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Anonymous #1

I Need To Lose My Virginity
    #21834857 - 06/21/15 12:18 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Im 19 about to be twenty and I still have only kissed a girl. I may have had sex one time but I was blackout drunk and high and just woke up naked at the party house with no memories of what happend. But im just fed up with all my friends having sex but I still haven't. Every time a girl wants to do it im scared and I feel like if had done it it would be less frightening but I always pussy out. Idk what to do I dont know any prostitutes and im dead broke anyways.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #1] * 2
    #21835327 - 06/21/15 03:02 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Hey dude I was 20 when I lost it. I had multiple opportunities I could have lost it but I was either scared or couldnt get it up(scared/nervous). Just when I had all but lost hope on sex the girl of my dreams showed up and I was reborn. Now I am super confident in bed and fuck like a god. My advice...do yourself a favor and stop lamenting and stressing over it. Get social and meet people and you're bound to find someone great. In 5 years the sex you'll have had will outweigh the pain of being a virgin


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Black_Sunset]
    #21835557 - 06/21/15 05:44 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Hey dude I was 20 when I lost it. I had multiple opportunities I could have lost it but I was either scared or couldnt get it up(scared/nervous). Just when I had all but lost hope on sex the girl of my dreams showed up and I was reborn. Now I am super confident in bed and fuck like a god. My advice...do yourself a favor and stop lamenting and stressing over it. Get social and meet people and you're bound to find someone great. In 5 years the sex you'll have had will outweigh the pain of being a virgin



Good post


I havent really lost my virginity until i had sex with a guy about a month back..

Im so gay

ive had sexual xps with girls about 6times
and i was able to get hard

but it felt like i was missing something
And that something turned out to be guys..

Before then i was alot less content, happy and sure about what i wanted


But now i know :heart:

You will too


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Black_Sunset]
    #21839596 - 06/21/15 10:11 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

I lost my virginity at 20 too, after only ever kissing a girl at 17

It doesn't get any better though. Having sex ~10 times in my life hasn't magically made me a different person.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21839607 - 06/21/15 10:13 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

E... E I E I Oh I would love to indulge you, but Im way too old.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: sprinkles]
    #21839874 - 06/21/15 11:11 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Idk I would probably be down lol. But I do have a girlfriend im not horrible with girls its just im a passive person and they usually wait for me to be like lets do it but im doing the same thing they are. Idk though I need to just take risks I wait for girls to tell me what they want and stuff when they want me to just do it (that's what she said anyways). Like I always ask to do everything like do you want a hug or a kiss but I just wait for her to bring up sex she told me today she was waiting on me. 'sigh' I feel like I need to ask permission for everything because I dont want to come off as some creepy rapist. I just got to balance being passive and knowing what to do.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21839929 - 06/21/15 11:23 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Do not worry, your time is coming and it will be with a special person, if not, still ok, there will be more people on your way. I also lost my virginity late...first with a man when I was 19 and couple of years later with a woman.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21840460 - 06/22/15 02:27 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

You could always just look at porn and jerk off the rest of your life.  At least you have internet, imagine being an old virgin before the internet.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: abltsandwich] * 2
    #21840810 - 06/22/15 07:22 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

It's honestly not as big a deal as a lot of people seem to think it is. Just don't stress about it and it will happen in time. Nothing turns most women off faster than a desperate guy.

Best advice for getting layed... become the kind of person that you would want to fuck. I don't mean just physically, work on yourself, become interesting and charismatic enough to charm your own pants off and you will have women falling into bed with you.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: sprinkles]
    #21845559 - 06/23/15 10:54 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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E... E I E I Oh I would love to indulge you, but Im way too old.



