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POLL... Have you ever cheated?
#21901720 - 07/05/15 04:07 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Simple question. post anon if you must. have you ever cheated during a relationship? how did you feel about it before, during and after? would you ever do it again?
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#21901874 - 07/05/15 04:45 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I did a long time ago when I was 20 years old. I am now 27. It made me feel incredibly sick inside. I actually puked my guts out from the disgusting act. I never got caught but I do not care. It grossed me out and I simply couldn't do that to a woman ever again.
It is kind of interesting considering that she went with a good friend of mine behind my back. Karma? Maybe...
TLDR, cheating is not worth it if you love the person.
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: EDM] 1
#21902549 - 07/05/15 07:55 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Never
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: HalluciNate] 2
#21902728 - 07/05/15 08:37 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Anonymous #1] 4
#21902875 - 07/05/15 09:11 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Never but have been cheated on
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: drr] 1
#21902882 - 07/05/15 09:12 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Many times
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Yes it has been only one. With time I found I loved the girl, which hurt with every passing moment. And the guy that encouraged it is now dating her. I'll let them be though. But every now and then I imagine myself getting locked up if I do see him. I know I asked for this to happen. It doesn't mean it hurts any less. I'll never be able to ever have s cheating thought cross my mind again.
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Atrium] 1
#21905764 - 07/06/15 03:38 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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i have never cheated, but i have been cheated on by more girls ive dated then not. cant quite figure it out, not meaning to get into woe was me mode here but i treat women with nothing but respect and love, i have a big member, im great at love making and ill literally do anything to prove my love. believe me the urge to say fuck honesty and loyalty is masive but ive never let it get to me and im damn proud of that.
TLDR people suck no matter how good you are. doesnt mean you should stoop to their level.
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#21906584 - 07/06/15 06:55 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: i have never cheated, but i have been cheated on by more girls ive dated then not. cant quite figure it out, not meaning to get into woe was me mode here but i treat women with nothing but respect and love, i have a big member, im great at love making and ill literally do anything to prove my love
That is why you keep getting cheated on. If you act like a doormat, you will be treated like one.
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#21908659 - 07/07/15 08:15 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Sooo your saying dont treat them as good. You really think that has anything to do with it.
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#21908855 - 07/07/15 09:31 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Sooo your saying dont treat them as good. You really think that has anything to do with it.
Treating a woman good is a good idea. But you can't just let them walk all over you - you have to stand for things sometimes.
But then you said:
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Anonymous said: and ill literally do anything to prove my love.
That kind of thinking makes women cringe. It will drive them to cheat faster and more surely than being abusive will. When you'll do anything for them, you give them all the power in the relationship. Nothing makes a woman bored faster.
You have to give them a bit of a challenge, something to work on. Otherwise they move on sexually.
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Atrium
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#21909171 - 07/07/15 10:42 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah man, it's not necessarily stop being a good guy. I'm a "good guy" and all your horse shit about being good in bed. It's really about not being a bitch. You stand up for yourself. Don't lick her ass. You're a man. Not a child that needs her in your life.
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Atrium]
#21910073 - 07/07/15 02:57 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Atrium said: Yeah man, it's not necessarily stop being a good guy. I'm a "good guy" and all your horse shit about being good in bed. It's really about not being a bitch. You stand up for yourself.
your right you should never let the person your with walk all over you. i shouldnt have said ill do anything to prove my love, i should have said i go out of my way to prove how much i care for my woman by my own choice alot. i wont stand for whoever im with being overly bossy, big pet peeve of mine. but you bet your ass if i love a woman and she treats me good im going to show how much i appreciate her.
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Don't lick her ass.
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#21910090 - 07/07/15 03:00 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I did it once many years ago and it was terrible, I don't know how I didn't predict that it would completely destroy my natural rapport with my then-girlfriend even if I did keep it secret. Never again.
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Edited by Sophistic Radiance (07/08/15 02:03 PM)
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Atrium
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^^Right man? It just destroys your ability to be there with her. Slowly over time you move away. I wish o never did it. I learned to love that girl over time. She was everything I've ever needed. It sucks that happened, because then I turned alcoholic, got arrested. My friend hooked up with her. I threatened him. Now she hates me. Something she said could never possibly happen. And I'll never get her back. That's almost a guarantee.
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Atrium] 1
#21911019 - 07/07/15 06:30 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah. Love is so precious, but it's fragile, you have to work with your partner every day to protect it from the elements and there is not much room for mistakes.
