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concrete_666
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx] 1
#21916120 - 07/08/15 05:44 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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hTx said: I am incredibly distraught and I don't know what to do.
He was.So beautiful...No words can describe the pain I feel. SIDs. I loved him more than anything and just..wow. It's all fucked. I have not stopped crying for over four hours..the.mother even worse. He was so beautiful.. Any grieving advice would.be helpful.
Dude! Im so sorry for your loss! I know words cant express what your feeling right now. Hearing about a innocent child passing is just gut wrenching to me. It so unfortunate. Please keep your head up man. Things will improve.....nothing will ever replace that void.....but stay positive. Even though thats easy to say. Im sorry you had to experience such a thing. Some things in life just dont make any sense.....just dont give up bud.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx]
#21916227 - 07/08/15 06:16 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm so sorry you're going through that. I can't even imagine the pain your going through.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx] 1
#21916247 - 07/08/15 06:23 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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That so tragic man My heart goes out to you and your woman. I know it won't be easy. But try to stay positive. I can't even imagine how terrible that must feel.. fuck man. Grieve.. grieve.. grieve. You two have each other at least. We are here for you as well. Fucking hell!!!
I will grieve with you.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx]
#21916334 - 07/08/15 06:46 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Fuck..... I can't imagine losing a child. Cry as much as you need to, and lean on everyone/anyone that you can, for as long as you need to. You'll get through this.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx]
#21916377 - 07/08/15 06:57 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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HTX, we're all with you buddy, god took him because he was too amazing for this world, he's an angel in heaven, he is someones guardian angel, he IS beautiful, not was, he will never be forgotten, he will never be lost, he is still with us, his soul will fly on, in the gleaming son, in the bellowing light, he shall shine. Keep your head high, a glimmer on the edge of the edge of an eclipse is his smile. We all love you, and yours.
Truly, Lovesquare
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: Dark_Star]
#21916383 - 07/08/15 06:58 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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u have an angel watching over u and ur wife now, htx 
rip beautiful baby
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: zZZz] 1
#21916650 - 07/08/15 07:53 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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My heart goes out to you as well.
May the both of your cope and heal together in a healthy manner.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx]
#21916659 - 07/08/15 07:56 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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hTx said: I am incredibly distraught and I don't know what to do.
He was.So beautiful...No words can describe the pain I feel. SIDs. I loved him more than anything and just..wow. It's all fucked. I have not stopped crying for over four hours..the.mother even worse. He was so beautiful.. Any grieving advice would.be helpful.
HOLY HOLY HOLY SHIT DUDE! I can not imagine the fucking way you must feel. Actually I can, and I am seriously worried about your sanity.
I am so sorry bro, I really am. Thats bullshit I know, but I want you to know I feel for you man This is literally heart breaking to read.
Im so sorry dude. I can not express this enough
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: Almond Flour]
#21916663 - 07/08/15 07:58 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Sorry to hear.
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Almond Flour
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: Almond Flour] 1
#21916667 - 07/08/15 07:58 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I will take prayers to Church for you next Sunday. Anything you want me to tell God? Maybe slap him in the face for you
-------------------- Hippies and Liberals love Pope Francis, so why dont I quote him for you guys. "There is NO SALVATION outside the Catholic Church"
Edited by Almond Flour (07/08/15 08:00 PM)
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zappaisgod
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: Almond Flour]
#21916811 - 07/08/15 08:27 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Almond Flour said: I will take prayers to Church for you next Sunday. Anything you want me to tell God? Maybe slap him in the face for you 
Beat the shit out of that cocksucker
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Almond Flour
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: zappaisgod] 1
#21916814 - 07/08/15 08:27 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said:
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Almond Flour said: I will take prayers to Church for you next Sunday. Anything you want me to tell God? Maybe slap him in the face for you 
Beat the shit out of that cocksucker
Lets keep it civil!
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zappaisgod
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: Almond Flour]
#21916865 - 07/08/15 08:34 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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You offered to slap it. I just took it up a notch.
You guys don't understand how close this hits me. Steven would have been around 50 now My mother was devastated and never the same. We moved from Brooklyn to a town of 800 people so my father could be home more often (he was a sailor with a master's license). My whole life was changed. I'm not saying if it was bad or good but it was extremely different
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Almond Flour
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: zappaisgod]
#21916869 - 07/08/15 08:35 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: You offered to slap it. I just took it up a notch.
You guys don't understand how close this hits me. Steven would have been around 50 now My mother was devastated and never the same. We moved from Brooklyn to a town of 800 people so my father could be home more often (he was a sailor with a master's license). My whole life was changed. I'm not saying if it was bad or good but it was extremely different
YOu lost a child zappa ???
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Edited by Almond Flour (07/08/15 08:35 PM)
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SirShroomsAlott
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: Almond Flour]
#21916884 - 07/08/15 08:37 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Brother, in the same way as OP's child passed.
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Almond Flour
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: zappaisgod]
#21916891 - 07/08/15 08:38 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: You offered to slap it. I just took it up a notch.
You guys don't understand how close this hits me. Steven would have been around 50 now My mother was devastated and never the same. We moved from Brooklyn to a town of 800 people so my father could be home more often (he was a sailor with a master's license). My whole life was changed. I'm not saying if it was bad or good but it was extremely different
Im so sorry bro. I understand your hate for God. You have earned it .
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zappaisgod
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Worst thing ever. If it had been my child I don't know what. If anything happens to Rebecca I am a goner. I just will not give a fuck about anything
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zappaisgod
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: Almond Flour]
#21916905 - 07/08/15 08:41 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Almond Flour said:
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zappaisgod said: You offered to slap it. I just took it up a notch.
You guys don't understand how close this hits me. Steven would have been around 50 now My mother was devastated and never the same. We moved from Brooklyn to a town of 800 people so my father could be home more often (he was a sailor with a master's license). My whole life was changed. I'm not saying if it was bad or good but it was extremely different
Im so sorry bro. I understand your hate for God. You have earned it .
I don't hate what I don't think exists
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: zappaisgod]
#21916920 - 07/08/15 08:44 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I seriously fear to think of how it would hit me if my son ever died.
SIDS though I could make peace with. Its peaceful, its "Sudden" thats why it is called that.
I would be far more broken if my son was ever raped, or mentally scarred permanently for life. It would be hard, but I would take solace in the fact that he got to leave Planet Earth without any of the hell we all get to experience. If I simply woke up and the Lord took him....I would make peace with that
-------------------- Hippies and Liberals love Pope Francis, so why dont I quote him for you guys. "There is NO SALVATION outside the Catholic Church"
Edited by Almond Flour (07/08/15 08:45 PM)
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SirShroomsAlott
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: zappaisgod] 1
#21916931 - 07/08/15 08:45 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: Worst thing ever. If it had been my child I don't know what. If anything happens to Rebecca I am a goner. I just will not give a fuck about anything
The one thing my friend said to me when he opened up about his loss "A child is supposed to watch his parents die first, a parent shouldn't ever have to watch their child die"
It's one of the fucked up things about the world, and unfortunately something I feel anyone who has a kid will understand, but should never have to go through.
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