Im not too young. You can totally indulge me if you want. :naughty:


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: empty space] * 1
    #21846474 - 06/23/15 03:32 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

You need Jesus, is what you need. Maybe when you're married.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: shaggyp]
    #21847478 - 06/23/15 07:58 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

What was the question? Stop whining, get a FEW shots (DONT GET WASTED) before doing it and you'll be aight. Its not that hard to seal the deal.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Zhu]
    #21847546 - 06/23/15 08:11 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

lost mine at 14. 3 days after my bday. honestly wish I would have waited it was AWFUL!!!

cousin just lost his at 20.

I don't see the big deal AT ALL.

youre fine man don't worry about it too much, I promise if you rush losing it you will get your heart broken more than likely.

when the time is right it will happen.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #3]
    #21847586 - 06/23/15 08:18 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

It's been my experience that the best way to get layed, is not to worry so much about getting layed. Women are generally more interested in a man who's interested in HER not her body. Carry yourself with confidence, learn how to carry on a good conversation  (which involves learning how to listen not just how to talk) and before long you will have women simply falling into bed with you.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Bjorn_Stormcrow]
    #21848337 - 06/23/15 11:08 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Unless you want to lose it only, in that case, hire a hot girl for the whole night. Paid girls won't bother if you are virgin or not


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21848422 - 06/23/15 11:29 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

You have a girlfriend and can't get laid? Well that's fucked up.
Tbh, sounds like you have it easy. Some of us can't even form the smallest kind of bonds with people, let alone attract a mate.
The only thing getting in your way is yourself.  Man up and fuck her right in the pussy


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21848658 - 06/24/15 01:00 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Yeah if you have a girlfriend just ask her because being able to ask such things is what a relationships about. Otherwise just talk to girls. There's all kinds of tips and tricks out there but it really comes down to talking to girls. Its hard not stressing about it but dont stress, you're way to young for stressing on such a thing. Getting laid is great and all but it can be a big distraction and if you are not careful you can quite easily loose sight on whats important. Anyways I lost mine at twenty eight.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21850257 - 06/24/15 12:32 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Idk I would probably be down lol. But I do have a girlfriend im not horrible with girls its just im a passive person and they usually wait for me to be like lets do it but im doing the same thing they are. Idk though I need to just take risks I wait for girls to tell me what they want and stuff when they want me to just do it (that's what she said anyways). Like I always ask to do everything like do you want a hug or a kiss but I just wait for her to bring up sex she told me today she was waiting on me. 'sigh' I feel like I need to ask permission for everything because I dont want to come off as some creepy rapist. I just got to balance being passive and knowing what to do.




Just make a move, don't ask if you can kiss her, just kiss her.  Asking "can I hug/kiss/touch/etc. you" is a turn off most times.  Yes, consent is absolutely necessary, but as your girlfriend physical advances are expected, otherwise she would not be your girlfriend.  If you are being too pushy she will let you know. Make out with her and let your hands start wandering.  If she doesn't like or want something she will tell you.  You will not come off as a creepy rapist because 1)she is your girlfriend, 2)she has pretty much said "yes lets do it, but you have to make the first move", 3)if she is not down she will either say no verbally, or her body language will tell you she is not into it (does not kiss or touch back, pulls away, etc) and you stop doing what she doesn't like.

I understand your fear of making a move, looking back I have missed plenty of opportunities to have some fun simply because I was too shy to make a move.  But at this point since she is your girlfriend and you have talked about sex and she is open to it,  the worst that will happen is she will say no.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: kykeion]
    #21850395 - 06/24/15 01:04 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

