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Shroomslip
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Yes you are twisting what the Bible says to suit your own selfish wants/needs. It's okay to cheat because you're not really in a relationship. Even if this isn't something you're doing, you're still twisting the words and the thought that someone that's supposed to be of faith could twist them to that end, is just .
And yes it is written in the Bible. A book written by man. I put no more stock in anything the Bible says than I do in Harry Potter. They are both written by man (man as in human I'm aware the author of Harry Potter is female).
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Re: Cheating.....is a myth [Re: Shroomslip]
#21862394 - 06/27/15 01:30 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Shroomslip said: Yes you are twisting what the Bible says to suit your own selfish wants/needs. It's okay to cheat because you're not really in a relationship. Even if this isn't something you're doing, you're still twisting the words and the thought that someone that's supposed to be of faith could twist them to that end, is just .
And yes it is written in the Bible. A book written by man. I put no more stock in anything the Bible says than I do in Harry Potter. They are both written by man (man as in human I'm aware the author of Harry Potter is female).
Nowhere in the Bible does it say NOT to cheat on your boyfriend or girlfriend. You are seriously ignorant in the workings of the Bible, you have obviously not read a page. And NOTHING that the Catholic Church teaches says one shouldnt cheat on their boyfriend or girlfriend. Hell it may very well be how you find your wife.
Be aware, when I say....Cheat here. I am talking about
Kissing Flirting Taking out on Dates Holding hands Cuddling
Not SEX. Because sex is something that should be done between husband and wife. However, simply for the hypocrisy of secular logic.....even sleeping with someone else is perfectly fine. Because if you are not going to obey Gods commands surrounding sex, why on EARTH should it bother you to break the bullshit "Rules" created by the same fucking morons that rock Pop music all day, and just redefined marriage for the first time in thousands upon thousands, upon thousands of years.
its a joke, and so is "Supreme Loyalty" to your Boyfriend or Girlfriend whom at the end of the day.....you dont owe jack shit.
Anyone feel what im putting down? Please speak up.
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Shroomslip
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Actually I'm not ignorant of it. I've read it, multiple times over. I wasn't always an atheist/agnostic. Even after I was, I still read it while in jail. I read the entire dictionary front to back too.. You'll do just about anything in there to pass the time.
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You definitely don't understand relationships AF
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Almond Flour
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Re: Cheating.....is a myth [Re: Shroomslip]
#21862407 - 06/27/15 01:39 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Shroomslip said: Actually I'm not ignorant of it. I've read it, multiple times over. I wasn't always an atheist/agnostic. Even after I was, I still read it while in jail. I read the entire dictionary front to back too.. You'll do just about anything in there to pass the time.
The only "twisting" I am doing is around the bullshit notion that we have to be faithful to our boyfriends or girlfriends. Its a lie. Some of the most successful couples I met were those who dropped their particular partner when they found someone better.
Who are we to judge? Maybe they are onto something. Its Biblical after all
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And that's my point. You're using the Bible/religion to justify being a complete douche nozzle. Like just because it's not said in there then it's okay and doesn't make you a fuck wad.
The Bible is just a guideline on how to be a decent human being. It's not the complete and total manual.
You find someone better? Then have the balls to confront your current partner instead of running around behind their back.
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Betraying someone's trust and going against the ideals you agreed upon is some assholery no matter whyat spin you try to put on it.
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John 8 King James Version (KJV)
8 Jesus went unto the mount of Olives.
2 And early in the morning he came again into the temple, and all the people came unto him; and he sat down, and taught them.
3 And the scribes and Pharisees brought unto him a woman taken in adultery; and when they had set her in the midst,
4 They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act.
5 Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou?
6 This they said, tempting him, that they might have to accuse him. But Jesus stooped down, and with his finger wrote on the ground, as though he heard them not.
7 So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.
8 And again he stooped down, and wrote on the ground.
9 And they which heard it, being convicted by their own conscience, went out one by one, beginning at the eldest, even unto the last: and Jesus was left alone, and the woman standing in the midst.
10 When Jesus had lifted up himself, and saw none but the woman, he said unto her, Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee?
