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My son passed away this morning. 4
#21914872 - 07/08/15 12:43 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I am incredibly distraught and I don't know what to do.
He was.So beautiful...No words can describe the pain I feel. SIDs. I loved him more than anything and just..wow. It's all fucked. I have not stopped crying for over four hours..the.mother even worse. He was so beautiful.. Any grieving advice would.be helpful.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx] 2
#21914892 - 07/08/15 12:48 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I (we all) love you and yours. Focus on the love of your family and the others you meet. And breathe deep and firm. Sending you warmth.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx] 3
#21914907 - 07/08/15 12:49 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'd recommend looking into SIDS support groups in your area. I'm sorry for your loss.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx] 1
#21914912 - 07/08/15 12:50 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Sorry to hear of your loss. As Ive never been through that I cant imagine what words would be of any worth other than sorry, so I won't pretend like I do..
Thoughts & prayers, &
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: trampis] 1
#21914913 - 07/08/15 12:50 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Stay around family
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: Soul-Shine] 1
#21914914 - 07/08/15 12:50 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Sorry about that (although i know that means nothing). I cant imagine. What should you do about it? There is really nothing to be done. Move on ( although easier said then done). It will happen eventually though
I really feel for you
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx] 1
#21914926 - 07/08/15 12:55 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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sorry for your loss hTx. i think the best thing for you to do would be with people you really love right now. it sucks and i'm sure the pain is vivid right now, but just cry and let everything all out.
it may take a while to get over, but just be strong and work your way through it.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx]
#21914932 - 07/08/15 12:56 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx] 2
#21914936 - 07/08/15 12:58 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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The greatest grief brings the greatest happiness. I can't imagine me acting any different if that happened to me.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: Hayoxp] 1
#21914954 - 07/08/15 01:03 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Wow I am so sorry that has happened 
I agree stay with family. Make calls to those close to you, it is important to be around people you love right now
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: ManianFH] 2
#21914961 - 07/08/15 01:05 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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You and your wife will be happy again one day. When you're ready try yo work on finding that happiness in every day.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: ManianFH] 1
#21915010 - 07/08/15 01:16 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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life is just a ride...
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx] 1
#21915027 - 07/08/15 01:22 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I'm sorry for your loss.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: lowbrow] 1
#21915070 - 07/08/15 01:33 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Oh man, that is so sad sincere condolences
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx] 1
#21915127 - 07/08/15 01:42 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Damn, that must hurt. My condolences as well.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: Le_Canard] 1
#21915164 - 07/08/15 01:52 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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My condolences OP. How old was your son? What was the cause of death?
Is there anything we can do to help you through this?
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: Patlal] 1
#21915182 - 07/08/15 01:58 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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He said SIDS so im guessing an infant and thats how he died. But man what terrible thing my heart goes out to OP. I mean something like that there was prob nothing you could have done man. I mean something like that was ment to happen or it wouldnt have you know? I know that prob doesnt make it less painful but maybe it will help you come to terms.
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Patlal
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Oh shit... Wow, that must be horrible....
I'm very sorry OP...
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx] 17
#21915188 - 07/08/15 02:01 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Quote:
hTx said: I am incredibly distraught and I don't know what to do.
He was.So beautiful...No words can describe the pain I feel. SIDs. I loved him more than anything and just..wow. It's all fucked. I have not stopped crying for over four hours..the.mother even worse. He was so beautiful.. Any grieving advice would.be helpful.
I lost a brother to SIDS. 2 months. You will never be the same again. You will have good days and have some laughs eventually but you will never be the same. It is the worst that can happen. I think about Steven Frederick often and I was 9. There is no greater horror. I remember that morning like it was yesterday. The phone call and the firemen running in and my mother just gone for months. They sent me and my sister to live with relatives for a couple months and my father changed his career path to be home more.
On my first date with my wife she asked me what I wanted in life. I said, "do my work, laugh and die before my children."
I am crying for your baby. That is not a lie.
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Re: My son passed away this morning. [Re: hTx] 3
#21915194 - 07/08/15 02:02 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Oh man..
That's gotta hurt like no other

Just know one day down the road, you will come to peace with this loss..
I wish you the best,
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