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liamfmxfriar
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i hate my life and everything that is happening
#21937146 - 07/13/15 12:36 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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i need some serious help, this will be a long read so please bare with me and if possible share some advice. if this is in the wrong thread i appoligise in advance.
I'm a 87 year old guy from the UK, for the past couple of years i have been extremely stuck and depressed on what i am going to do with my life, where i'm heading, and what i'm going to do and achieve. i was never good accademically, infact i was pretty bad at school, i had only a handfull of friends due to social anxiety and feeling extremely uncomfortable making conversation with people, i got kicked out of school half way through my second year of high school, i left with no GCSE's at all, i have 0 grades, the only "certificate" as such is a bit of paper congratulating me on doing a bungee jump (some achievement ey?) i never enjoyed school, no subjects what so ever, i always did try but i struggled alot trying to keep focused and concentrate on anything that was going on, everything just kind of went into my ears and vanished as soon as it went in. apart from all the mandatory subjects i had to do in school (english, maths, science ect) the optional ones i dont where engineering, art, and construction) they made me so bored, my mum has told me why don't i become a builder or something along those lines, but she doesn't understand how bored i get, i get extremely frustrated and stressed out when i get bored so i could not possibly have a career like that.
the only hobbies i have include anything to do with extreme sports, Motocross, skydiving, bungee jumps ect ect, i have been told okay so you like motocross? why don't you become a bike mechanic? but as explained before it is boring, and all i find fun is bike time. i rarely watch TV or play videogames anymore because i can't physically bring myself to sit still and do it, i don't know why but thats jut the way it is.
i have one plan for my life, the royal marines, i find this is the only hope i have of doing something good with myself, but i keep having setbacks, i broke my foot twice the same year, i damaged my neck which set me off working out for 3 weeks, and now i have back problems which again is going to stop me working out to get fit, but obviously i need a plan B, i could fail or not get in because of medicals or anything like that, there is alot of possibilites, so if that falls through what next?
i've worked 2 jobs in my life, washing dishes in a restraunt which i am never, ever doing again, extremely boring, and my most recent job which i just left was building artificle trees, i done the same thing over and over again for 9 hours a day, 8-6, 5 days a week, the task at hand would take around 4 minutes each time, and i done it over and over again until my day was up, i couldn't cope with the repetitiveness and tedious boring work.
i have no girlfriend, i've had 1 in my entire life, 17 years and i've had one girlfriend, i'm still a virgin, and extremely self conscious, i always feel like people are looking at me and judging me , i never used to care i used to just brush everything off when i was younger but since about 15 years old it has been completely different.
what can i do? i need help, i have been sitting on the internet trying to figure out a job that would suit me, trying to figure out how to become a millionaire, i've looked at jobs abroad, you name it and i have tried to look for it but so far i have nothing.
PLEASE share some advice i have tried many different forums and so far no one has gave me any advice, i don't know where else to turn to, please move if this is in the wrong forum or delete if i hsouldn't be asking this
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Re: i hate my life and everything that is happening [Re: liamfmxfriar] 1
#21937153 - 07/13/15 12:38 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: i hate my life and everything that is happening [Re: OhMrJohnson]
#21937166 - 07/13/15 12:41 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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What your going to do with your life? If your 87 if you haven't figured that shit out by then than I'd be content spraying kids with a hose on halloween for stepping on your lawn.
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Re: i hate my life and everything that is happening [Re: liamfmxfriar]
#21937170 - 07/13/15 12:41 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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liamfmxfriar said:I'm a 87 year old guy from the UK...
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Re: i hate my life and everything that is happening [Re: vinsue]
#21937171 - 07/13/15 12:42 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm pretty sure he means 17
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Re: i hate my life and everything that is happening [Re: OhMrJohnson] 1
#21937175 - 07/13/15 12:43 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: i hate my life and everything that is happening [Re: OhMrJohnson] 2
#21937181 - 07/13/15 12:46 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ya. So underaged. And kid i do the same god damn thing every day for 9 hours a day. It never changes but you know what it does do? Pay my rent. Stop your bitching your just a kid. Enjoy the money while living at your parents house and 60+% is going to bills and just to feed yourself.
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Re: i hate my life and everything that is happening [Re: Enjoywho] 1
#21937211 - 07/13/15 12:54 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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OP is a typical spoiled first world kid who only wants to have fun and have everything handed to him.
