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What did you do when you lost your parents * 1
    #21848894 - 06/24/15 03:28 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

I was reading some really heart felt posts on the shroomery about loosing loved ones and I'm so close to my mother I feel that when she passes I'm just going to fucking loose it. She's always been the voice of love and reason for me and I have no idea what I would do without her. :sad:


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
    #21848899 - 06/24/15 03:33 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

At the rate I'm going they'll probably be the ones that see me go.  I'm sure whoever knows me will handle it fine..


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Rebelutionsssss] * 1
    #21848901 - 06/24/15 03:34 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

its tough man...but one day its going to happen. hopefully not anytime soon! you just have to give it time and it gets better. but yeah its no bueno for sure. one positive of family members dying is that it brings the rest of the family closer together though.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Soulidarity]
    #21848906 - 06/24/15 03:40 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

You keep living your life the way you should. You mourn their passing but keep going on. I know they are proud of me and that helped me to move forward.

You can't prepare yourself for those kinds of losses, you think you can but you can't.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Citizen X] * 1
    #21848910 - 06/24/15 03:47 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

yeah like my dad went slowly which was lame. but when I knew he was dying I cried a lot. but after that I kind of got passed it and focused on looking after him and just doing what needed to be done.

but its scary how final death is. like in an instant theyre just gone and it doesn't feel real. like you wake up thinking it was all a dream and they'll be home soon : /


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Citizen X]
    #21848913 - 06/24/15 03:51 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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You keep living your life the way you should. You mourn their passing but keep going on.



I dont think that's how it's going to work..


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Amanita86]
    #21848920 - 06/24/15 04:02 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

I can only speak for myself, that's what helped me..


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Citizen X]
    #21848922 - 06/24/15 04:09 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

yeah I did the same. I mean you cant just shut down. life goes on and you gotta keep on keeping on. the distraction helps too


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Soulidarity]
    #21848924 - 06/24/15 04:11 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

I'm a little less stable than that.  I tend to get angry.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Amanita86]
    #21848929 - 06/24/15 04:16 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

ehh im stable like a twolegged chair but I bottle up my rage. I gotta stop doing that though because im perma aggressive now ;/


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Soulidarity]
    #21848936 - 06/24/15 04:27 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Yea I imagine when my grandma goes I'll probably give my condolences to everyone, go by the liquor store, get in my car drive down town and try to get jumped..  "therapy".


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Amanita86]
    #21848946 - 06/24/15 04:38 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Great thread, OP, and something I think and struggle with on a weekly basis.  I'm convinced I'm bipolar, just skewed like 99/1 manic to depressed.  But that 1% always manifests itself in the form of some extremely sorrowful woes that come on - in an instant - and are gone a minute later.  Just soul-crushing sorrow at the thought of not having that standing beacon of light in your life (parent X, parent Y, or both)


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: memes]
    #21848964 - 06/24/15 04:58 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

My mothers liver enzymes are 3 times the normal and I'm starting to worry about her. As much as I want to help I cant. She's always been the one person I can turn too and without her I have no one. I gone down paths of self destruction but she's always been there to get me out of it. Really worried about this :sad:


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
    #21848983 - 06/24/15 05:12 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

i am reminded sometimes how achingly beautiful and yet how rotten feeling life can be sometimes...actually more than sometimes...most of the time.

this thread is sorta a subject that comes up for me too from time to time, OP.

i honestly have no idea how i will handle the loss of my mom or dad. the memories and thoughts of them sometimes saddens me, and sometimes inspire me, even now, while they are still alive. when they are gone, i presume that those thoughts and memories will hit me ten fold.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: akira_akuma]
    #21849017 - 06/24/15 05:30 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

I get panic attacks at night sometimes, there's only a few of us left and Im the youngest.  The few that are still around are scattered all over the country.  It's a cold feeling when you're walking around in this world alone... If I could just have one more phone call or back porch dinner you know..  I took that shit hella for granted..


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Amanita86]
    #21849038 - 06/24/15 05:40 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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I get panic attacks at night sometimes, there's only a few of us left and Im the youngest.  The few that are still around are scattered all over the country.  It's a cold feeling when you're walking around in this world alone... If I could just have one more phone call or back porch dinner you know..  I took that shit hella for granted..



I feel you on that one man. It's fucked up how life speeds by, one minute you're praying to be older and to be independent and the next all you want is your youth back and to have those family moments. I guess all we can do is cherish the time we do have with our loved ones and to remind them how much we care :sad:


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
    #21849044 - 06/24/15 05:43 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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My mothers liver enzymes are 3 times the normal and I'm starting to worry about her. As much as I want to help I cant. She's always been the one person I can turn too and without her I have no one. I gone down paths of self destruction but she's always been there to get me out of it. Really worried about this :sad:



Well I guess try to see to it that she gets the best medical care she can and make the most of your time with her. I'm no doctor but high liver enzymes, while it sounds troubling it isn't a terminal condition. So she'll probably be okay.

That's one thing I hate about illness too, Is that theres no retribution and nothing you can really do to help : /.