11 She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.
12 Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life.
13 The Pharisees therefore said unto him, Thou bearest record of thyself; thy record is not true.
14 Jesus answered and said unto them, Though I bear record of myself, yet my record is true: for I know whence I came, and whither I go; but ye cannot tell whence I come, and whither I go.
15 Ye judge after the flesh; I judge no man.
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Shroomslip said: Someone needs to gouge out this Lord's eyes. I'm tired of them judging me all the time.
It's for your own good
Take it easy there Torquemada.
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Good luck finding a woman who accepts that your won't stop getting your dick wet in some strange until the day you say 'I do.'
That's pretty lame, that some old tradition means more to you than what you feel in your heart.
What you're saying in this thread, is simply that you're so insecure that you refuse to trust someone. That's a weakness because generalizing people means you never truly understand them. I don't care what your girlfriend did, or what you did. Don't be an asshole and use your weakness as a means to validate dishonest behaviour. Find a polygamist relationship and see how you feel about it then.
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You have an avatar now!
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I'm terribly confused lol. So from what I understand it's okay to "cheat" because you're not married and that's okay with "God" but sex outside of marriage is wrong in the eyes of "God" but that's okay as well because you're not married anyways? That doesn't really make sense but I can't seem to find the way to explain it...oh well.
Anyways what's the point of being in a relationship if you just want to fuck other people? I never really understood that but people seem to think it's fine. If you want to sleep around then sleep around but do it being single or be in a relationship where you both understand that's going on.
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Re: Cheating.....is a myth [Re: ostx]
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Idk why y'all are even arguing with AF..
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ive turned someone, let it be known, i started the revolution. Almond flour, how do u feel about standing in a corner while i fuck your gf?
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hey OP, Jesus is waiting for your rebuttal.
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Almond Flour said: I have decided.
have you now
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Prisoner#1
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Almond Flour said: The only "twisting" I am doing is around the bullshit notion that we have to be faithful to our boyfriends or girlfriends.
so are you cheating on your boyfriend with your girlfriend or vice versa
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Shroomslip said: Actually I'm not ignorant of it. I've read it, multiple times over. I wasn't always an atheist/agnostic. Even after I was, I still read it while in jail. I read the entire dictionary front to back too.. You'll do just about anything in there to pass the time.
The only "twisting" I am doing is around the bullshit notion that we have to be faithful to our boyfriends or girlfriends. Its a lie. Some of the most successful couples I met were those who dropped their particular partner when they found someone better. ...
So the most successful monogamous couples you have met were those forged on the shoulders of an unsuccessful monogamous relationship where one of the partners jumped ship?
Have only seen one really successful monogamous relationship -- my grandparents were married for over 70 years; however, they were together since before the second world war and my grandfather was the only surviving member of his crew when his plane was shot down on a bombing run over Germany. They had a bond forged through fire.
By contrast, grew up in a pretty heavily Catholic area with a lot of emphasis on monogamous commitment, and have yet to see any really successful monogamous marriages out of the area. A number of failed marriages, some incidents of spouse or child abuse.
Maybe my grandparent's generation was just better at monogamous commitment than my generation is.
Whether or not cheating is a myth does not change the emotional and societal impact it can have on a partner though. Really it just comes down to how comfortable a person is with causing emotional distress to another -- the status of being married or not is not the real factor, the expectations each partner holds for one another is the matter for concern.
Polyamorous relationships among my less religious peers seem to still be going strong though. Poly relationships really do acknowledge cheating as a sort of a social construct though. They include agreement to communicate openly and honestly rather than being deceitful about feelings, intentions, and actions.
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Re: Cheating.....is a myth [Re: Prisoner#1]
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Almond Flour said: The only "twisting" I am doing is around the bullshit notion that we have to be faithful to our boyfriends or girlfriends.
so are you cheating on your boyfriend with your girlfriend or vice versa
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Almond Flour said: The only "twisting" I am doing is around the bullshit notion that we have to be faithful to our boyfriends or girlfriends.
so are you cheating on your boyfriend with your girlfriend or vice versa
No because it doesn't exist
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