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SirShroomsAlott
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Re: Just told my mom that I smoke weed...now what? [Re: luvdemboomers]
#21824508 - 06/18/15 04:55 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I wouldn't call her a drama queen mother though, just a typical worried parent. My parents scolded me like crazy and threatened me and everything in my teens, now I can blow smoke in their face if I wanted to....literally.
She knows he's young, and young usually equals dumb, she's afraid he'll turn to other things most likely, she probably has that old mindset of "gateway drug"
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Re: Just told my mom that I smoke weed...now what? [Re: SirShroomsAlott]
#21824516 - 06/18/15 04:57 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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OP is just that typical 17 year old know it all.
Gotta admit, props to Mom for having a no bullshit policy. If he is smoking weed and driving her car and getting high everyday that is a problem.
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Re: Just told my mom that I smoke weed...now what? [Re: Bitter Cactus]
#21824520 - 06/18/15 04:58 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Her insurance would be what covers the bill if he was to destroy god knows what with that car. It would fall back on her.
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Re: Just told my mom that I smoke weed...now what? [Re: SirShroomsAlott]
#21824527 - 06/18/15 04:59 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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If he keeps the weed in the house too she gets charged with it and it will be on her permanent record.
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Re: Just told my mom that I smoke weed...now what? [Re: Bitter Cactus]
#21824539 - 06/18/15 05:01 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Now she is going to disown you.
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Re: Just told my mom that I smoke weed...now what? [Re: SirShroomsAlott]
#21824556 - 06/18/15 05:06 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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SirShroomsAlott said: I wouldn't call her a drama queen mother though, just a typical worried parent. My parents scolded me like crazy and threatened me and everything in my teens, now I can blow smoke in their face if I wanted to....literally.
She knows he's young, and young usually equals dumb, she's afraid he'll turn to other things most likely, she probably has that old mindset of "gateway drug"
yeah I know not the best wording
ignorant and worried worried is probably more fitting
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Re: Just told my mom that I smoke weed...now what? [Re: SirShroomsAlott] 1
#21824604 - 06/18/15 05:20 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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just tell her u're a member of the shroomery. tell her zZZz got this.
thank me later
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Re: Just told my mom that I smoke weed...now what? [Re: zZZz]
#21824896 - 06/18/15 06:23 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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He's probably still on her insurance and that's why she can tell him that he can't drive.
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zZZz
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i could understand why she wouldnt let him drive.
u tested the waters op, and u found they were infested with sharks. gotta keep on the down low bro..
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Re: Just told my mom that I smoke weed...now what? [Re: zZZz]
#21824984 - 06/18/15 06:40 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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This kind of thread belongs in psychedelic experience.
That is where most of the people underage usually post lol. Not saying OP is under age but he gives off that vibe at little bit.
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Re: Just told my mom that I smoke weed...now what? [Re: Bitter Cactus]
#21825408 - 06/18/15 08:35 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I was in your same situation OP, except I never told my mom, I got a drug test after my bestfriend got caught. Never admit to anything.
When this happened to me I couldn't drive, got my phone turned off, whole 9 yards. I even had an intervention with alot of my family. They then sent me to a drug addict counselor for adults. The counselor thought my family was crazy.
Don't mean to be the bearer of bad news and I'm hoping it doesn't turn out for you like it did for me. Smoking tore the relationship between alot of my family and I, especially my mom. Never really got along after that, always fighting, didn't really get to go out and socialize much anymore either because of how suspicious she was of me. Lost some friends because of that and hurt other relationships.
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Really? No one else is gonna throw this out there?
Your mom loves you OP.
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Re: Just told my mom that I smoke weed...now what? [Re: luvdemboomers]
#21826149 - 06/18/15 11:28 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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TripMaster666 said: She tried to tell me that now she has lost me as her son and that my father won by leaving her. Instead of keeping this new information about me to herself, she went and told my grandfather (45+ years as a sheriffs deputy) that I smoke marijuana.
What I just quoted goes to show you that weed has indeed negatively affected your life.
That's like saying spoons made me fat.
It wasn't the weed that caused problems, it was his idiotic drama queen mother (no offense op, wasn't the best wording but I don't feel like sitting here trying to find more fitting words).
Although you do have a point, and I myself love weed to death, it sounds like OP is just being a mom. It might be annoying, it might make him upset but like I said, until he can financially support himself and is legally and adult he has to take her shit.
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Re: Just told my mom that I smoke weed...now what? [Re: kr0nik0]
#21832847 - 06/20/15 03:47 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Thanks for the replies guys! A lot of these replies have been very sobering for me. I am thinking that the best thing right now is to take some serious time off, and focus on school and work. I think it is more important to try to set myself up to succeed academically and financially right now then to try to fight with my mom about weed. Realistically, I know weed is not that bad but it is her house and I have to respect that.
As far as the relationship with my mom and my grandpa goes, I am just trying to play it cool and stay on their good side. If I can stay weed-free (which I can) for about a month or two, all of this stuff will blow over. My brother already got caught with his buddy smoking weed once, and after a couple weeks there was not really that much of an issue. Once again, thanks a lot for the advice guys!
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Re: Just told my mom that I smoke weed...now what? [Re: TripMaster666]
#21832864 - 06/20/15 03:52 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I can't believe that in this day and age some people still think that weed = death...
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Re: Just told my mom that I smoke weed...now what? [Re: TripMaster666]
#21832872 - 06/20/15 03:56 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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TripMaster666 said: Thanks for the replies guys! A lot of these replies have been very sobering for me. I am thinking that the best thing right now is to take some serious time off, and focus on school and work. I think it is more important to try to set myself up to succeed academically and financially right now then to try to fight with my mom about weed. Realistically, I know weed is not that bad but it is her house and I have to respect that.
As far as the relationship with my mom and my grandpa goes, I am just trying to play it cool and stay on their good side. If I can stay weed-free (which I can) for about a month or two, all of this stuff will blow over. My brother already got caught with his buddy smoking weed once, and after a couple weeks there was not really that much of an issue. Once again, thanks a lot for the advice guys!

You sound very mature for being in high school. That's probably the best course of action. Chalk it up as a life lesson.
IME drugs don't cause the problems... it's the people that have a problem with drugs that cause them.
Edited by luvdemboomers (06/20/15 03:57 PM)
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