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Envix
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Re: [POLL] How can meaningless sex change into meaningful sex? [Re: koraks]
#21938450 - 07/13/15 06:00 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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i'd argue that sex is not the glue that holds 'bonding' together
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Re: [POLL] How can meaningless sex change into meaningful sex? [Re: Envix]
#21938475 - 07/13/15 06:03 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Envix said: uh what other biological purpose could sex be meant for other than procreation?
Where has biological purpose been previously mentioned in this thread? Niological purpose and subjective meaning are two very different things.
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Re: [POLL] How can meaningless sex change into meaningful sex? [Re: Envix]
#21938511 - 07/13/15 06:08 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Envix said: the only purpose sex is supposed to be for is procreation. anything else is a lie/delusion
not a christian statement, just a true one
What about if sex is for enjoying ourselves with just one infinite energy out of a set of infinite energies (chakras) ?
The 7 chakras
Each with godly energy able to create , or enjoy for appreciation
Unfortunately some people reduce sex to less than it can be, they're all in their minds, they reduce themselves to less than they can be too, they think they're their brains
Maybe you should reconsider your purposes and truths , to understand the purpose of sex you would have to understand the universe
But sure, some people are ignorant enough to claim evolution is all there is , others are wise enough to not say a word
The more we associate with our lowest chakra, the less energy available for our upper chakras often, because people focus on that chakra only (sex,desires,ambition)
But we got several other godly energies to create with, just very few people see it, only people open to it , sex is the physical realm , the lowest vibration, but not less important than the other chakras
That's why sex and depression often go hand in hand, when we have sex with strangers we lower our vibration to that of theirs
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Re: [POLL] How can meaningless sex change into meaningful sex? [Re: lessismore]
#21938525 - 07/13/15 06:10 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Sex definitely has adaptive purposes other than procreation. Just look at bonobos.
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Re: [POLL] How can meaningless sex change into meaningful sex? [Re: lessismore]
#21938533 - 07/13/15 06:12 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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So the way to change sex into meaningful sex is to raise your vibration
Low vibration gives meaningless sex, sex for self gratification - no sharing, just self. Almost guarantee for depression.
High vibration sees sex as something sacred with another, for sharing
Higher may even omit sex, no need for that, focuses on spiritual attainments
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Re: [POLL] How can meaningless sex change into meaningful sex? [Re: HalluciNate]
#21938749 - 07/13/15 07:03 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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HalluciNate said:
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Enjoywho said: Well you start just spending most of your free time together. And missing them when your not around each other. Thats how it generally goes.
Interesting!
So when does meaningless become meaningful?
When you realize when your not with that person your thinking about them. Then generally the love word comes out. And bam your dating.
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Re: [POLL] How can meaningless sex change into meaningful sex? [Re: lessismore]
#21938751 - 07/13/15 07:03 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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lessismore said: So the way to change sex into meaningful sex is to raise your vibration
Low vibration gives meaningless sex, sex for self gratification - no sharing, just self. Almost guarantee for depression.
High vibration sees sex as something sacred with another, for sharing
Higher may even omit sex, no need for that, focuses on spiritual attainments
Thank you lessismore for offering an answer to my question.
Your words helped me remember the vastness of choice when it come to creation.
Thank you!
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Re: [POLL] How can meaningless sex change into meaningful sex? [Re: HalluciNate]
#21938798 - 07/13/15 07:15 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Arnt you the same guy who was blown away when he found out breathing heavily during sex made it better?
EDIT: Yup, checks out out http://www.shroomery.org/forums/showflat.php/Number/21564711
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Re: [POLL] How can meaningless sex change into meaningful sex? [Re: Bodhi of Ankou]
#21938829 - 07/13/15 07:23 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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That's me! 
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Re: [POLL] How can meaningless sex change into meaningful sex? [Re: Enjoywho]
#21939043 - 07/13/15 08:17 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said:
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HalluciNate said:
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Enjoywho said: Well you start just spending most of your free time together. And missing them when your not around each other. Thats how it generally goes.
Interesting!
So when does meaningless become meaningful?
When you realize when your not with that person your thinking about them. Then generally the love word comes out. And bam your dating.
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Re: [POLL] How can meaningless sex change into meaningful sex? [Re: Envix]
#21940425 - 07/14/15 02:30 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Envix said: i'd argue that sex is not the glue that holds 'bonding' together
Of course it's not the only thing. But it's an important aspect. You sound afraid of feeling things.
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Re: [POLL] How can meaningless sex change into meaningful sex? [Re: Sophistic Radiance]
#21940446 - 07/14/15 02:47 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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BlindSophist said: IMO no sex is meaningless. If you think it's meaningless, it's because its meaning is lost on you. 
But of course, the same can be said for anything in life, not just sex.
Ironic I was going to say the polar opposite before work today but didn't have time.
Is masturbation meaningful, is sex more then parties participating in self satisfaction through stimulating another(s) ?
I don't know I have been detached from that great sex love stuff for awhile so maybe just a little bitter.
As long as it's in good fun and all enjoy two thumbs up
That is key imo to it is both people have a familiar or innate instant sense and complete abandon dedication of pleasuring each other, trusting reciprocated enthusiasm.
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Re: [POLL] How can meaningless sex change into meaningful sex? [Re: ReposadoXochipilli]
#21940451 - 07/14/15 02:49 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Masturbation and sex are completely different. There's no comparing physically pleasing yourself with emotionally and physically pleasing others.
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Re: [POLL] How can meaningless sex change into meaningful sex? [Re: koraks]
#21940458 - 07/14/15 02:58 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Often the point of sex is to please yourself foremost and beyond that minimal extension, maybe not in theory but perhaps in execution.
How many people do you know that have a steady rocking sex life?
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Re: [POLL] How can meaningless sex change into meaningful sex? [Re: ReposadoXochipilli]
#21940517 - 07/14/15 03:34 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Well, for me and many others, pleasure is found in pleasing others. So sure it's about pleasing yourself, but to a large extent by pleasing the other person! Win-win situation!
As to a steady rocking sex life...well, sounds like what I've been having for the past few years really, apart from a few months' lapse when I was single, but I found some excitement even in that period.
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