Whatever happens it'll be okay though dude. You'll get through it and find a way


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Soulidarity]
    #21849068 - 06/24/15 06:02 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

The knowledge that death is coming soonish can ease the blow so that it's not outta left field, but it will still hurt more than almost anything else before. The pain is necessary unfortunately, because the parts in life that have insane amounts of emotions attached to them like births and deaths are that intense for a reason, you must not forget those moments in life. They hold in them some of the greatest lessons there are. We are all born, we all die. We all influence the lives of everyone we meet. We don't worry about the time before our birth and in the same mind set we shouldn't worry about the time after our death.

Trust me none of this will make it "easier" to deal with because to be honest nothing will except acceptance and time. Much love to you and you mom Rebelutionsssss. If things go south msg me I've been through a lot of loss in this life.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
    #21849294 - 06/24/15 07:56 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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I was reading some really heart felt posts on the shroomery about loosing loved ones and I'm so close to my mother I feel that when she passes I'm just going to fucking loose it. She's always been the voice of love and reason for me and I have no idea what I would do without her. :sad:




Same thing.

Probably gonna kill myself.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
    #21849346 - 06/24/15 08:21 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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I feel you on that one man. It's fucked up how life speeds by, one minute you're praying to be older and to be independent and the next all you want is your youth back and to have those family moments. I guess all we can do is cherish the time we do have with our loved ones and to remind them how much we care :sad:




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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Stonehenge]
    #21849798 - 06/24/15 10:25 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

You can only do what you have right now in front of you. For me....It was very important to spend as much time with them as possible. This means driving them to dr. appointments or mowing the lawn....the tough stuff that a lot of people blow off. Just being available to help gives them peace of mind. Take them somewhere that they always wanted to go if you have the means.

That way, when they do pass....you will have no regrets...and, hopefully, you will have affirmations, like I did that they were just fine when they did pass...there is something out there more grand than our physical minds can grasp. The spirit does not just vanish and die.:sunny::peace:


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Thayendanegea]
    #21849904 - 06/24/15 10:57 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Man, something I think about every so often.  Remember that when they're passing away, it's a part of you that is too.  You gotta let them know that you love them.  I can't imagine my parents deaths would rest easy on my mind if I didn't.

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The spirit does not just vanish and die.:sunny::peace:




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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Citizen X]
    #21850106 - 06/24/15 11:47 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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You keep living your life the way you should. You mourn their passing but keep going on. I know they are proud of me and that helped me to move forward.

You can't prepare yourself for those kinds of losses, you think you can but you can't.





:whathesaid: For me the death itself wasn't the horrible part, it was the time leading up to it. Watching someone you love and respect wither into a walking corpse is far worse than their death is.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Cj-B]
    #21850124 - 06/24/15 11:56 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

I agree on that when you see a strong independant person not be able to do things but they still maintain or insist they have to because its what they've always done.  Like my grandma and making the meals.  You could tell it killed her spirit when us "kids" had to take over things like christmas and thanksgiving meals.  She always cooked, its what she was made to do, she insisted on it.  And then she just couldnt do it. 

But its funny, she always makes a point to tell whats where and "now if you see anything you want, you go ahead and fix it"

My grandpap took a few tumbles insisting he work his garden and do things like that and then he had to stop.  Prideful people man..they cut their way, and then their bodies gave out.  Fucking depressing man..


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Amanita86]
    #21850140 - 06/24/15 12:03 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

The last thing my grandpap said to me was "come back when you can stay a little longer"..  gone, just like that..


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Amanita86]
    #21850178 - 06/24/15 12:15 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Life is a hell of a thing to happen to a person.


You can't be sad when someone you loved has passed, it happens, sometimes more tragic than others but you can't dwell on it, you just have to keep on going.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Amanita86]
    #21850192 - 06/24/15 12:17 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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At the rate I'm going they'll probably be the ones that see me go.  I'm sure whoever knows me will handle it fine..




Wow, this may be the most emotional thing I can relate to.

That pretty much sums up how I feel, and it makes me feel like shit.

If I lost my mom, or grandma, I would lose it in a drug fuel'd rage.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: TNK]
    #21850196 - 06/24/15 12:18 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Sometimes you have to do what you have to do. Fuck it it's not like any of this is real anyways ....


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: MinnesnowtaNice]
    #21850208 - 06/24/15 12:20 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

..it feels pretty real.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: MinnesnowtaNice]
    #21850214 - 06/24/15 12:21 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

We didn't do anything.  I had a BBQ with some cousins after Dad died but he was in charge of my mother's ritual and didn't care to do anything.  No funerals, cremation, I have no idea where the ashes are.  We're not really wrapped up in that kind of shit.  In fact, my family kind of hates that nonsense.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
    #21850314 - 06/24/15 12:46 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

In simple terms, lost my fucking mind. My grandma and mom died within a month or two of each other. Hit me a lot harder that I was really equipped to deal with. My already bad alcoholism and insomnia both skyrocketed and there were a lot of consequences from that.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Shroomslip]
    #21850326 - 06/24/15 12:49 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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In simple terms, lost my fucking mind. My grandma and mom died within a month or two of each other. Hit me a lot harder that I was really equipped to deal with. My already bad alcoholism and insomnia both skyrocketed and there were a lot of consequences from that.




