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basqueshaman
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so I'm going out to the bar tonight
#21866297 - 06/27/15 09:21 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Wish me luck, I normally have no luck In such setting. I always feel alone adrift in the sea of humanity
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Cosmopolite
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Re: so I'm going out to the bar tonight [Re: basqueshaman]
#21866331 - 06/27/15 09:28 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Good luck man, don't drive drunk!
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tripN
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Re: so I'm going out to the bar tonight [Re: Cosmopolite]
#21866466 - 06/27/15 10:03 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Is there any advise for the no luck guys?
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Lucis
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Re: so I'm going out to the bar tonight [Re: tripN] 1
#21866693 - 06/27/15 11:31 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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tripN said: Is there any advise for the no luck guys?
yeah, it's called le fap
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ergoticmandala



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Re: so I'm going out to the bar tonight [Re: Lucis]
#21934696 - 07/12/15 06:56 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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any luck OP?
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psyconaught
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it helps to have a wingman with you to help talk to groups of women, makes things much less awkward.
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empty space
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Re: so I'm going out to the bar tonight [Re: psyconaught]
#21937483 - 07/13/15 02:10 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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I would advise going to a club with music instead of a bar. At a bar, the focus is almost completely on getting drunk and the type of women you find there tend to be relatively vapid with very little going for them, hence why they are at a bar drinking on a Friday night instead of doing something fun. At a club, the focus is on music and people are there to have a good time. If you mingle with everyone and not just the women, you will meet a bunch of cool people, probably get given some free ecstasy, and have a great time, regardless of whether or not you get laid. Also, its a lot easier to socialize with people who are rolling because they are going to be insanely nice and honestly probably a little awkwardly outgoing so its easier not to feel awkward yourself. And if you meet a girl its a lot easier to naturally hold a conversation. It definitely helps to have drugs of your own to share with people. If you do bring your own drugs, share them with all of your new friends (don't sell them, especially if someone approaches you asking to buy drugs); if you only share them with the women, you will come off as creepy. Also, if you don't really have much of a preference on electronic music, I would find a club with house music; in my experience, house music parties have a lot more women and the vibe is sexy and playful, whereas at bass parties, there tends to be more men and the vibe is more focused on drugs and alcohol. Beyond that, focus on having fun instead of getting laid. Its pretty obvious when you are just trying to get laid and women will avoid you!! But if you are genuinely enjoying yourself and you are helping other people enjoy themselves, you will attract other enjoyable people.
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psyconaught
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Re: so I'm going out to the bar tonight [Re: empty space]
#21937727 - 07/13/15 03:13 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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empty space said: I would advise going to a club with music instead of a bar. At a bar, the focus is almost completely on getting drunk and the type of women you find there tend to be relatively vapid with very little going for them, hence why they are at a bar drinking on a Friday night instead of doing something fun. At a club, the focus is on music and people are there to have a good time. If you mingle with everyone and not just the women, you will meet a bunch of cool people, probably get given some free ecstasy, and have a great time, regardless of whether or not you get laid. Also, its a lot easier to socialize with people who are rolling because they are going to be insanely nice and honestly probably a little awkwardly outgoing so its easier not to feel awkward yourself. And if you meet a girl its a lot easier to naturally hold a conversation. It definitely helps to have drugs of your own to share with people. If you do bring your own drugs, share them with all of your new friends (don't sell them, especially if someone approaches you asking to buy drugs); if you only share them with the women, you will come off as creepy. Also, if you don't really have much of a preference on electronic music, I would find a club with house music; in my experience, house music parties have a lot more women and the vibe is sexy and playful, whereas at bass parties, there tends to be more men and the vibe is more focused on drugs and alcohol. Beyond that, focus on having fun instead of getting laid. Its pretty obvious when you are just trying to get laid and women will avoid you!! But if you are genuinely enjoying yourself and you are helping other people enjoy themselves, you will attract other enjoyable people.
see and i have almost the opposite opinion. I would much rather go to a pub/bar where i can actually hold a conversation with friends/women and relax, play pool, etc. Club girls don't interest me at all. Its really all down to what type of environment you want to be in and what you're looking for.
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empty space
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Re: so I'm going out to the bar tonight [Re: psyconaught]
#21938338 - 07/13/15 05:36 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Hell yeah more power to you man
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psyconaught
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Re: so I'm going out to the bar tonight [Re: empty space]
#21938512 - 07/13/15 06:08 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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empty space said: Hell yeah more power to you man 
Exactly! wasnt meant to be a negative at all. Just giving a perspective, OP should decide what type of woman he wants then find the environments where they are likely to hang out.
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Enjoywho
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Re: so I'm going out to the bar tonight [Re: psyconaught]
#21938799 - 07/13/15 07:15 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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psyconaught said: it helps to have a wingman with you to help talk to groups of women, makes things much less awkward.
Ya thats me. Im very sociable but you always want go approach a group of girls with an equal amount of guys.
This one time i was dancing with this girl and it was awkward. I grabbed these 2 random guys and said come with me.
Why
Do you want to dance with pretty girls or not i dont have time for this follow me.
Needless to say i got all of us laid.
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Enjoywho
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Re: so I'm going out to the bar tonight [Re: Enjoywho]
#21938808 - 07/13/15 07:17 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Told the girl hold on I'll be right back. Made some cool new homies as well that was a fun night. I was flying solo that night so i just grabbed whoever.
-------------------- "I don't give nothin' to nobody, I just pay the cost to do business." - Riley "Young Reezy"-Boondocks "The road to hell is paved with good intentions." "In the days of kings and queens I was a jester." "And then the great lord created bears... too many bears... shoulda really dialed back on the bears." Squidbillies "Can you start speaking words instead of your damn filthy lies!"- Louise "Bobs Burgers"
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