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Cheated a few times on different people. Actually, if you don't count my last girlfriend, my entire sexual history has overlap of 2-3 partners at certain points in time, if that makes sense. I do not want to cheat anymore. Either my partner and I are in an open relationship or I am faithful. My cheating was done on downhill of my relationships and really propelled me towards the breakups. My last non-girlfriend relationship we we're open and I didn't mind she fucked other guys as long as she used a condom. If you fuck a woman right they will always come back for more
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Anonymous #3]
#21912974 - 07/08/15 12:54 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I never have and never will. I think relationships can be hard enough and complex as it is. To throw in cheating whether or not he/she finds out basically guarantees chaos, and contradicts the whole relationship to begin with.
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#21915040 - 07/08/15 01:27 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Never. Going on 17 years of faithfulness.
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: DieCommie]
#21915629 - 07/08/15 03:44 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I grinded with a girl at a rave that wasn't my gf. Is that cheating?
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I've been the sancho before and its not fun. Cheating is a sad difficult thing for all involved. That being said monogamy is really difficult and just doesn't make sense for some people. I kissed a girl who is my friends partner, and I have a girlfriend of my own... My partner and I have been talking about the nature of our relationship for awhile and it came out the same week that I kiss another. We are still talking. And contrary to what most would think, Im not looking of an out, I'm looking to make the relationship more sustainable.
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: drr]
#21917612 - 07/09/15 12:11 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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drr said: Never but have been cheated on 
Same
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Ras Rising]
#21918337 - 07/09/15 07:48 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Define cheating. Have been kissing and kind of playing with other girls, but never all the way, and I'm glad I haven't.
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Obsidian]
#21919994 - 07/09/15 01:23 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yes. I wouldnt do it again though. In an open relationship now and it will always be that way because I love to play
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: empty space]
#21920785 - 07/09/15 04:40 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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empty space said: Yes. I wouldnt do it again though. In an open relationship now and it will always be that way because I love to play
well you sucked for cheating, but good for you for never saying you'd do it again, and double good for you for finding an honest way to live the way you want to live. cheers
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Anonymous #1] 1
#21920789 - 07/09/15 04:41 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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nope , not worth the grief
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#21920875 - 07/09/15 05:04 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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empty space said: Yes. I wouldnt do it again though. In an open relationship now and it will always be that way because I love to play
well you sucked for cheating, but good for you for never saying you'd do it again, and double good for you for finding an honest way to live the way you want to live. cheers 
Yeah I sucked for cheating but my girlfriend left 3 years later (it was a 4½ year relationship) and started dating my best friend in a week, while we were still living together nonetheless.. Soooo I think karma has made things square.
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#21924781 - 07/10/15 02:01 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Nope but who knows where life will go. I like to think i would never cheat, but i can't say i know for sure i wouldn't
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Ezuma]
#21926828 - 07/11/15 12:41 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yes, on a technicality. 9 years ago I dated a girl and she basically never called me, never tried to come see me etc. We never officially broke up, we just went separate ways. I had been trying to get a hold of her for a month and she was ignoring my calls. So I just thought 'fuck it' and went out one night as a single man, I didn't hear from her for a year after that.
Since we never officially broke up, I guess there's an argument I'm cheating on her with my wife that I have now been with for 8 years lol. But hey, how do you dump someone if they ignore your contact?
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Anonymous #4]
#21933700 - 07/12/15 02:18 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I did it once and it felt terrible.
Then I kept doing it and started to like it.
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: EDM]
#21933815 - 07/12/15 02:51 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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EDM said: I did a long time ago when I was 20 years old. I am now 27. It made me feel incredibly sick inside. I actually puked my guts out from the disgusting act. I never got caught but I do not care. It grossed me out and I simply couldn't do that to a woman ever again.
It is kind of interesting considering that she went with a good friend of mine behind my back. Karma? Maybe...
TLDR, cheating is not worth it if you love the person.
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Re: POLL... Have you ever cheated? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#22037834 - 08/03/15 01:59 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I did cheat on one girl I was with. Meh I was young and had been cheated on by every girlfriend prior. I guess I was numb and said fuck it.
Been in a relationship 17 years and haven't cheated, I have a very open invitation to cheat with a friend of ours, but I won't do it.
However, my girl doesn't mind having girls over to "play". So, fucked other girls,,, yes,,,,cheated on her,,, no.
Edited by RobZombie68 (08/03/15 02:00 PM)
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