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bloodsheen
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What kind of people do you attract?
#21930383 - 07/11/15 07:15 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Ive found that pretty much every girl attracted to me was at one time a total outcast
Ive often wondered why. Its not like I walk around talking about how I didnt have any friends growing up. Yet these girls find me
Have any of you found that most of the people you date have a common link? And love of music doesnt count. Im talkin deep stuff
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: bloodsheen]
#21930917 - 07/11/15 09:22 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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About half the women I've been with have been older than me. A significant number of them have been redheads. They've all had a spiritual side to them, many of them being pagans. I've also been with a few women who have a history of trauma and depression.
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: Silversoul]
#21930928 - 07/11/15 09:25 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Trauma seems to be the link. Before this one they were ex drug fiends. Finding them long after. This one is a "never done anything bad" type. But the trauma is still there. Funnily, they are always very into nature and love sex a ridiculous amount.
And I get a lot of girls that say "I had a feeling about you. Something said you were going to change my life" or "I really felt like we needed to actually meet" which has happened even through Facebook. Then we start talking and find out we're on the same level. But I don't exactly flaunt that so I wonder how they know.
My relationships are always healing of one or the other of us. Or both. Like a clock waiting for something to be absolved, until the next one comes around.
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: Atrium]
#21932623 - 07/12/15 09:23 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Others with the aquarius sign; it's uncanny. More than half ov those i've been intimately involved with at length have been other aquariuses. We tend to be a bit eccentric so there may be an initial attraction there, but it may tend toward isolation from each other as we learn how stubborn we can be in the manifestation ov our intricacies.
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: bloodsheen] 5
#21932681 - 07/12/15 09:51 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I attract assholes lol
I'm a really generous person, always trying to give and help out so I think that attracts takers who tend to be there for nothing other than to take what you have to give then leave.
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: bloodsheen] 1
#21932848 - 07/12/15 10:45 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm trans and at the point in my transition where I pass only when not scrutinized. Therefore, I'm mostly attractive to queers and fetishists.
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: chicksgrowtoo] 1
#21932914 - 07/12/15 11:00 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: I attract assholes lol
I'm a really generous person, always trying to give and help out so I think that attracts takers who tend to be there for nothing other than to take what you have to give then leave.
This seems about right from what I know.
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21932936 - 07/12/15 11:04 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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A wide range of people, but mostly the females I attract tend be into good music and drugs. Being a 5'10 male I seem attract a lot of tall women. Most of the women I have been with are 5'7-5'11. Tall women love me for some reason .
I have also sadly found that a lot of the women who are into drugs are escaping some type of mental disorder or pain and tend to be crazy sooooo crazies are common.
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21932962 - 07/12/15 11:10 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Every guy I've ever dated longer than a week has been a drummer. I won't even know about it until we've been dating a while. They just FIND me. Now I just ask on the first date. Love me some artists and musicians, something fierce.
Also an analysis of the demographics of men that hit on me would reveal that I attract swarms of black guys.
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: ladycakes]
#21933295 - 07/12/15 12:24 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Fucking insane people living on the fringe of society or freshly run away from home. I'm a fucking yegg.
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: drege]
#21936292 - 07/13/15 07:53 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Feminists, extreme Left - Wing political people, queer people, artists, musicians, sex workers...
Just realised I have it pretty good
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: GelapMata]
#21936348 - 07/13/15 08:15 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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For whatever reason women in general usually find me very attractive. I've had so many different kinds of females approach me, from friend's moms, to goody two shoe prep girls from high school, to the alty or gothic types, to stoner chicks, so I had my pick.
It's a weird problem to have, but it always seems that women want to attach whatever male personality they favor to me, and when they find out how I really am, they are generally very disappointed. I bet a lot of people who read this will be like "stfu", but it was really hard to connect with people when they just liked me for my looks.
In high school for example I had five girls ask me to prom. I was a total stoner, I never had any intention to go to prom but all these girls wanted me to go. Obviously they didn't know me at all, they just though I was attractive and wanted me to be how they imagined me to be. But actually, I did the same thing a lot when I was younger, I had a LOT of relationships based purely on physical attraction and, surprise surprise, they never worked.