The thing is I know a lot of girls that have been raped and what not so they're always telling me stuff about that and I just want to make sure she is down. Idk its just hard to balance what she wants and what I want im just not trying to be creepy or pushy and im worried she would feel obligated to do something and not really want to so im just trying to make sure that she is ready. Like if I was dating someone for 3 months I would feel obligated to sleep with them just because it would be weird to say no but I would never put someone in that position. Idk im not a psychic its hard to know if she is ready without talking about it but talking about it always seems to turn her off. Fuck it im going for it she seems like she really likes me I have to stop being a pussy and take risks. I just hope she would tell me if she did not want to im not going to be pushy.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21850532 - 06/24/15 01:35 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Well, that's where reading her body language comes in.  If she is just doing it because she feels obligated and not because she is into it you will be able to tell. She will have no enthusiasm, and reciprocation will be minimal to non existent.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: kykeion]
    #21851976 - 06/24/15 06:51 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Yeah I 2nd that. I think it's easier than people make it out to be to NOT rape. Just take it nice and slow, don't jump her bones all at once. If she gets uncomfortable at any point it should be pretty obvious, just don't rush it.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: shaggyp]
    #21852196 - 06/24/15 07:51 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Focus on connection dude. Sex without love for me is just really inadequate. Sex with someone you love is just pure bliss, toss some LSD in there and it's fucking amazing.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: kykeion]
    #21855232 - 06/25/15 01:32 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Well, that's where reading her body language comes in.  If she is just doing it because she feels obligated and not because she is into it you will be able to tell. She will have no enthusiasm, and reciprocation will be minimal to non existent.



Depends on your definition of obligated... idk, like if she isn't a sex goddess how would this dude know she wasn't into it? If shes nervous too she might kinda lay there and let him do stuff to her. Enjoying it, passively.

Just because you aren't madly in love doesn't mean you aren't consenting to it, nor is he taking advantage just because she isn't 100% ready

Its super super obvious if she isn't into it in a rapey kind of way without taking it to the point where she has struggling to get away :lol:




Seriously OP, I'm telling you as someone who waited too long, if you just decide you are going for it, you will have fun, but probably feel like a childish fag afterward/during due to your inexperience. Which she will understand, and you will get over it.

Its impossible to be told "just be confident," thats pointless advise. I say (and this sounds bad but its not, its fun) do it like a bandaid. Just fucking go for it, even though its gonna feel awkward as fuck and clumsy. You two have already talked about how you are awkward (:lol:) so she will totally understand. The best advise I ever got was from a girl who had sex with a bunch of different guys, and she said it was awkward with a new guy every time.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: bloodsheen]
    #21855552 - 06/25/15 02:45 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

OP, I'm 24 and somehow I haven't lost my V card still. you're 20, you're still young. it's not that bad





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kykeion said:
you will have fun, but probably feel like a childish fag afterward/during due to your inexperience. Which she will understand, and you will get over it.










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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
    #21855584 - 06/25/15 02:54 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Focus on connection dude. Sex without love for me is just really inadequate. Sex with someone you love is just pure bliss, toss some LSD in there and it's fucking amazing.



I really, really, really wanna try this. I know for a fact that mushrooms didn't work for me...lol. LSD doesn't have as much mind fuck though and I love my girl to death. I just know it would be amazing.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21886780 - 07/02/15 08:24 AM (8 years, 6 months ago)

If it makes you feel better... I'm 20 and I'm still a virgin haha


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Arrtus]
    #21896950 - 07/04/15 02:30 PM (8 years, 6 months ago)

People make losing their virginity to be such a big deal. That is literally the last thing you want to do. I wish I could forget the first time I had sex thats how bad it was. I think about it and it makes me physically cringe. No one wants to lose their virginity they just want to have regular sex. Don't worry about waiting for the special someone. They will come around eventually, but in the mean time get laid. Your special someone is probably out there getting pounded in the ass by a big black guy as we speak so dont worry about saving your vcard for anyone.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22036698 - 08/03/15 08:55 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Didja fuck her?


