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Rebelutionsssss
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I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work
#21949964 - 07/15/15 11:31 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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She's amazingly cute and I have seen some signs that she's interested but we have hardly ever talked and I'm just afraid if I ask her out on a date I'm just going to be sitting there with nothing to say. It's been forever since I've went on like a legit date and I have no idea. I'm thinking about asking her out for a drink later this week but I feel kind of like a pussy ever since My ex destroyed my soul.
She works back half and I work front so I've only ever seen and talked with her for like 5 minutes, and I'm a pretty quiet guy so I don't know what to do
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21949992 - 07/15/15 11:34 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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She will say no FUCKING way.but good luck tho
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21949997 - 07/15/15 11:35 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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go for it, broseph
I got faith in you
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: Rebelutionsssss] 1
#21949998 - 07/15/15 11:35 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Rebelutionsssss said: She's amazingly cute and I have seen some signs that she's interested but we have hardly ever talked and I'm just afraid if I ask her out on a date I'm just going to be sitting there with nothing to say. It's been forever since I've went on like a legit date and I have no idea. I'm thinking about asking her out for a drink later this week but I feel kind of like a pussy ever since My ex destroyed my soul.
She works back half and I work front so I've only ever seen and talked with her for like 5 minutes, and I'm a pretty quiet guy so I don't know what to do
She's most likely FBI, sent to catch your eye. Mission accomplished, don't take the bait.
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: AquaticPuzzle]
#21950002 - 07/15/15 11:36 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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AquaticPuzzle said: She will say no FUCKING way.but good luck tho
lmao you rude bastard
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Rebelutionsssss
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: AquaticPuzzle]
#21950008 - 07/15/15 11:37 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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AquaticPuzzle said: She will say no FUCKING way.but good luck tho
She talks to me on Facebook and is like overly flirtatious when I do see her it's just the date I'm worried about
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21950010 - 07/15/15 11:37 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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FIRST AND MOST IMPORTANT, should it go well, will you potentially have to hide the relationship? Big consideration first.
Secondly, I am in a similar boat. I would send pics but fuck if I want you all to know who I really am lol.
BOMBSHELL body. She's like 4'11' works out, nice ass, like D tits (I know, right?) and just all around cool lady.
I work next to her all the time I stil don't know what to say so I play the cool guy role (not acknowledging her but also when she is engaging me giving her my full attention but no more so that it's obvious, just playing cool).
What is the worst that will happen? She says no and you move on? I got rejected just last night lol by this girl I even hooked up with once.
I've been rejected, it's worse to sit and wonder. Least you will know. Don't be too forward and go for it the next time you see her.
She could be quite different from you and that's okay, but it may not work in the end. Talk to her like a person, like a friend. See some of her interests. Go from there
It will paint itselfIMO
EDIT if she flirts man just ask. But not a date. Ask if she likes to drink coffee/alcohol and would want to drink some coffee or alcohol with you.
Edited by Angel_Above (07/15/15 11:40 PM)
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21950013 - 07/15/15 11:38 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Rebelutionsssss said:
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AquaticPuzzle said: She will say no FUCKING way.but good luck tho
She talks to me on Facebook and is like overly flirtatious when I do see her it's just the date I'm worried about
the date will be fine, just toss back some drinks and let it flow
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: Niffla]
#21950021 - 07/15/15 11:40 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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You: "What are you doing after work?" Her: "Nothing / going home." You: "Want to go grab a drink?" Her: "Sure, where?" You: Bla bla location
Done. Make the plan for the same day so there's no pressure on you in the days leading up to the event.
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21950023 - 07/15/15 11:40 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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She works back half and I work front so I've only ever seen and talked with her for like 5 minutes
thats probably a good thing. even though it might technically be a 'workplace relationship', you don't really spend time around eachother. as long as you don't neglect your job so you can see her, your relationship shouldn't bleed into the workplace.
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: Niffla]
#21950034 - 07/15/15 11:42 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Attraction is nothing to be ashamed of. Good Luck!
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Rebelutionsssss
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: Adolin]
#21950035 - 07/15/15 11:43 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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It's kind of shitty because I work front nights and she works backside days so finding a night to go out for drinks would take some planning
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21950045 - 07/15/15 11:48 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
Rebelutionsssss said: She's amazingly cute and I have seen some signs that she's interested but we have hardly ever talked and I'm just afraid if I ask her out on a date I'm just going to be sitting there with nothing to say. It's been forever since I've went on like a legit date and I have no idea. I'm thinking about asking her out for a drink later this week but I feel kind of like a pussy ever since My ex destroyed my soul.
She works back half and I work front so I've only ever seen and talked with her for like 5 minutes, and I'm a pretty quiet guy so I don't know what to do
Stop being so quiet for one.It gets easier talking over time.I use to be anti-social to the max.Now im not so much.
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21950426 - 07/16/15 04:14 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Go for it man, just don't fall for her in one day.. otherwise the bitch will get mean and start abusing her power.. Ask her out to a date, be yourself and if she doesn't like it then she can leave.
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: Hayoxp]
#21950435 - 07/16/15 04:20 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Nothing to lose.
I went on a date just yesterday and I didn't feel up for it at the time either. I was very close to not showing up until I thought fuck it, I don't care.
She just sent me a video of grown ass people walking around on all fours acting like kittens, asking if we could do that for our next date...
People are a lot more crazy than we are. Don't worry and just go for it.
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Rebelutionsssss
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: GoldenEye] 1
#21950452 - 07/16/15 04:34 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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kittens? This girl seems pretty cool. She's still really into raves which I got out of my system a few years back but I could see this working out. I just talked with her on Facebook and she's been really flirty with me so I think I'm going to go for it. If it doesn't work out I only see her at work for a short time anyways so fuck it
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21950468 - 07/16/15 04:49 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: GoldenEye]
#21950473 - 07/16/15 04:53 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm not sure what the kittens were about 
I think she might be shit testing me for a story I shared about my participation in laughter meditations... Which she probably thought was just as weird as people acting like kittens.
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Rebelutionsssss
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: GoldenEye]
#21950480 - 07/16/15 04:58 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Which isn't really that weird considering all the other shit out there. I mean I eat massive doses of psychedelics and crawl around on the floor sometimes how do you tell someone that you're extreamily into tripping? I feel like if I told someone I eat LSD weekly they would just look at me like and tell me people are legally insane after 3 times or whatever bullshit people hear on the grape vine.
finding a women who likes psychedelics is like my fucking dream
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Re: I'm too chicken shit to ask out this girl at my work [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21950501 - 07/16/15 05:13 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah, hold back on that info for a little while haha.
I avoid bringing up any drug related topics until she does.
Avoiding a crazy rant about how I hate that alcohol is acceptable but better drugs aren't is hard enough when I have to explain why I don't share a beer with them...
(O, and the only women I ever found that did psychs were batshit crazy)
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