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zappaisgod
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: Almond Flour]
#21916940 - 07/08/15 08:47 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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The suddenness and irrationality is exactly what is so awful about it. It is a horror beyond measure. You can't understand what happened.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: zappaisgod]
#21916956 - 07/08/15 08:50 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: The suddenness and irrationality is exactly what is so awful about it. It is a horror beyond measure. You can't understand what happened.
I understand its horror, and I dont understand what happened having never been through it. But I am telling you, if my child died....suddenly....as a father I am saying I could make peace with that.
So many parents right now are watching their children go through cancer treatments, to watch their little ones suffer and suffer without them having the full mental processes to comprehend what exactly is happening! (Maybe its a blessing). But I personally, would make peace with my son being taken away suddenly.
I would be broken I would be emotionally scarred. I would be in horrible shape.
But SIDS is a pretty damn mellow way out of planet earth. Let me just put it this way, I would be able to keep my faith in God.
....i hope. Maybe im wrong
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Edited by Almond Flour (07/08/15 08:51 PM)
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: zappaisgod]
#21916965 - 07/08/15 08:52 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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My condolences. I read this thread earlier and don't get me wrong, thought it was awful, but it's just now starting to sink in how horrifying it would really be. I wish you the best.
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zappaisgod
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: luvdemboomers]
#21917006 - 07/08/15 09:00 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm the wrong guy to make that post to
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx] 1
#21917024 - 07/08/15 09:04 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Dude. Fucking sucks to hear this.
My brother died from SIDS when I was a kid. I still remember that fucking morning like it was yesterday. Waking up to my parents screaming, not wanting to get out of bed because I didn't want to know what was happening. Hiding under a blanket on the couch while police and firemen were all in our house.
I can only imagine what that would have been like for my parents. Fucking horrible.
So many times I wish I could know what my brother would be like now. Where he would have fit into the picture. How having him around would have changed the course of my life no doubt. I missed out on being a big brother, and I was so fucking excited for it too.
There's really nothing I can say to help you. But my thoughts are with you at this horrible time.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: Artnotwar]
#21917038 - 07/08/15 09:06 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Artnotwar said: Dude. Fucking sucks to hear this.
My brother died from SIDS when I was a kid. I still remember that fucking morning like it was yesterday. Waking up to my parents screaming, not wanting to get out of bed because I didn't want to know what was happening. Hiding under a blanket on the couch while police and firemen were all in our house.
I can only imagine what that would have been like for my parents. Fucking horrible.
So many times I wish I could know what my brother would be like now. Where he would have fit into the picture. How having him around would have changed the course of my life no doubt. I missed out on being a big brother, and I was so fucking excited for it too.
There's really nothing I can say to help you. But my thoughts are with you at this horrible time.

This is my story. Steven Frederick. What was your brother's name?
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: zappaisgod]
#21917061 - 07/08/15 09:12 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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My brothers name was Todd. Man this is making me upset just thinking about it.
If I ever have my own child, I will name him Todd if it's a boy. Not sure if that's weird or what, but I have wanted to do that for a long time. I know he can't be replaced, but more of a tribute.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: Artnotwar]
#21917083 - 07/08/15 09:17 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Damn hTx. ....Damn.
Edited by TheMule73 (07/08/15 09:18 PM)
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: zappaisgod]
#21917090 - 07/08/15 09:19 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said:
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Artnotwar said: Dude. Fucking sucks to hear this.
My brother died from SIDS when I was a kid. I still remember that fucking morning like it was yesterday. Waking up to my parents screaming, not wanting to get out of bed because I didn't want to know what was happening. Hiding under a blanket on the couch while police and firemen were all in our house.
I can only imagine what that would have been like for my parents. Fucking horrible.
So many times I wish I could know what my brother would be like now. Where he would have fit into the picture. How having him around would have changed the course of my life no doubt. I missed out on being a big brother, and I was so fucking excited for it too.
There's really nothing I can say to help you. But my thoughts are with you at this horrible time.

