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Anonymous #1
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Odd Life
#21921019 - 07/09/15 05:38 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I have had a best friend since the first day of kindergarten. he has a little sister that is 3-4 years younger than him but sort of more 4 years from me. anyways im 20 years old now and suffer from not getting any and i sometimes fantasize or has these sexual thoughts about his little sister who is 16 now. i am uncertain if its normal to just find her more attractive as she gets older am i wrong for thinking like this. its all left me very confused. i have known her her whole life and as long as i remember. these thoughts do sort of bother me. sort of was like my lil sis growing up but she isnt IRL now its just sort of weird.... any thoughts?
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Anonymous #2
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A 20 year old guy wants to fuck everything he can. It's just how it is. Your dick is gonna do a lot of talking until you fuck out the horny.
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LackToast
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Registered: 08/28/10
Posts: 217
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There is nothing weird about that at all. if you feel wierd that shes younger, well younger (than you) women will always be attractive. And if its because youve known her all your life, then understand you will always develop feelings for attractive women the longer you know them. If its because its your friends sister, wait a few years see if persist, and then talk to your friend.
but yea dude i live on the block with this chick who moved in when she was probably, 10 0r so, i was like 16 at the time. now im 24 and shes probably 18 or so. i see her every now and then and im like damn, i remember her when she was a little girl, and shes always checking me out, but i feel like that would be weird to pursue.
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ladycakes
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Registered: 05/24/15
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Loc: FL, but not on purpose.
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I was in this exact scenario, except I was the younger girl and it was my best friend's older brother. We had known each other since birth. I don't really remember when I started feeling attracted to him, but I was 24 (he was 29) before anything ever happened between us.
Long story short, it's not weird at all. Pretty common. Be patient, there are few things more tempting to a teenage girl than her older bro's best friends. Omnomnomnom.
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Anonymous #1
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Like the idea of it doesn't sound bad its more the fear of it making me a bad person. I feel like it is possible to happen one day for some reason. i don't feel like it would happen soon but like what happened with you in our 20's maybe some thing could happen 
when she brings friends over its just like unbearable for me because i feel like a pedo or a creep just fantasizing about girls that have an age gap.
i would never hit on my best friends sister but if she tried for something i dont know what i would do.
she obviously liked me when we were younger and it was weird i dont think she has any feelings like that any more, thankfully, but im not sure she doesnt treat me like her brother. shes got a bf so thats good. its just so weird to me because i have never thought this way before...
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Black_Sunset
Amateur Anesthesiologist


Registered: 11/16/08
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It's totally normal. You're a developing sexual being. I grew up with 2 girls. One was my age one was 2 years younger. The one my age was my first kiss did I-show-you-you-show-me all that jazz. Now that I'm mid-20's the younger one is fucking bangin I would do it in a sec. Not weird at all to me
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Anonymous #1
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i guess she has a friend thats 18 or 19 i might try for her friend because well its like the only girl around my age that i have come across thats single in YEARS!!!
i dont get out much hopefully she will dig me. she may not which is straight she may go for my best friend which is okay by me.
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Anonymous #1
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I still have an issue where i can barely even talk to her. at least it feels that way. its not because of just the fantasizing its also because shes an extremely innocent young girl and technically i am a bad influence so i try to keep my distance from her.
its weird though because i find it hard to talk to her out of fear or something i do not know but it sucks being a guy that is for sure....
i am afraid thinking this way will get me in trouble....
any more thoughts?
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ergoticmandala



Registered: 06/03/15
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don't see anything wrong with trying to get with the 18-19 year old girl. I'm pretty sure if you feel that way the guilt might eat u up inside if she starts liking you, but if not then all is well. Just be respectful and talk to her, see whats up
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Anonymous #1
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im talking about my best friends lil sis. whos 16. that 18 year old girl just moved away so forget that.
its just so awkward yknow?
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ergoticmandala



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lol yea I know what u mean, does she seem mature?
honestly its good to talk to people on here to throw around ideas but I think u truly know whats up.
awkwardness in the beginning of a relationship, friend ones included, its normal and goes away with time
Either u persue her and maybe the awkwardness goes away and she totally likes u or it goes to hell and then ur sister gets mad at u for trying to get with her friend.
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ergoticmandala



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daMed if u do, damned if u dont
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Anonymous #1
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immature. purely attraction because im 20 and want to fuck. i didnt know it gets this bad though... does it ever get better...
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ergoticmandala



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im in the same sort of situation right now actually, I got out of a relatively serious relationship where I could have sex + sexual favors whenever I want and then it totally stopped, I was slightly depressed for a month and it got better after maybe 2 and a half months.
Now i'm waiting until I go back to school to try and get some, so I can't really say if it gets better but I presume its going to.
if u think about it it can't get any worse, (we) are not getting any at the moment, we can really only go up from here
either come onto her or look for other people
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Anonymous #1
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i want t get with my sisters friends... or have her hook me up with someone. i dont get out much and i am out of school.
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ergoticmandala



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good luck man, don't do anyting illegal tho lol
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Anonymous #1
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i want older women. thats why i made the thread its weird that i find myself sexually attracted to a younger girl.
i have gone 4 almost 5 years solo i can go a bit longer. just hoping its not tooo long yknow..
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Anonymous #1
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one more thing i need help with. my sister cam and picked me up and she had a friend with her i havent really met and i think shes cute. she kind of seemed like she might have been interested in me but i am not sure.
anyways i want to ask my sister about her friend but i dont know how. im shy and not usually talk about girls with my sister, she probably thinks im gay or asexual, but her friend was cute and a stoner so i really want to ask her about her friend but im nervous.
any advice or thoughts on how i should approach this?
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Amanita86
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Registered: 09/26/12
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By asking her about her friend.
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Anonymous #1
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how? i dont see her friend much she doesnt hang around her often and it would be awkward to do so with my sister and her other friend there.
also i cant really take girls out im broke and no job no car nothing. i wouldnt mind trying though yknow?
is talking to my sister about it a bad idea.?
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