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: bloodsheen] * 1
    #22036718 - 08/03/15 09:04 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I was 25. When the time is right, the time is right. I'm glad I matured before I started having sex. I was always "scared" as well and I wasted a ton of opportunities as well. As it turns out I had good reasons to be scared and keep my virginity. Sex is a pretty intense emotional connection (if done right) that I just wasn't ready for. All the social pressure to become sexually active is some bullshit. You'll know when the time is right, trust me.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: GoldenEye]
    #22042315 - 08/04/15 02:08 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

OP is your girlfriend a virgin, sounds like she isn't. I lost my virginity to having my then girlfriend ride me. I think if you are worried about losing your virginity you should just lose it by going down on your girlfriend and getting her wet and horny then having her on top. You'll probably cum super fast. And she can do most of the work and show you how it's done.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Everything]
    #22045490 - 08/05/15 01:06 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Get a prostitute to slob on that knob man dont end up like beavis.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: thewanderer25]
    #22045522 - 08/05/15 01:17 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I still can't  it's not fair. Like why whats wrong with me my girlfriend dumped me because I couldn't talk to her anymore i've been so stoned I couldn't. Im just going to make sign that says "need to get laid please help" because i'm running out of options.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22045535 - 08/05/15 01:24 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

No man just follow the song man go to a hood and fuck a ratchet bitch. If she looks like this it won't be too hard


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: thewanderer25]
    #22045546 - 08/05/15 01:28 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

I will look then I suppose im getting desperate im just worried i'll never score and need to at least one time.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22045561 - 08/05/15 01:37 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

A ratchet hoe will know what to do just go into a local hood or cocaine spot and look for them thier not hard to spot this is a typical ratchet buy them a fourloko and they will do the rest. Bam just got you laid :asianofapproval: that's how I do.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: thewanderer25]
    #22045563 - 08/05/15 01:39 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Whats a fourloko?


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22045576 - 08/05/15 01:46 AM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Any type of cheap nasty alcohol will do but ratchets can smell a four loko a mile away where as a 40oz is around a half a mile of ratchet attraction radius. But the ratchet will find you most of the time just drive through playing that song loud as hell and you're good.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22047785 - 08/05/15 02:44 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

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I still can't  it's not fair. Like why whats wrong with me my girlfriend dumped me because I couldn't talk to her anymore i've been so stoned I couldn't. Im just going to make sign that says "need to get laid please help" because i'm running out of options.



You couldn't talk to her anymore? What does that mean?


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: bloodsheen]
    #22073593 - 08/10/15 08:30 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Just to all the virgins out there stressing out, it's really hard being young especially 19 with any sort of label attached to you. It's just a phase of life and it will pass, you'll wonder why you were worried... why you cared so much about what people think. Or you'll lose it and think the same thing.

What you should be thinking is why am I holding back on my birthright to sexual pleasure and love like I am. Think it through. If you're scared, well everyone gets scared around these hot sort of feelings, but if you're uncontrollably scared maybe you have an anxiety disorder or you've really shut yourself in and haven't developed necessary life skills like confidence and self-esteem. Work on those first, then you'll get there. Or see someone about the anxiety.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: circastes]
    #22073769 - 08/10/15 09:04 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Well I ened up getting a handjob at a local massage parlor. It wasn't as good as I thought I payed 50 dollars and it only lasted like 2 minutes. I should have found a rachet woman but honestly im scared.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #22073825 - 08/10/15 09:17 PM (8 years, 5 months ago)

Go get a hooker you'll be fine


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: rackem] * 1
    #22162891 - 08/29/15 10:56 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Dude I didn't lose my virginity until I was 18...

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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Janky Tits]
    #22162905 - 08/29/15 10:59 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

nah kinda explains some things :smilingpuppy:

in the big scheme of things it really doesnt fucking matter.
virgins dont have to worry about the phone call saying im pregnant, alimony, divorce or any of the like.  its less bullshit.

but none of them will ever understand that.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: rackem]
    #22162915 - 08/29/15 11:01 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

As long as you don't be a gigantic Faglord like Elliot Rodger and go on a killing spree because you can't get laid..... then it's alright to be a virgin.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Janky Tits]
    #22162983 - 08/29/15 11:21 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

yes thats an exception to be the rule.

ill withold any more comments i have on that pos.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: rackem]
    #22171407 - 08/31/15 09:31 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

23 yo v card holder, it sucks,  I think about it everyday and it makes me very sad


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #7]
    #22172299 - 09/01/15 01:53 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

yeah well your basically going to identify yourself as that, feel bad, feel like that, and keep doing that in a negative cycle keeping you guess what?.....a virgin. :wink:

however a better approach OP is to let it go and then just meeet people and talk. i kind of feel like a virgin in a way when im not seeing someone for a while, its just i don't get as nervous and am well ready for some sex to go down again without worrying about virgin things.

by letting go i mean quit reminding yourself your a virgin with all your virgin thoughts and shit...star identifying differently, don't even identify as virgin, just yourself before you weren't one....

