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zappaisgod
horrid asshole


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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: SunnyD] 1
#21915200 - 07/08/15 02:03 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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He will never come to peace with this loss.
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The Phleg
Big Dick Chakra




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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx] 1
#21915237 - 07/08/15 02:11 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Sorry for your loss.
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Niffla



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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: The Phleg] 1
#21915324 - 07/08/15 02:35 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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my deepest condolences hTx
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SunnyD
WiZarD oF LoVe



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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: zappaisgod] 3
#21915335 - 07/08/15 02:40 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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How are you so sure?
Time heals all wounds, I feel through life or death
but we will not be getting into it,
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zappaisgod
horrid asshole


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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: SunnyD] 1
#21915347 - 07/08/15 02:43 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
AddyZomeD said: How are you so sure?
Time heals all wounds, I feel through life or death
but we will not be getting into it,
No, it doesn't. There is no healing from this. It is life changing hell. You have no idea how bad this is. Don't even.
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Hayoxp
Enlil sucks cock


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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: zappaisgod] 1
#21915359 - 07/08/15 02:46 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Having another child is the only way
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Thayendanegea
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: zappaisgod] 2
#21915370 - 07/08/15 02:49 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Unimaginable! I can't begin to express my condolences for such a loss. Prayers to you and his mother.
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zappaisgod
horrid asshole


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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: Hayoxp] 1
#21915378 - 07/08/15 02:50 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Hayoxp said: Having another child is the only way
Won't matter.
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chicksgrowtoo


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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: SunnyD] 2
#21915386 - 07/08/15 02:52 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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He's right az, I had the same thing happen to a little brother and 20 years later it still hurts... the best that can happen is you think of it a tiny bit less often as the years pass but it's still there...every holiday, every birthday, every now and then when something reminds you of them. this was my brother, I couldn't imagine if it was my son.
Htx I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Burke Dennings
baby merchant

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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: chicksgrowtoo] 6
#21915446 - 07/08/15 03:06 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Hayoxp, Zomed. The two of you, just please stop.
HTx, there really are no words. I'm just so sorry man. My heart breaks for you.
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OhMrJohnson
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My deepest condolences OP
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MajickMuffin
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx] 2
#21915503 - 07/08/15 03:17 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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hTx said: I am incredibly distraught and I don't know what to do.
He was.So beautiful...No words can describe the pain I feel. SIDs. I loved him more than anything and just..wow. It's all fucked. I have not stopped crying for over four hours..the.mother even worse. He was so beautiful.. Any grieving advice would.be helpful.
I can only imagine the feelings you are dealing with, and your family.
The only thing you can do is remember the memories you have with him and hold them close and important to you. You must learn to overcome this situtation, learn to come to peace with it.
He may not exist in this body, at this time, in this world anymore. But he does exist in another place, where you will be able to see him again, at some point.
We all feel for you.
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SunnyD
WiZarD oF LoVe



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All I did was give support, and say one day you might come to peace? I bet he is utterly devastated to every meaning of the word,
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zappaisgod
horrid asshole


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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: SunnyD] 1
#21915526 - 07/08/15 03:21 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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AddyZomeD said: All I did was give support, and say one day you might come to peace? I bet he is utterly devastated to every meaning of the word,
I know that is what you meant.
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Burke Dennings
baby merchant

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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: SunnyD] 1
#21915544 - 07/08/15 03:25 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I might've misinterpreted what you said then. Nothing personal.
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Shining Cosmos
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Your life will never be the same, but you need to continue on. Live your life, support your family, take happiness when you can find it. It will be tough but it isn't goodbye, it's a see you later.
So sorry for your loss.
Edited by Shining Cosmos (07/08/15 03:58 PM)
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Malcolm_Xtasy
Oh baby what Is you doin??



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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx] 1
#21915650 - 07/08/15 03:50 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm really sorry to hear that man for what it's worth
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SirShroomsAlott
Howdy



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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx] 2
#21915794 - 07/08/15 04:20 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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It will never be the same, time won't heal it, but time will let you learn how to live with it, but it will still forever be there.
I had a friend lose his kid and even after he opened up to me about it I still can't imagine what you are going through and it's not something I can pretend to understand or know what it is like. I truly wish the best for you and wish I could say something to ease you but I know there isn't anything anyone can say that can make this better. All I can recommend is don't hold it in, let it out, all of it, because bottling it up will continue to build until you breakdown and this isn't something you should hold in. Spend time with your loved ones, and find people to talk to who can truly relate to what you're going through. I really can't even express how much I feel for you... cry, talk, do whatever you have to man, and just attempt to keep your head up, as hard as I can imagine that will be.
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DustBunny


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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx]
#21915931 - 07/08/15 04:54 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Watching my grandparents bury my Dad was awful enough, and he was 48; I can't begin to imagine.. The best I can think of saying is to try your best to not think about it for now. I have no experience with it, so that could be awful advice. A support group seems like a great idea. Again I wouldn't rush into it, but I have no idea..
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r00tuuu123
Now I'm just really piseed



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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: DustBunny]
#21916089 - 07/08/15 05:29 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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hTx man I can't begin to feel what you feel but as you can see there is a ton of people on here who will support you.
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