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Re: i hate my life and everything that is happening [Re: ohcrapitsnico]
#21937238 - 07/13/15 01:01 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ive been working since i was under 10. No matter what im doing i take pride in it. Fucking hate rich kids must be nice. But on the other hand i have a great work ethic i cant even remember the last time i havent been working.
It's fucking boring to me i hate being stagnant. Fucking hate rich kids in alaska they were the ones most likely to steal from you driving around in the 40k truck daddy bought them. Don't know the value of a dollar.
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Re: i hate my life and everything that is happening [Re: liamfmxfriar]
#21937298 - 07/13/15 01:16 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Op...you have to realize life doesn't give a shit what you want out of it, the only way to do it us to work your balls off and make sure you get what you want, because I gaurantee it won't just come to you.
In the mean time you just need experience, do what you need to in school, shut up and do that shitty job so you have money, if there isn't a better job available, stick with the shit one until you find another oppurtuni ty
Girls is on you as well, it be amazing if girls asked guys out but they dont. Go to a place you never been, solely to ask out random girls that you'll never see again, start buildi ng your game, learning t9 handle rejection and how to handle it appropriately.
I can't bitch at you because I used to think the same way, you just need to reach a point where you say fuck it I'm going to do whatever I have to in order to ensure my own happiness.
Not enough money, fuck it I'll work multiple jobs wile looking for better ones
Not getting girls, you aren't asking enough.
Not happy with how your life is going, then figure out what is going wrong and change it.
You give yourself too little credit, you're capable of gettimg and doing everything you wish for, you just need to stop wishing and start doing. Don't take yourself or any girl or anyone else so seriously, we all die in the end.
You want an answer so bad than "do something different"
You think we all have perfect jobs and don't get bored with them and hate life ourselves? We all did, and most still do, we just realized it ain't gonna get better unless we make it better.
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Re: i hate my life and everything that is happening [Re: SirShroomsAlott]
#21937349 - 07/13/15 01:34 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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"I'm a 87 year old guy from the UK, for the past couple of years i have been extremely stuck and depressed on what i am going to do with my life, where i'm heading, and what i'm going to do and achieve." At 87 I think your biggest problem would be funeral arangements and a shit ton of Viagra.
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Re: i hate my life and everything that is happening [Re: OhMrJohnson]
#21937373 - 07/13/15 01:40 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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OhMrJohnson said: I'm pretty sure he means 17
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Re: i hate my life and everything that is happening [Re: liamfmxfriar]
#21937409 - 07/13/15 01:48 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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liamfmxfriar said: what can i do? i need help, i have been sitting on the internet trying to figure out a job that would suit me, trying to figure out how to become a millionaire, i've looked at jobs abroad, you name it and i have tried to look for it but so far i have nothing.
Think outside the box for a second, if the answer was that easy to find, everyone would be millionares, but there is no easy answer, you just have to do whatever you can, and sometimes what you do with your money is a gamble, sometimes it'll pay off, other times it wont.
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Re: i hate my life and everything that is happening [Re: ohcrapitsnico]
#21949108 - 07/15/15 07:50 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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explain? you're just another ignorant and arrogant prick who has no idea
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Re: i hate my life and everything that is happening [Re: liamfmxfriar]
#21949168 - 07/15/15 08:06 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Keep building trees and washing dishes man. Save your money while you are still being paid for by your parents and invest a good portion of it into different things that may help you or be profitable when you need it.
If you saved $8,000, you can invest $1000 of it into whatever you think is best (make sure it is profitable) and use the other $7000 to pay rent and buy a car. Keep working your normal shitty job until those investments turn into cash, and then reinvest more money, on and on and on until you can make enough money to buy something big (whether it be for leisure or a money making business) and go from there.
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Re: i hate my life and everything that is happening [Re: liamfmxfriar]
#21949191 - 07/15/15 08:10 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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About your job, I tend to find that if you find it boring than you must be boring. You can make a job as fun as you want, or as torturous as you want. Washing dishes in a kitchen is one of the most chill, easy, and dare I say FUN jobs I have ever had. I worked prep in a hotel restaurant before and sometimes did the dish pit. It was nothing but cracking jokes and talking shit the whole time. You can come in stoned as shit and not worry about a damn thing. You can tune out the world and think about life's greatest mysteries or you can think of ways to make it fun and dance if you want to. Seriously, if you are bitching about that kind of job you are in for a real slap in the face when you get a "real" job.
Enjoy life while you can, for things are going to get a lot harder.
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