DONT GET A HOOKER OP, just check out all the girls on your Facebook you don't really ever see or hang out with and ask how they are and if they want to go get coffee or out to eat sometime, try to get a number then see if they're at all flirtatious if yes, back to your house or kiss them, next date...if there not then...just like ask if theyd wanna fuck if they say no just dont worry and drive em home its not like it matters.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Everything]
    #22175518 - 09/01/15 07:59 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

It was me who made this thread I was to embarrassed to admit it. I got drunk then decided to fuck with myslef on here idk why im an idiot past 12PM. But since this thread ive gotten a girlfriend and will get some pussy tomorrow ive already fingered her and we made plans to go to my place tomorrow.  On a good note I made her cum dont ask me how but I did :shrug: its not all that an honestly just feels overrated but makes me want more.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: thewanderer25] * 1
    #22175544 - 09/01/15 08:05 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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It was me who made this thread I was to embarrassed to admit it. I got drunk then decided to fuck with myslef on here idk why im an idiot past 12PM. But since this thread ive gotten a girlfriend and will get some pussy tomorrow ive already fingered her and we made plans to go to my place tomorrow.  On a good note I made her cum dont ask me how but I did :shrug: its not all that an honestly just feels overrated but makes me want more.



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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Anonymous #8]
    #22175577 - 09/01/15 08:13 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

lol im such a troll my bad ive got to stop drinking it makes me retarded. My bad I didn't want to say it was me and I fucked myself over by posting so many times so I just hoped the tread would die on its own. I just drink and act stupid and it follows me on here if only my computer/phone had some kind of breathalyzer because I piss of my friends as well as you guys with my drunken shenanigans.


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    #22175594 - 09/01/15 08:16 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Shut.....the fuck up


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: thewanderer25] * 1
    #22179406 - 09/02/15 06:16 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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It was me who made this thread I was to embarrassed to admit it. I got drunk then decided to fuck with myslef on here idk why im an idiot past 12PM. But since this thread ive gotten a girlfriend and will get some pussy tomorrow ive already fingered her and we made plans to go to my place tomorrow.  On a good note I made her cum dont ask me how but I did :shrug: its not all that an honestly just feels overrated but makes me want more.



She faked it. That's how.

And it's not 'all that' to you because you're a virgin that doesn't know what to do or how to do it.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: D.M.T]
    #22179449 - 09/02/15 06:25 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Quote:

thewanderer25 said:
It was me who made this thread I was to embarrassed to admit it. I got drunk then decided to fuck with myslef on here idk why im an idiot past 12PM. But since this thread ive gotten a girlfriend and will get some pussy tomorrow ive already fingered her and we made plans to go to my place tomorrow.  On a good note I made her cum dont ask me how but I did :shrug: its not all that an honestly just feels overrated but makes me want more.



She faked it. That's how.

And it's not 'all that' to you because you're a virgin that doesn't know what to do or how to do it.



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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: MajickMuffin]
    #22179499 - 09/02/15 06:32 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Focus on her. Pleasure her good and you will be a satisfied man.


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    #22179512 - 09/02/15 06:35 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Focus on her. Pleasure her good and you will be a satisfied man.



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    #22179518 - 09/02/15 06:36 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Focus on her. Pleasure her good and you will be a satisfied man.






lol spoken like some chinese proverb.


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    #22179529 - 09/02/15 06:37 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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Focus on her. Pleasure her good and you will be a satisfied man.






lol spoken like some chinese proverb.



