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Webster10
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MushyMatt said: We cuddled for like 7 hours. When she woke up a little bit ago she ended up taking my shirt off and she was wearing my shirt and took it off. Was honestly so nice having cuddles again. She just left for work, and with a bit of flirting she reassured me that it is going to happen again. God damn this girl is going to be the death of me...
Isn't starting a new relationship great? It had be so long since a girl cuddled me and not just because we just had sex.
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Achillita
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Well, your brain is flooded with dopamine and oxytocin when people fall in love. Scientists actually say that it effects the same pathways as cocaine does in the brain. Giving a somewhat "high". Love is actually addicting.
I can say from personal experience, that the feeling you get for loving another person, whether it be in the beginning (which it happens so all the time) to when you've been together for years(I still get that initial feeling, but not as often of course)
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Malcolm_Xtasy
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Rebelutionsssss said: That dude. I kind of rushed it with this chick I really liked and it fucked things up. I got into the mindset that that I would have to leave her before she left me. IQuote:
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MushyMatt said: She cuddled with me than passed out. It's been so long since I been laid. How do I pull this bitch 3ven further. She's already cuddling me
Just put it in
Hahah "one....two.....three... GO!"
The countdown is crucial so they can't say you didn't warn them
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Bill_Oreilly
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OP...sounds like she was waiting for you to make a move.
you should have whispered in her ear "this is really turning me on babe" or "i cant lie ur making me pretty horny right now, ahah"
its on you to make the first move because its just how woman think, because of the society we live in.
if she rejects you, just say "we were cuddling for hours I thought it was leading up to something more"
a lot of people on here, sadly, have little experience with woman. im telling you, make a move or else it will never get done.
-------------------- Something there is mysteriously formed, Existing before Heaven and Earth, Silent, still, standing alone, unchanging, All-pervading, unfailing, I do not know its name; I call it tao. If forced to give it a name, I call it Great (ta). Being great, it flows out; Flowing out means far-reaching; Being far-reaching, it is said to return. It's just a shot away..
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Malcolm_Xtasy
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Seriously though ^^^
Fuck all that cuddling for 14 hours shit.
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Cuddling is obviously a "move". Beginning a relationship shouldn't revolve around sex. But I do agree that the culture we live in expects the man to usually make the move.
I'd personally say go slow, show respect, and know what you want from the relationship. If your only goal is to get off, then just go for that. But if it's to possibly start a relationship, then it's usually better to start a bit slow and work your way up.
I'd say go for the kiss next time and see where it leads. Don't try to push something that just feels uncomfortable. But just roll where it rolls.
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Cuddling is obviously a "move"
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Don't try to push something that just feels uncomfortable. But just roll where it rolls.
Pull out your dick and slap it against her leg a few times to let her know you're ready
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Sheekle
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Bill_Oreilly said: OP...sounds like she was waiting for you to make a move.
you should have whispered in her hear "this is really turning me on babe" or "i cant lie ur making me pretty horny right now, ahah"
its on you to make the first move because its just how woman think, because of the society we live in.
if she rejects you, just say "we were cuddling for hours I thought it was leading up to something more"
a lot of people on here, sadly, have little experience with woman. im telling you, make a move or else it will never get done.
"you're turning me on babe" is the corniest shit
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Re: This chick [Re: Sheekle] 1
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What does koods usually say to you instead Sheekle?
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Bill_Oreilly
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Achillita said: Cuddling is obviously a "move".
So let me guess...hugging and a kiss on the cheek is also a move as well?
I do both to many of my friends that are girls.
ive cuddled with many girls and we both had no intentions of fucking.
cuddling is not "making a move"
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Re: This chick [Re: Sheekle] 1
#21877028 - 06/30/15 08:40 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Sheekle said:
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Bill_Oreilly said: OP...sounds like she was waiting for you to make a move.
you should have whispered in her hear "this is really turning me on babe" or "i cant lie ur making me pretty horny right now, ahah"
its on you to make the first move because its just how woman think, because of the society we live in.
if she rejects you, just say "we were cuddling for hours I thought it was leading up to something more"
a lot of people on here, sadly, have little experience with woman. im telling you, make a move or else it will never get done.
"you're turning me on babe" is the corniest shit 
You know whats cornier?
cuddling for 7 hours and not even getting a kiss(when youre intending to fuck).
and really, saying "youre turning me on babe" isn't corny AT ALL if you just say it the right way.
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Sheekle
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whatever u say TMJ
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Re: This chick [Re: Sheekle]
#21877041 - 06/30/15 08:47 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: whatever u say TMJ
If you say "youre turning me on babe" in a sexual way, it can sound corny, but if you say it almost as if you are half joking you get your point across AND make the awkwardness decrease. Its near perfect.
or if you get a boner and ur embarrassed about it while cuddling...don't hide it and make it weird...show it to her(not ur penis, just show her the bulge) and say something like "look what you do to me babe...goddamnit" in a casual way. Its all about delivery and confidence.
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Re: This chick [Re: Sheekle]
#21877044 - 06/30/15 08:47 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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The chick should have been cuddling your dick for 7 hours, talk about being a tease.
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nicechrisman
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your first mistake was not DSHSB.
Not really though. You played it like a gentleman. You should call her tomorrow and ask her if she wants to go do something.
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Re: This chick [Re: qman]
#21877049 - 06/30/15 08:49 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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qman said: The chick should have been cuddling your dick for 7 hours, talk about being a tease.
Seriously.
This situation legit reminds me of my experiences in 8th and 9th grade when we were awkwardly trying to some action and the girl was nervous as hell about putting out.
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Bill_Oreilly
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nicechrisman said: your first mistake was not DSHSB.
Not really though. You played it like a gentleman. You should call her tomorrow and ask her if she wants to go do something.
lets just hope its not too late and he didn't already decapitate himself by entering the dreaded "friend-zone"
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Sheekle
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theres no such thing as a friendzone, ive had chicks who i was friends with for over 10 years randomly wanna bang
ur the biggest custie on lot tmj
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#21877063 - 06/30/15 08:53 AM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Yeah I think the friendzone is a myth invented by people who either have no personality, no self esteem, or neither.
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Sheekle
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it has nothing to do with those things and all to do with being a custie
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