#21953212 - 07/16/15 06:32 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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It's certainly random.
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Re: Watching people suffer wishing you could do something for them [Re: s240779]
#21953241 - 07/16/15 06:36 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Seems that way i guess
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