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Invisibleshallowbastard
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The feeling of wanting to have sex with other women
    #21870738 - 06/28/15 09:43 PM (8 years, 6 months ago)

It won't just go away. I'm in a relationship of 4 years. I love my girl. But I've also always been attracted to women in general, A LOT. I've asked my boss, and he says the feeling of wanting to fuck other women never goes away, that you just have to deal with that.

How does everyone else do it, how do you stay faithful both ladies and men?

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Re: The feeling of wanting to have sex with other women [Re: shallowbastard] * 4
    #21870760 - 06/28/15 09:48 PM (8 years, 6 months ago)

i just became polyamorous, so that way I can have a dedicated relationship AND have sex with other people on the side, or even have other relationships if I so desire. works well so long as your honest and open in your communications.


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Re: The feeling of wanting to have sex with other women [Re: Bjorn_Stormcrow] * 1
    #21870816 - 06/28/15 10:03 PM (8 years, 6 months ago)

Thanks man. I'm old school though, so that wouldn't work for me. Thanks for the comment though, if I break up I will definitely consider it


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Re: The feeling of wanting to have sex with other women [Re: shallowbastard] * 1
    #21871750 - 06/29/15 01:57 AM (8 years, 6 months ago)

I think most people go through that....

They say 3% of mammals are monogamous.

I think we're naturally in that 97%...we're trying to fight nature!!!

I'm not into monogamy personally

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Re: The feeling of wanting to have sex with other women [Re: wakeINpeople] * 2
    #21871820 - 06/29/15 02:32 AM (8 years, 6 months ago)

It never goes away, and it's the same for her! You both have to deal with it. If you trust each other enough, bring it up in conversation and see how she feels about the issue and how she deals with it. It's a bit risky because she may get the impression that you're considering leaving her, so you'll have to be careful in what you say and how you bring it, but I'm sure she recognizes the feeling. The tragedy of a healthy relationship is that even if you deeply love each other, the one thing you can't do for each other is give the excitement of being new and unexplored territory for each other. It's a shame, but there it is.


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Re: The feeling of wanting to have sex with other women [Re: shallowbastard] * 1
    #21873775 - 06/29/15 02:04 PM (8 years, 6 months ago)

I want to fuck every pretty girl I see.  I have been in a relationship 17 years, she knew this in the beginning and came to terms with it.  So we have girls come occasionally play with us, she said it gets her off to watch me fuck somebody else.  Yea, it's pretty sweet.


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Re: The feeling of wanting to have sex with other women [Re: shallowbastard] * 1
    #21873818 - 06/29/15 02:17 PM (8 years, 6 months ago)

I'm pretty sure most guys do that. Us guys are hardwired to be utter sluts.


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Re: The feeling of wanting to have sex with other women [Re: Le_Canard] * 1
    #21874077 - 06/29/15 03:27 PM (8 years, 6 months ago)

I don't feel the urge to cheat, I watch porn but don't fantasize about women I know.
11 years together with my wife


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Re: The feeling of wanting to have sex with other women [Re: shallowbastard]
    #21874081 - 06/29/15 03:29 PM (8 years, 6 months ago)

Just be True.


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Re: The feeling of wanting to have sex with other women [Re: BoomerMan420] * 1
    #21874826 - 06/29/15 06:27 PM (8 years, 6 months ago)

Gah, I totally know where you're coming from.  I just became 'exclusive' with a girl after she dropped the old "We should stop having sex because I'm getting attached line". 

The girl is great, definitely wifey material...but I still want to have meaningless sex with other women :frown:  It feels so unnatural to stick with one person.  I sometimes question whether I'm "in love" with her or can even fall in love with her if I still desire other women...It's good to know that the perpetual lust is normal haha.

I usually just force one out and the feelings subside for a day :/


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Re: The feeling of wanting to have sex with other women [Re: morgan.plint] * 1
    #21875485 - 06/29/15 08:30 PM (8 years, 6 months ago)

Honestly I don't think its "natural" for humans to be monogamous, through all of human history men have had lower life expectancy due to work conditions, war, etc. (yes everyone suffers in war, but men die in disproportionate numbers) add on to that the fact that women statistically outnumber men worldwide (cases like china are an exception since that is the result of eugenics).
it makes sense that with men being more likely to die that we would want to propogate our seed among more women in the time that we have. after all a man can impregnate multiple women at a time, but a woman can only be pregnant with one guys kid (some of the weird twin situations not withstanding, they are outliers and thus do not constitute solid data)
Women on the other hand have the opposite problem, where they want to ensure that their children have the best father possible. this means that they are more prone to wanting to "tie down" lest they be left raising a kid solo. but at the same time are driven biologically to find "the best mate"
Both conditions contribute to a sittuation where monogomy just simply doesn't make sense for either gender. and is frankly harmful to humanity as a whole (IMO)


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Re: The feeling of wanting to have sex with other women [Re: Bjorn_Stormcrow] * 1
    #21875541 - 06/29/15 08:43 PM (8 years, 6 months ago)

I get these feelings HARD about 1 - 2 years into a relationship. Always have, probably always will, regardless of who I'm with. Just seems to be a pattern. It's almost an unbearable urge sometimes.

I still don't cheat though.
I'm beginning to question whether I'm built for a monogamous relationship. Whether I'll ever be able to feel satisfied.
A bit scary getting older and not knowing what the fuck I want.


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Re: The feeling of wanting to have sex with other women [Re: jsncrs] * 1
    #21878386 - 06/30/15 02:34 PM (8 years, 6 months ago)

I know how you feel, OP.


Been with my girl for 5 years.  I really want her for the rest of my life but I feel like I didn't get with enough women before I met her cause Im in my early 20's.


It's like I wish I could get with a few girls then come back to the girl I have right now.  But thats not possible unless you cheat.


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Re: The feeling of wanting to have sex with other women [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21879453 - 06/30/15 06:22 PM (8 years, 6 months ago)

Thank you guys. Thank you much for your input


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Re: The feeling of wanting to have sex with other women [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21880010 - 06/30/15 08:23 PM (8 years, 6 months ago)

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Anonymous said:
I know how you feel, OP.


Been with my girl for 5 years.  I really want her for the rest of my life but I feel like I didn't get with enough women before I met her cause Im in my early 20's.


It's like I wish I could get with a few girls then come back to the girl I have right now.  But thats not possible unless you cheat.



If your girl is open-minded enough you can suggest open relationship or polyamory.


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Re: The feeling of wanting to have sex with other women [Re: WAN]
    #21881227 - 07/01/15 01:26 AM (8 years, 6 months ago)

Managing the jealousy is a challenge for most people though!


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Re: The feeling of wanting to have sex with other women [Re: WAN]
    #21882507 - 07/01/15 11:18 AM (8 years, 6 months ago)

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shallowbastard said:
Thank you guys. Thank you much for your input





Np, I know how you feel.

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WAN said:
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Anonymous said:
I know how you feel, OP.


Been with my girl for 5 years.  I really want her for the rest of my life but I feel like I didn't get with enough women before I met her cause Im in my early 20's.


It's like I wish I could get with a few girls then come back to the girl I have right now.  But thats not possible unless you cheat.



If your girl is open-minded enough you can suggest open relationship or polyamory.





Not possible, we are both very loyal/monogamous  and I would NOT be okay with her asking that same thing.  It'd be hypocritical of me.


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