It was very amusing sometimes, girls with good grades who never did drugs would express interest in me and ask what I did with my time, and when I told them (skipping school, video games, tripping on mushrooms, smoking weed) they'd be all shocked.
Lucky for me I grew up and chose someone I love spending time with, who really interests me and makes me think. A person who helps me enjoy life, my best friend, who is now my bride to be.
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: Toe_Jam]
#21936747 - 07/13/15 10:45 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Throughout high school it was mostly the "alternative" gals that i'd get with, metal heads, punks, rockabily, etc. Now its a few years after high school and my style has drastically changed, i cut my hair and keep it pretty short, have put on about 50lbs of muscle, so i generally garner interest from fitness/gym girls and more "preppy" types. Which kind of sucks because my favorite style is rockabily


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bloodsheen
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: psyconaught]
#21937706 - 07/13/15 03:09 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Lots of good responses, thats exactly what I was hoping for. Really big variety 
@ Toe_Jam: I didn't think "stfu" at all. You want a deeper connection and its hard to find. However, considering you seem to attract all different types, maybe you should stop blaming your good looks and start blaming your bad judge of character . At least you don't blame women or anything, thats unhealthy. Whenever a woman says all men are assholes I always think 'Well, maybe you should stop having a taste for assholes.'
@ psychonaught: I was hoping somebody would say they attract the 'wrong' type of woman. Ive recently been thinking about getting piercings and tattoos because I find alt girls super hot, but I look like a nerdy hippie. But it also makes me feel like a total skeezbag to change my appearance just to attract different kinds of women, I personally don't consider it an expression of who I am to put holes and ink on my body.
But boy do I like it when women do it
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: bloodsheen]
#21937752 - 07/13/15 03:17 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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@ psychonaught: I was hoping somebody would say they attract the 'wrong' type of woman. Ive recently been thinking about getting piercings and tattoos because I find alt girls super hot, but I look like a nerdy hippie. But it also makes me feel like a total skeezbag to change my appearance just to attract different kinds of women, I personally don't consider it an expression of who I am to put holes and ink on my body.
i mean don't get me wrong i won't complain about going out and hooking up with bikini figure competitors (true story) .. I just find alt girls MUCH more attractive, part of it is also that i'm not really involved in that "scene" so to speak. My style is very much americana, like this if you don't know what that looks like:

Most of my interaction just happens to be with the gym rat girls haha
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21937765 - 07/13/15 03:19 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said:
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chicksgrowtoo said: I attract assholes lol
I'm a really generous person, always trying to give and help out so I think that attracts takers who tend to be there for nothing other than to take what you have to give then leave.
This seems about right from what I know.
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21937965 - 07/13/15 04:06 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Wow lol
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#21939248 - 07/13/15 08:58 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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The last girl who was attracted to me was in a very serious relationship and became engaged and had to break it off with me.
The girl before that was a complete roller coaster of a mind fuck and honestly treated me like shit.
That's really about it, other than that I don't attract many women.
So, mostly assholes I think. It's probably not coincidental...
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: bloodsheen]
#21940815 - 07/14/15 07:03 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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bloodsheen said: @ Toe_Jam.... However, considering you seem to attract all different types, maybe you should stop blaming your good looks and start blaming your bad judge of character .
Yeah in the past I definitely was a very poor judge of character, long story of course but I used to be addicted to opiates and hung around lots of really negative people. I have grown a lot, been clean five years. I now have real friends for... The first time in my life.
I also stopped going after women for their looks and was lucky enough to find a wonderful woman who connects with me on many levels. She's my best friend for sure, we're engaged, I consider myself extremely lucky. I also happen to find her attractive, but that's just a plus.
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Re: What kind of people do you attract? [Re: Toe_Jam]
#21942135 - 07/14/15 01:53 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Self-sufficient and very understanding women.
They are all succesful now.
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