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Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend
#21926476 - 07/10/15 10:27 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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First of all hitting a women is never acceptable and i think it's the worst thing you could do to your significant other. With that said she is fucking insane and has given him black eyes multiple times, punched through his car windows, destroyed tons of his stuff and is bipolar/ completely psychotic. My friend calls me saying he got into a huge fight so I go to pick him up and as he's trying to leave his appartment his girlfriends punches him in the face(again) and scratches/is pulling him back inside so I guess he pushed her on the couch and hits her(I think it's fucking disgusting and horrible to ever touch a woman that way but he's been my friend since childhood). I told him never to do that again and that he was wrong.
So we go and grab a beer and talk about shit and they're constantly on the phone telling eachother they hate eachother and my friends telling her it's over and all that blah blah blah. I'm sitting with him for hours and you know what happens..... They end up saying they love eachother and they want to work things out even though she has black eye, my buddy's face is all kinds of fucked up and I've been telling him for months that that's the most toxic relationship I've ever seen and he's going to be mentally scared from it.
While they were on the phone I over heard her saying she's going to kill herself and drive off a cliff and shit.
WHAT THE FUCK! How do people live like that ppfftt, and I'm the crazy one because I eat entheogens to expand my outlook on life and become a more caring loving person. Give me a fucking break
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: Rebelutionsssss] 1
#21926482 - 07/10/15 10:31 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: Rebelutionsssss] 8
#21926486 - 07/10/15 10:34 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I know it's not the most popular opinion, but I don't agree with the never hit a woman rule. I'm not sure where I'd draw the line on when it becomes acceptable, but if some woman had me cornered and was trying to stab me or something, best believe I'm going to hit her. I'm not taking a blade just to be chivalrous.
He should probably remove himself from that situation immediately. Doesn't seem like much good is going to come from it. Spousal abuse comes from both sides, and the more someone is allowed to get away with something like that, the more brazen they become in their attacks. I can see her stabbing him in the not so distant future.
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Rebelutionsssss
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: Zombi3]
#21926492 - 07/10/15 10:36 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Well they don't actually call me crazy but every time I tell them that LSD and mushrooms have made me a more happy caring person and had saved me from a path of self destruction I was on they just look at me kind of weird and tell me to be careful and all that shit. I only have two friends that actually get what I'm talking about and only one of them has actually experienced the depth that these substances offer.
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: Rebelutionsssss] 1
#21926512 - 07/10/15 10:42 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Rebelutionsssss said: First of all hitting a women is never acceptable and i think it's the worst thing you could do to your significant other.
Sexism, man, gotta love it
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: Shroomslip] 5
#21926514 - 07/10/15 10:43 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Meh I kind of agree with that... I would never punch someone of either gender without expecting to be punched back. If you bring violence into it you should probably expect violence in return.
Don't get me wrong, I don't think anyone should be running around abusing women, just don't dish it out if you can't take it.
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#21926519 - 07/10/15 10:45 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I just don't like the fact of hitting anyone I so call love. If some random bitch started attacking me yea I would lay her out. I guess I should have phrased it better in my original post
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#21926521 - 07/10/15 10:46 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Sounds like a healthy relationship. I would never hit a woman unless I was put into a position to really defend myself.. then the bitch would get two black eyes.
My advice is to keep your distance especially before the police get involved which will happen at some point.
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ThatKidWithTheFace said:
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Rebelutionsssss said: First of all hitting a women is never acceptable and i think it's the worst thing you could do to your significant other.
Sexism, man, gotta love it
Pretty much right?
"My friends girlfriend flies into a rage and attacks him all the time, it was totally unacceptable for him to hit her back though."
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: chicksgrowtoo] 6
#21926532 - 07/10/15 10:49 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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if a woman hits you, you should have every right to smack her back, with every bit of force that she hit you with.
so fucking tired of double standards. women have no right to be violent, they should have to face consequences just like everyone else.
that said, beating the shit out of a weaker person is almost never alright, wether they are a man or woman. a solid smack to the face will usually shock them enough that they lay off. beating someone into submission is a different story though
Edited by Adolin (07/10/15 10:53 PM)
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: chicksgrowtoo] 1
#21926554 - 07/10/15 10:56 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: Meh I kind of agree with that... I would never punch someone of either gender without expecting to be punched back. If you bring violence into it you should probably expect violence in return.
Don't get me wrong, I don't think anyone should be running around abusing women, just don't dish it out if you can't take it. 
Yeah the idea that a woman should be able to just attack with impunity is just nonsense. Fighting back is risky legally though.
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: Adolin]
#21926562 - 07/10/15 10:57 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm not a violent person anyways, it would take months of frustration just to make me yell but I see the shit all the time....oh he hit me after I ran him over with my car and tried to bash his head in with a hammer(or something equally as fucked up as an example)... um ok? I would've hit you too.
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: Adolin] 2
#21926568 - 07/10/15 10:57 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Gresh said: that said, beating the shit out of a weaker person is almost never alright, wether they are a man or woman. a solid smack to the face will usually shock them enough that they lay off. beating someone into submission is a different story though
Yeah that's where it stops being self defense. You should be able to do what's necessary to stop the attack, but no more.
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: psi]
#21926576 - 07/10/15 10:59 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I slap women around all the time. Stock holme syndrome is a legit strategy.
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21926611 - 07/10/15 11:10 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Dude thanks for the post. Literally made my night that much better hahaha
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: Shroom Kitty]
#21926667 - 07/10/15 11:32 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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if a women hits u first she is no longer a women, but a dude
what happens next is not up to me
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: Heffy]
#21926739 - 07/11/15 12:02 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Heffy said:
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ThatKidWithTheFace said:
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Rebelutionsssss said: First of all hitting a women is never acceptable and i think it's the worst thing you could do to your significant other.
Sexism, man, gotta love it
Pretty much right?
"My friends girlfriend flies into a rage and attacks him all the time, it was totally unacceptable for him to hit her back though."
is that what the OP said. i could have sworn the first fuckin sentence was a disclaimer for you... erm... special... people-things to focus less on THAT discussion and more about the turmoil and ridiculousness of that situation, but oh nevermind. i see you guys want to ruin the thread.
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: akira_akuma]
#21926759 - 07/11/15 12:08 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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this thread is about how crazy their relationship is, and toxic; and then about how OP thinks that women shouldn't be be hit, until they hit you first OR unless they are someone you love which in that case OP is right, you don't love someone, they slap you, and then you HAVE to slap them back to be "fair". that's not love. that was his point, i think. either way. thread is another dumb thread where people parrot their disdain for this specific subject matter's intricacy's and opt for the pleasure of repeatedly re-enforcing their belief's by re-stating their position, the position of just about everybody these days, about how women need to be hit if they hit you first; even though that's not what the thread is about: it's about how these particular people have a toxic relationship, and how that if they love each why would they be so toxic to each other. i know that ties into the whole you don't hit anyone shtick that this'll eventually lead to but we really honestly all fucking know that already.
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: akira_akuma]
#21926779 - 07/11/15 12:15 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Why doesn't your buddy find a new girlfriend - perhaps one whos not abusive with metal,issues ? She's just going to drive him loco. Maybe have them type in what needs to be said in the scrollbar - then scroll to a scribble party with just boxes and rope then murder that pushy
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Re: Soooo I guess my buddy just hit his girlfriend [Re: JayZ Morgan]
#21926785 - 07/11/15 12:17 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Can we see a pic of this he-woman who punches out car windows?
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