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Anonymous #1
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Re: Girls like me .. until they get to know me? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#21975487 - 07/21/15 12:40 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: Is there a chance you're getting too clingy making the ladies want to back off so it doesn't get too serious?
I would say in the past that was definitely a huge part of it , if not all of it. Not so much with the girl I am speaking of right now but as soon as I actually started a msg her somewhat often it kinda went fuck up last night for whatever reason.
Well tell me how you're being taken advantage of and ill tell you how to stop being a pussy in that situation
I thought you were referring to how she just out of the blue said she lost her phone & wont be online for awhile even though she has been & how I responded to it.. " ah alright. that sucks you lost your phone, I hope you end up finding it. take it easy ." for a legit example of me being taken advantage for being a nice guy I have many from the past but I don't really care about those anymore. More confused about where I went wrong with this current chick.
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Shining Cosmos
Space Nomad


Registered: 06/18/13
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Re: Girls like me .. until they get to know me? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#21975748 - 07/21/15 01:55 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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If your main source for talking to women is msging then there's your problem.
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Rainman420
Music is my Life


Registered: 06/05/06
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Re: Girls like me .. until they get to know me? [Re: Shining Cosmos]
#21993110 - 07/24/15 10:48 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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Shining Cosmos said: If your main source for talking to women is msging then there's your problem.
Good response lol...
Messaging can work if you made a real impression when you met but you gotta setup that date quick and make it fun/exciting.
Maybe you blew it with this girl, maybe not, it doesn't matter. You are not into anything with her yet really and you should be pursuing other women all at the same time anyway. This way when you hit her up for something and she doesn't respond it doesn't matter, you are not clingy because you have other opportunities.
Also you probably need to be better at reading women in social situations. This way you can tell which type of girl she is based on many factors; clothing, attitude, race, style, music she is dancing too, drugs shes taking, w.e you can see in someone but at the same time have a level head and most importantly, have fun.
Honestly though, what are YOU looking for?
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