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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: MajickMuffin]
    #22180532 - 09/02/15 09:38 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Idk man she like got really wet and I could feel her pussy go lose when it happend. Like you could see her pants were wet and he pussy was like so wet when I pulled my finger out it was soaked I had to wash my hands 3 times to get the smell off. :tongue: I didn't bone her yet she wasn't in the mood but she gave me a BJ and said if we get drunk tomorrow and I bring condoms she would be down.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: thewanderer25]
    #22181718 - 09/03/15 05:04 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

She smelled bad down there? does she have an infection or something? was it like she hadn't showered or.....?:hmm: cuz thats a lot of handwashing to get the smellz off. Is it like a fishy smell or like a dead animal smell?


...You could see her pants were wet? dude take off those pants man and get your face in there, check that shit out.


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    #22181721 - 09/03/15 05:10 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

She probably doesn't know anything about her vagina and cleans it out all the time. If they keep it too clean, so to speak, they run the risk of infections and stuff. She's young enough to not know that.


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    #22181736 - 09/03/15 05:28 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

oh shit, that makes a lot of sense. i dont have a vag but my girl has infections kinda frequently, though i think it had something to do with taking anti-biotics for something possibly really serious but turned out to be okay. However the antibiotics weakened her immune system and i think thats why she has gotten them more recently :shrug:


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Everything]
    #22181784 - 09/03/15 06:04 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I mean, virgin sex typically isn't all the great. I'm really glad I lost mine comfortably in a relationship. Took me two more partners before I felt confident in bed.


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    #22181787 - 09/03/15 06:07 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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oh shit, that makes a lot of sense. i dont have a vag but my girl has infections kinda frequently, though i think it had something to do with taking anti-biotics for something possibly really serious but turned out to be okay. However the antibiotics weakened her immune system and i think thats why she has gotten them more recently :shrug:



There are a lot of things that can cause that. Diet, and actually jizz apparently. It's complicated being a woman..


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: LittleDaddy]
    #22181788 - 09/03/15 06:08 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I've never taken a girls virginity. doesn't sound like it's fun. Sex for my first time was pretty enjoyable. it was definitely good. I didn't do anything though i just got fucked.

and i was on the tale end of :awecid:


...and it was my birthdayz :lol:

virgin sex can be good.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Everything]
    #22182256 - 09/03/15 09:47 AM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Yeah, silly of me to make an umbrella statement.

It felt great, but I couldn't find the hole, didn't cum, and couldn't thrust without worrying about busting lolo


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: LittleDaddy]
    #22182754 - 09/03/15 12:08 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

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It felt great, but I couldn't find the hole, didn't cum, and couldn't thrust without worrying about busting lolo



That's exactly what I would expect from OP this weekend.

Not that he will admit it, of course, but I'm sure that's pretty much every guy's first time.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: D.M.T]
    #22183378 - 09/03/15 02:36 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Not if I beat it like 20 times that day then ill fuck her with a half limp dick because of the meat spanking.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: thewanderer25]
    #22183896 - 09/03/15 05:12 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

If you are at all flaccid then you may as well just forget about it.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: D.M.T]
    #22184806 - 09/03/15 08:18 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Maybe fforget about "it" but don't forget about her:eatingout:


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Everything]
    #22184814 - 09/03/15 08:20 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

I can sex somewhat flaccid and get hard missionary, but only if I bareback it. Condoms with 50% boner = 0% sex for me


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: LittleDaddy]
    #22184825 - 09/03/15 08:23 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Condoms just arent meant to be. Fighting the currents of nature...


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Everything]
    #22190321 - 09/04/15 09:19 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

Fuck it ima bone a hoe she is stupid anyways she dont smoke drink or nothing. Im just going to get a decent girl she was like a used car gota get a shity one then upgarde later.


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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: thewanderer25]
    #22190970 - 09/04/15 11:41 PM (8 years, 4 months ago)

You should wander where ur gonna be at when your 25


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