I am deeply, deeply sorry for your loss shroomslip.

I cannot fathom the idea of that, but my grandma is aging quiet fast and it worries me.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: zappaisgod]
    #21850364 - 06/24/15 12:57 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Whatever you do don't avoid every funeral and then have your first funeral ever be your parents. That was my buddy and i had to plan the funeral as he was a fucking mess.
Modern western society allows you to hide from death which is unhealthy. All primitive societies on the planet have funeral rituals and the whole village comes its been like that since caveman days. Reaching adulthood without attending a funeral is unhealthy.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: my3rdeye]
    #21850451 - 06/24/15 01:17 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

My family isn't real big on ritual.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: zappaisgod]
    #21850617 - 06/24/15 02:00 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

They just shove them into the ground and go back to partying?


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: my3rdeye]
    #21850632 - 06/24/15 02:05 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Whatever you do don't avoid every funeral and then have your first funeral ever be your parents. That was my buddy and i had to plan the funeral as he was a fucking mess.
Modern western society allows you to hide from death which is unhealthy. All primitive societies on the planet have funeral rituals and the whole village comes its been like that since caveman days. Reaching adulthood without attending a funeral is unhealthy.




interesting, i decided a long time ago to never go to funerals. Whats the downside?


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: teamkiller]
    #21850671 - 06/24/15 02:14 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

I don't do funerals man, and I've missed quite a few I should have been at.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: teamkiller]
    #21850679 - 06/24/15 02:16 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Whatever you do don't avoid every funeral and then have your first funeral ever be your parents. That was my buddy and i had to plan the funeral as he was a fucking mess.
Modern western society allows you to hide from death which is unhealthy. All primitive societies on the planet have funeral rituals and the whole village comes its been like that since caveman days. Reaching adulthood without attending a funeral is unhealthy.




interesting, i decided a long time ago to never go to funerals. Whats the downside?



I swore them off after my brother's funeral. I'm not sure what difference the funeral for him made vs not having one for my mom, grandfather or grandmother. They all fucked me up pretty equally. If anything I think the funeral just made things worse on me. Instead of just being able to grieve I had do it in front of an audience. What grown man wants to cry like a 5 year old in front of everyone?


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: MinnesnowtaNice]
    #21850703 - 06/24/15 02:21 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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I don't do funerals man, and I've missed quite a few I should have been at.




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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Shroomslip]
    #21850706 - 06/24/15 02:22 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Shit sucks, I would much rather have a life celebration than a funeral. And I don't care what anyone says about this but FUCK CHRISTIAN FUNERALS, never again will I go to one, I was there to put my buddy to rest and the fucking pasture is up there telling us that we are all sinners and that we need to repent and ask for gods forgiveness. So fucking insulting to the deceased, who we are suppose to be there for.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: MinnesnowtaNice]
    #21850764 - 06/24/15 02:36 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Hey, dont base your judgement on the whole based off one fuck up, lest you cheat yourself... read what Jesus taught about bodily death.  And spiritual death. 

Fuck a paid pastor enacting off profits..


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Amanita86]
    #21850773 - 06/24/15 02:37 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

...and that is real talk right there.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Amanita86]
    #21850790 - 06/24/15 02:40 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Nothing is real, it's all an illusion.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: MinnesnowtaNice]
    #21850824 - 06/24/15 02:46 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

That's not to say illusions cant be real, all they are a twist off of what is real.  This shit is real, and its really happening.  Now if it ends up being something different than what you thought it would be....well, who can say..

But this is indeed happening, and its happening right now..


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Amanita86]
    #21850842 - 06/24/15 02:49 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Yea,., but Is it really? My point is I don't have time to read all that shit nor do I have any interest in it, it's kind of irrelevant to what's really going on


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: MinnesnowtaNice]
    #21850860 - 06/24/15 02:52 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

What would you want your parents to do if you died?  I'm sure you wouldn't want them mourning forever and unable to move on with their lives.  You'd want them to find peace and be happy.  That's how you should live your life.


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: MinnesnowtaNice]
    #21850863 - 06/24/15 02:53 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Fair enough..


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Amanita86]
    #21850872 - 06/24/15 02:55 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

To each their own


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: MinnesnowtaNice]
    #21850906 - 06/24/15 03:01 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

I'm really close to my mom. Love that lady with all my heart. I dunno what I'll do when she dies. I'll do something though to remember her though every year. I don't really want to think about it now though


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Re: What did you do when you lost your parents [Re: Enjoywho]
    #21850953 - 06/24/15 03:10 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

We get too attached to people and things. Its natural to do that but it means you will be hurt down the road because everything comes to an end sooner or later including your own life. Enjoy the moment but do not try to hold on to it because it is fleeting.

Not just people but pets also form bonds with us that are hard to break or let go of. People mourn for lost jobs, lost relationships, lost wealth, lost health, and many other things. It is possibly to enjoy what is here and now while letting go of it. Letting go does not mean rejecting it means non attachment.


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