This is my story. Steven Frederick. What was your brother's name?
Not to be the insensitive bastard here but your story is the best possible sibling death scenario that I can fathom. A lot of people lose a sibling at 15, 20, 25, 30, etc., which is far worse than losing a 2 month old.
My mom, 2 aunts, and uncle lost their sister when she was 9 to what is now an easily curable stomach ulcer. Back in the 50s/60s it was apparently a death sentence. To carry my insensitivies further this story is also pretty low on the sibling death scale, imo.
Now losing a child is a totally different ball game, but I'd much rather lose my kid to SIDS than lose him or her later in life.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: Confucian] 3
#21917130 - 07/08/15 09:29 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Confucian said: Not to be the insensitive bastard here
You're not being insensitive, it's just you really don't know what you are talking about.
I could argue the opposite, and say that at least your mum got to know her sister. Something I will never get to do with my brother.
Forever having the feeling of 'what would have been' can fucking play on your mind just as much as losing someone at an older age.
Sure, I didn't see my brother die a gruesome death or anything, but what I experienced was just as fucking real as losing someone that has lived for longer, and has affected me in ways that I will never even know or understand.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: Confucian] 2
#21917160 - 07/08/15 09:36 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Look dude I've lost 3 siblings... one to sids, one to a motorcycle accident and one to a atv accident and I can say from experience that they are all equally painful. This is not the place to voice those types of opinions, imagine that your son died and someone said to you what you have said... very disrespectful at the worst possible time, you should be ashamed.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: chicksgrowtoo] 1
#21917187 - 07/08/15 09:48 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Don't know what to say.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#21917193 - 07/08/15 09:50 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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you're right, but i think he's just trying to connect/help. i think everyone here feels a lot for op.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: 404]
#21917203 - 07/08/15 09:52 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Sorry for your loss... I also am at a loss for words..
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: 2shoes]
#21917267 - 07/08/15 10:13 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Rest in peace
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: zappaisgod]
#21917272 - 07/08/15 10:14 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: I'm the wrong guy to make that post to
Not trying to offend you Like I said my heart goes out to everyone who has dealt with this. All I can do is make an educated guess for how I would respond. I pray I never have to find out, as for anyone
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#21917284 - 07/08/15 10:16 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: Look dude I've lost 3 siblings... one to sids, one to a motorcycle accident and one to a atv accident and I can say from experience that they are all equally painful. This is not the place to voice those types of opinions, imagine that your son died and someone said to you what you have said... very disrespectful at the worst possible time, you should be ashamed.
You have a point here. I apologize Zappa or anyone. Regardless of how this may or may not hit people....its some tragic shit that deserves an elementary respect.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: zappaisgod] 1
#21917769 - 07/09/15 01:21 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: The suddenness and irrationality is exactly what is so awful about it. It is a horror beyond measure. You can't understand what happened.
I recognize what you say. There was a brother in-between my sister and me. At age 2, he was run over by a car in front of our house. This was before I was born, and arguably, I wouldn't have existed if this hadn't happened. But that doesn't matter; I know that my parents have never been the same. Despite the good things that came afterwards, there has always been a void in the shape of a young child in my parents' souls, and nothing could ever fill that void.
hTx, I'm deeply grieved by your loss and although I haven't felt your pain, I have seen enough of it to know how fundamental it is. Loosing a child is the biggest drama that can ever happen to a human being. I feel deeply for you and I can only wish that you will, at some point, hold your head up high again, and cherish the memory of your little guy. Nothing can bring him back, but he won't be gone entirely as long as he lives on in your memory.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx]
#21917785 - 07/09/15 01:27 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I am so very sorry for you're loss. I cannot even begin to fathom what I would feel like if I lost one of my daughters and would not presume to claim to understand what you are going through. I'm wishing you the best and please seek the local support groups and consider individual therapy as well. Losing a child is supposed to be the hardest thing anyone can live through so please please please seek help.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: mndfreeze]
#21917885 - 07/09/15 02:36 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Im so sorry. I can't imagine
So much love your way
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