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sprinkles
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wont someone please focus on beating the children. people are so selfish.
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Burke Dennings
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Yeah, I'm sure he will. PayPal have turned into some of the biggest sticklers about transferring funds these days. They really suck now.
I would never hit a child. When my son is acting up, I just dangle him over Trent anus like its the sarlac pit in Return of the Jedi. Works every time.
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Yeah I reckon they'll evolve into a quasi-international bank at some stage. Or be purchased by one. The Internet definitely has an anti-anonymity trend emerging these days for sure though.
I don't hit kids either but I'll kick them down the stairs a few times if they won't brush their teeth or show up at my door trying to extort money from me for candy and or cookies
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Re: Hitting children [Re: sprinkles]
#21881594 - 07/01/15 04:21 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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haha hahahaha ha. i love this quote
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sprinkles said: stupid children need the most hitting.
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Re: Hitting children [Re: sprinkles]
#21881599 - 07/01/15 04:27 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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People that hit their children are just chicken shit cowards so they take out their frustration on people that can't defend themselves
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I got my ass whooped as a kid. Shit made me straighten up real quick. I was all pleases and thank yous after that. For about a week
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Re: Hitting children [Re: Enjoywho]
#21881639 - 07/01/15 04:54 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I Remember having to go out and pick your own switch. Gotta get the little thicker ones. It covers more surface area but the thinner ones you can get more flick out of it. Those fucking hurt.
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Re: Hitting children [Re: Enjoywho]
#21881645 - 07/01/15 04:58 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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My 2 dads would shove brooms up my ass
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Soulidarity
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Holy shit I thought they only do that in prison
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I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I think it's why kids are such ass holes these days. Obviously you don't beat them but sometimes a kid just needs a ass whoopin. Straightened my ass up real quick.
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Soulidarity said: Holy shit I thought they only do that in prison
Not in my household. Sometimes it was champagne bottles
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I probably would have benefited from a few more spankings when I was a kid.
A spanking/light swat is not abuse. That's just ludicrous, a little humility builds a lot of character.
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theres a difference between a correction and a beating. For example if your kid is doing something dangerous, they need to be corrected. There are times a simple "no honey please dont do that again" doesnt work. If I was a mom I would demand their attention immediately, if they didnt listen they would get clobbered. There is no counting to three shit, when i say do it, fucking do it. I wouldnt give them a chance to think about it or make the decision whether or not they want to.
I screamed for something in the store one time. My mom smacked me in the face. My nose started gushing blood which made her even more pissed. I never threw a tantrum in a store again.
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sprinkles
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i imagine your kids would be total brats. Mine would be quiet, polite little angels.
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Re: Hitting children [Re: sprinkles]
#21881803 - 07/01/15 06:43 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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i agree
spanking is fine!
if your child is too young to reason with as they just have not got the mental intellect yet how do you punish or stop unwanted behaviour!
telling off is fine but things like running away from you in public places or running into danger like roads...
when you just cant reason with the child its for their own good, you have to use shock tactics.
somthing they can relate too.
sometimes they need to know that what you say goes no matter what they think!
its harsh but it keeps them safe
but beating is wrong.imo
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Hitting your children is a great way to teach them that you're a jerk who can't be reasoned with or trusted. Personally, If my kids were afraid of getting in trouble I'd want them to come to me for help/advice. That won't happen if they think I'll hit them. Instead they'd lie to me or hide things to avoid becoming the victims of thoughtless punishment. Hitting children to get a point across works just about as well as hitting adults to get a point across. It's a pretty fucking stupid idea.
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People are so confused. Me too of course.
I think this, a consensual slapping game, does the good of building character and a sense of responsibility without it doing the harms of the child abuse that hitting your kid is.
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Re: Hitting children [Re: Asante] 1
#21882635 - 07/01/15 11:51 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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That's more like parent abuse. Those kids don't hold back.
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Asante
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Thats love right there, to let yourself be slapped senseless to teach your kid right from wrong  I'd do it for my son if I had one.
Yes not daughter. Men are more prone to committing physical violence than women, so its more useful to a son than daughter, to PREVENT them from becoming physically violent.
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Re: Hitting children [Re: Asante]
#21882815 - 07/01/15 01:00 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I don't think that most people who went through child abuse as far as being "smacked around" or physically abused think that it's ok to do it when they have kids. It's just that I think people learn how to rear children based on how they were raised and what their parents did for them as kids.
I went through childhood abuse of the physical and mental kind and I don't think its right to smack a child around I feel very strongly about this. Now I mean if my kid is 3 or 4 and takes a crayon to the walls three times after repeatedly being told not to then yes a spanking WITH YOUR HAND and to a certain extent is ok but after a certain age I don't think spanking is ok either I'd say I wouldnt spank a child over the age of 4.
I feel very strongly about this topic having gone through it and having it effect my life so much I would never want any child to have to go through that. It's a terrible thing that can transform the rest of their lives.
Why would you want to beat a poor defenseless child? You have to be sick and twisted to want to take it to a level farther than a spanking with your hand. And no I don't think belts are ok by any means either. This topic infuriates me to be honest
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