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shaggyp
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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: kykeion]
#21851976 - 06/24/15 06:51 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah I 2nd that. I think it's easier than people make it out to be to NOT rape. Just take it nice and slow, don't jump her bones all at once. If she gets uncomfortable at any point it should be pretty obvious, just don't rush it.
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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: shaggyp]
#21852196 - 06/24/15 07:51 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Focus on connection dude. Sex without love for me is just really inadequate. Sex with someone you love is just pure bliss, toss some LSD in there and it's fucking amazing.
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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: kykeion]
#21855232 - 06/25/15 01:32 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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kykeion said: Well, that's where reading her body language comes in. If she is just doing it because she feels obligated and not because she is into it you will be able to tell. She will have no enthusiasm, and reciprocation will be minimal to non existent.
Depends on your definition of obligated... idk, like if she isn't a sex goddess how would this dude know she wasn't into it? If shes nervous too she might kinda lay there and let him do stuff to her. Enjoying it, passively.
Just because you aren't madly in love doesn't mean you aren't consenting to it, nor is he taking advantage just because she isn't 100% ready
Its super super obvious if she isn't into it in a rapey kind of way without taking it to the point where she has struggling to get away 
Seriously OP, I'm telling you as someone who waited too long, if you just decide you are going for it, you will have fun, but probably feel like a childish fag afterward/during due to your inexperience. Which she will understand, and you will get over it.
Its impossible to be told "just be confident," thats pointless advise. I say (and this sounds bad but its not, its fun) do it like a bandaid. Just fucking go for it, even though its gonna feel awkward as fuck and clumsy. You two have already talked about how you are awkward ( ) so she will totally understand. The best advise I ever got was from a girl who had sex with a bunch of different guys, and she said it was awkward with a new guy every time.
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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: bloodsheen]
#21855552 - 06/25/15 02:45 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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OP, I'm 24 and somehow I haven't lost my V card still. you're 20, you're still young. it's not that bad
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kykeion said: you will have fun, but probably feel like a childish fag afterward/during due to your inexperience. Which she will understand, and you will get over it.
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Rebelutionsssss said: Focus on connection dude. Sex without love for me is just really inadequate. Sex with someone you love is just pure bliss, toss some LSD in there and it's fucking amazing.
I really, really, really wanna try this. I know for a fact that mushrooms didn't work for me...lol. LSD doesn't have as much mind fuck though and I love my girl to death. I just know it would be amazing.
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If it makes you feel better... I'm 20 and I'm still a virgin haha
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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Arrtus]
#21896950 - 07/04/15 02:30 PM (8 years, 6 months ago) |
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People make losing their virginity to be such a big deal. That is literally the last thing you want to do. I wish I could forget the first time I had sex thats how bad it was. I think about it and it makes me physically cringe. No one wants to lose their virginity they just want to have regular sex. Don't worry about waiting for the special someone. They will come around eventually, but in the mean time get laid. Your special someone is probably out there getting pounded in the ass by a big black guy as we speak so dont worry about saving your vcard for anyone.
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Didja fuck her?
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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: bloodsheen] 1
#22036718 - 08/03/15 09:04 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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I was 25. When the time is right, the time is right. I'm glad I matured before I started having sex. I was always "scared" as well and I wasted a ton of opportunities as well. As it turns out I had good reasons to be scared and keep my virginity. Sex is a pretty intense emotional connection (if done right) that I just wasn't ready for. All the social pressure to become sexually active is some bullshit. You'll know when the time is right, trust me.
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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: GoldenEye]
#22042315 - 08/04/15 02:08 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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OP is your girlfriend a virgin, sounds like she isn't. I lost my virginity to having my then girlfriend ride me. I think if you are worried about losing your virginity you should just lose it by going down on your girlfriend and getting her wet and horny then having her on top. You'll probably cum super fast. And she can do most of the work and show you how it's done.
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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: Everything]
#22045490 - 08/05/15 01:06 AM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Get a prostitute to slob on that knob man dont end up like beavis.
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I still can't it's not fair. Like why whats wrong with me my girlfriend dumped me because I couldn't talk to her anymore i've been so stoned I couldn't. Im just going to make sign that says "need to get laid please help" because i'm running out of options.
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thewanderer25
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No man just follow the song man go to a hood and fuck a ratchet bitch. If she looks like this it won't be too hard
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I will look then I suppose im getting desperate im just worried i'll never score and need to at least one time.
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thewanderer25
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A ratchet hoe will know what to do just go into a local hood or cocaine spot and look for them thier not hard to spot this is a typical ratchet buy them a fourloko and they will do the rest. Bam just got you laid that's how I do.
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Whats a fourloko?
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thewanderer25
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Any type of cheap nasty alcohol will do but ratchets can smell a four loko a mile away where as a 40oz is around a half a mile of ratchet attraction radius. But the ratchet will find you most of the time just drive through playing that song loud as hell and you're good.
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Anonymous said: I still can't it's not fair. Like why whats wrong with me my girlfriend dumped me because I couldn't talk to her anymore i've been so stoned I couldn't. Im just going to make sign that says "need to get laid please help" because i'm running out of options.
You couldn't talk to her anymore? What does that mean?
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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: bloodsheen]
#22073593 - 08/10/15 08:30 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Just to all the virgins out there stressing out, it's really hard being young especially 19 with any sort of label attached to you. It's just a phase of life and it will pass, you'll wonder why you were worried... why you cared so much about what people think. Or you'll lose it and think the same thing.
What you should be thinking is why am I holding back on my birthright to sexual pleasure and love like I am. Think it through. If you're scared, well everyone gets scared around these hot sort of feelings, but if you're uncontrollably scared maybe you have an anxiety disorder or you've really shut yourself in and haven't developed necessary life skills like confidence and self-esteem. Work on those first, then you'll get there. Or see someone about the anxiety.
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Re: I Need To Lose My Virginity [Re: circastes]
#22073769 - 08/10/15 09:04 PM (8 years, 5 months ago) |
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Well I ened up getting a handjob at a local massage parlor. It wasn't as good as I thought I payed 50 dollars and it only lasted like 2 minutes. I should have found a rachet woman but honestly im scared.
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