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topdog82
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"becoming more positive?"
#21902036 - 07/05/15 05:34 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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What is a specific activity that one could use to become more optimisitic, confident and positive? The couple months have taken toll on my mind and body and it has put me in a negative state. I am not "depressed" but I would be lying if I said that I was not a tad bummed
The other night I ended my dry spell but the sex was amateur on my part. My rythm, and speed were both off. I could barely get it up
I currently am in physical therapy so no excercising for a few more months, and I currently meditate, eat healthy, and sleep. I have started journaling, but was hoping anyone had any specific tips?
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Re: "becoming more positive?" [Re: topdog82] 3
#21902055 - 07/05/15 05:39 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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do more drugs
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Try being more positive
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writing, i would suspect could help. affirming your goal's with action would be my most endowed response, i think; and i mean immediately, and of course start small, and keep up your therapy.
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: Try being more positive
could you please...?
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Re: "becoming more positive?" [Re: akira_akuma]
#21902173 - 07/05/15 06:14 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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You could always eat some MDMA.
MDMA can make me see the positives to something as negative as getting beat up
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Re: "becoming more positive?" [Re: akira_akuma]
#21902192 - 07/05/15 06:20 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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luvdemboomers said: do more drugs 
I'm on it
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akira_akuma said:
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: Try being more positive
could you please...?
I assume (and hope) he was just joking. I specified in the original post that I wanted a specific activity or set of ideas that could help. I feel the modern self development/spirituality community is so rife with ideas on being positive, yet they rarely have grounded ways of approaching the problem itselfQuote:
akira_akuma said: writing, i would suspect could help. affirming your goal's with action would be my most endowed response, i think; and i mean immediately, and of course start small, and keep up your therapy.
I think I will spend a little more time journaling daily. I think it has done wonders already. Being your own therapist does wonders using a journal Thats also a valid point. I guess I will start cracking away at my goals and taking small steps
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topdog82
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MilkdudTitties said: You could always eat some MDMA.
MDMA can make me see the positives to something as negative as getting beat up
Sadly, I am in a new area, and that would be a little hard to get. I could always ask around, but that wouldn't really yield quality/trusted source
None of the empathogenic chems are currently availbe in the US. I was looking for research chems like 2c-b etc. I have had my best trips like that. But I guess I may try 5-mapb or related compounds
If you have any info on 2c-b or related 2c's available easily online, please let me know. 2c-b bka or watever it is called has limited saftey profile. I am not too comfy with ingesting it
Are there any empathogenic tryptamines available? I was going to trip 4-aco regardless. But 4-aco lacks the empathogenic power of strong MDMA
I hate the government and thier drug laws :/
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Re: "becoming more positive?" [Re: topdog82]
#21902251 - 07/05/15 06:40 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Go to music festivals. Or otherwise surround yourself by situations that help put you in a positive frame of mind.
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Re: "becoming more positive?" [Re: topdog82]
#21902259 - 07/05/15 06:43 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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well it's really invested and self-imposed stigma that drugs are given by the masses that purports to policy makers that reform is needed restructuring in the department's of procuring illegal drugs and "busting" crim-crim's who cook up huge operation's; as opposed to informing them that reform is needed on the law's that make the trade so lucrative and get so many people killed in the first place, and make them less marketable to crim-crim's, make your children more aware of off-hand drug use and that your misuse and abuse of a drug is gonna end you up in a shatner of a situation there and to just not bother risking it altogether, because then they'll end up a crim-crim themselves, though neutered. though unable to fend for themselves in the crim-crim's world. because that world's so full of beggar's now that only the lowest of scum are involved in attempt to de-husk the elementary useful and altogether powerful and enabled only for Adults, so there's that too. it's a win-win to avoid that shat.
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Re: "becoming more positive?" [Re: akira_akuma]
#21902440 - 07/05/15 07:28 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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i love you
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Re: "becoming more positive?" [Re: Envix]
#21902453 - 07/05/15 07:33 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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For me to help.being positive its to start good *positive * habits
Excersise Eating healthy reducing stressful activitys The occasional psychedelic trip does wonders for a mental refresh ime( it is not needed )
Chase your bliss one step at a time
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Re: "becoming more positive?" [Re: Envix]
#21902468 - 07/05/15 07:37 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Envix said: i love you
Envix baw...
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Re: "becoming more positive?" [Re: topdog82]
#21902525 - 07/05/15 07:51 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Listen to your favorite music!!!!

Or try out a new genre you feel drawn towards!
I'm glad to hear you're meditating and eating healthy!
Develop your skills, and master the day!
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Re: "becoming more positive?" [Re: HalluciNate]
#21902736 - 07/05/15 08:38 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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akira_akuma said: well it's really invested and self-imposed stigma that drugs are given by the masses that purports to policy makers that reform is needed restructuring in the department's of procuring illegal drugs and "busting" crim-crim's who cook up huge operation's; as opposed to informing them that reform is needed on the law's that make the trade so lucrative and get so many people killed in the first place, and make them less marketable to crim-crim's, make your children more aware of off-hand drug use and that your misuse and abuse of a drug is gonna end you up in a shatner of a situation there and to just not bother risking it altogether, because then they'll end up a crim-crim themselves, though neutered. though unable to fend for themselves in the crim-crim's world. because that world's so full of beggar's now that only the lowest of scum are involved in attempt to de-husk the elementary useful and altogether powerful and enabled only for Adults, so there's that too. it's a win-win to avoid that shat.
your profile pic scares me. but regardless   Quote:
HalluciNate said: Listen to your favorite music!!!!

Or try out a new genre you feel drawn towards!
I'm glad to hear you're meditating and eating healthy!
Develop your skills, and master the day! 

Ill try music. I may write a list of things that I am thankful fo every morning or something
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Re: "becoming more positive?" [Re: fbi365]
#21902737 - 07/05/15 08:38 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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fbi365 said: Go to music festivals. Or otherwise surround yourself by situations that help put you in a positive frame of mind.
I could try that as well!
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Re: "becoming more positive?" [Re: topdog82]
#21902748 - 07/05/15 08:41 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Thankfulness is ALWAYS a great place to put awareness.  
Oh, and how could I forget the golden three?!?!?!

- Love All
- Be Happy
- Expect to be surprised
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Re: "becoming more positive?" [Re: topdog82]
#21902767 - 07/05/15 08:44 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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A couple years ago I made the move to not take in any form of negativity, whether it be music, television, movies, people, etc.
I flood my senses with comedy as far as TV & movies, and flood my mind with positive vibe ass kickin music and remove myself from any negative situation that involves people, friends, etc.
It has worked wonders! I wake up everyday with my toes tapping and whistling dixie!
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Re: "becoming more positive?" [Re: RobZombie68]
#21902801 - 07/05/15 08:52 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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RobZombie68 said: A couple years ago I made the move to not take in any form of negativity, whether it be music, television, movies, people, etc.
I flood my senses with comedy as far as TV & movies, and flood my mind with positive vibe ass kickin music and remove myself from any negative situation that involves people, friends, etc.
It has worked wonders! I wake up everyday with my toes tapping and whistling dixie! 
Thats good advice. Its the same reason that i don't watch horror movies.
Why would i want to put that stuff into my mind? Purposely scaring myself is not something i do
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Re: "becoming more positive?" [Re: RobZombie68]
#21902843 - 07/05/15 09:04 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yea, I won't even watch dramas, heartbreaking love stories, yadda, yadda.
A female friend said she watched a movie that made her cry, I said "Why in the hell would anybody watch anything that makes them feel bad?"
I don't get it anymore.
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