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Malcolm_Xtasy
Oh baby what Is you doin??



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I say don't do it.
You said you guys dated in high school? Big fuckin deal.. im sure you've guys have both changed drastically since then. Honestly man you just sound lonely and I get it, it fucking blows. But its not worth uprrooting your life and being dependent on some chick you barely even know anymore. I mean don't get me wrong, there's like a 20% chance of it working out. But after reading the OP a lot of red flags started appearing. You know yourself better than I do obviously, so do whatever the fuck you want. But I think this one is a no go.
Plus, who the fuck would wanna move from florida BACK to minnesnowta..?
Fuck that noise
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Astral Pain
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I wouldn't uproot and move if you're strapped for cash and have medical issues. Love can be deceiving for a guy. Could be lust. You should try whipping up a batch and see if the feelings change. I wouldn't make any quick decisions before thinking it through. Proceed slowly.
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Patlal
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Re: I'm in a love predicament. [Re: Astral Pain]
#21845160 - 06/23/15 08:38 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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How much do you need to make that move to Oregon come true?
Perhaps if you set up a donation web page, charitable souls of the Shroomery might make it happen ; )
Just a thought
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Psychonautica
Cuddly Wuddly Fuccboi

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Malcolm_Xtasy said: I say don't do it.
You said you guys dated in high school? Big fuckin deal.. im sure you've guys have both changed drastically since then. Honestly man you just sound lonely and I get it, it fucking blows. But its not worth uprrooting your life and being dependent on some chick you barely even know anymore. I mean don't get me wrong, there's like a 20% chance of it working out. But after reading the OP a lot of red flags started appearing. You know yourself better than I do obviously, so do whatever the fuck you want. But I think this one is a no go.
Plus, who the fuck would wanna move from florida BACK to minnesnowta..?
Fuck that noise
I have friends and family there and it's cheaper to live and make money. She has a place for me to stay there. Love is more important.
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KamikazeKush
A Most Curious Explorer



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Psychonautica said:
New flash everyone you've ever been was was with another sexual partner before you.
Unless you wife up the virgin like I did
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Psychonautica
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Re: I'm in a love predicament. [Re: KamikazeKush] 1
#21845264 - 06/23/15 09:33 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Why would you marry a Virgin. No offense but I bet the sex life sucks.
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Malcolm_Xtasy
Oh baby what Is you doin??



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Yeah that's probably fucking horrible. You have to train her like a puppy
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Thayendanegea
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I would do that for her, in a heatbeat, the only issue is Idk what love is..
Yes you do....lol...every feeling that you described tells me that.Listen to your heart and KNOW that love will find a way. Love is not logical.
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ak47myth
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: I say don't do it.
You said you guys dated in high school? Big fuckin deal.. im sure you've guys have both changed drastically since then. Honestly man you just sound lonely and I get it, it fucking blows. But its not worth uprrooting your life and being dependent on some chick you barely even know anymore. I mean don't get me wrong, there's like a 20% chance of it working out. But after reading the OP a lot of red flags started appearing. You know yourself better than I do obviously, so do whatever the fuck you want. But I think this one is a no go.
Plus, who the fuck would wanna move from florida BACK to minnesnowta..?
Fuck that noise
This. I agree fully.
You feel like you are in love with her just from phone calls and texts too?
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r00tuuu123
Now I'm just really piseed



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Psychonautica said: We weren't together.
New flash everyone you've ever been was was with another sexual partner before you.
That means your Mom and Dad were your first sexual partners.
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Psychonautica
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Re: I'm in a love predicament. [Re: ak47myth]
#21846461 - 06/23/15 03:30 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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ak47myth said:
This. I agree fully.
You feel like you are in love with her just from phone calls and texts too?
No.we fell in love after about two years of dating then moved apart. it's not an Internet relationship.
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Shortknight



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Just do it. You want to do it.. Whats stopping you? Be that feather in the wind Cheers!
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johnnytheswede
Knowledge seeker



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Hi Psychonautica,
Sorry for sounding a little cliché, but if you and this girl have true love then it will stand the test of time, so therefore you can move slow, indeed, you should move slow to also confirm that what you got is true.
It is a test.
One thing I'd say though: talk with her a lot, if you agree that this is a test, ask her if she also thinks this is a test and if she is ready to also move slow, then hey, that is a good sign, true love is for the long term, at least I think so.
Best of luck!
Kind regards Johnny
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moonrockmushy
High on Spite



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No! She will come between us.
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Psychonautica
Cuddly Wuddly Fuccboi


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I'm going to be with her one way or another. Whether she moves here, or even just comes down to visit and see if the love is still there, then from there we're deciding where to go.
I'm not leaving everything behind, just a couple close friends. A lot of material things, but fuck material things.
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SunnyD
WiZarD oF LoVe



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Monogamy isn't for everyone
Especially gay guys Lemme tell you that much
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moonrockmushy
High on Spite



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Fine just don't expect me to be here when you come crawling back
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Psychonautica
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I'm going to be with her one way or another whether it's here. or we move. I love this girl.
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Psychonautica
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There's always room for a three way baby.
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Malcolm_Xtasy
Oh baby what Is you doin??



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Alright so I'm kinda confused on the situation. You guys date for two years and then break up because you're moving to different places right? Then all of a sudden you guys go from talking from "time to time" to, "I'll move anywhere with you?"
It sounds like she broke up with her ex, and is just using you for a rebound. I guess I'm not understand the OP properly. Does she know you're planning to make such a drastic move? Have you consulted her on any of this? Has she already agreed to let you live with her?
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