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Re: Can I ever get this girl back? Anytime soon? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21825349 - 06/18/15 08:21 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I think I have made it abundantly clear I've switched up my actions from when this happened. Of course it won't be shown to her until a year or two down obviously.
I know I acted like a piece of shit. It's all dead now. I hold onto a little bit of hope that we might find our way back together some day though.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Can I ever get this girl back? Anytime soon? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#21825598 - 06/18/15 09:16 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Looks like that's it guys. She's with that friend now. Funny how that worked out right?
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Anonymous #1
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Re: Can I ever get this girl back? Anytime soon? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#21827232 - 06/19/15 08:50 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Turns out they're not together, I don't think. I told her I couldn't stomach seeing that and she didn't answer after a couple of times but from the first time I asked her reply was "what makes you think that's happening?". Hopefully that's not just her saying it's none of my business.
Anyways she replies back talking about how I'm ruining making contact if I come at her with the same sob story, which I said I'm not, just that it hurt a little to create the account and see her profile picture again.
She said she never stopped liking me. Just that I removed everyone from my life. I almost certainly think she's talking platonically for now, which is fine. I'd hate to see her with another guy or hear about it but I suppose it'll take time to build that trust up again, and some years of creating a true bond again.
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Thayendanegea
quiet walker



Registered: 02/20/12
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Re: Can I ever get this girl back? Anytime soon? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#21827684 - 06/19/15 11:03 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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You're saying to get sober too. I think that's it. I think I need to get away from it all and focus on myself. Even down to tripping. I'm very certain I need to be a true long while sober.
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Do you guys think this is all curable? I almost feel like her sleeping with my friend was something that needed to happen to move forward, even though it sucks but the pain I caused her needed to be rectified. Then I wonder what her parents will think... Whole other battle
yes....don't worry about her parents...worry about your side of the street.
-------------------- Look Deep Into Nature,and Then You Will Understand Everything Better. Albert Einstein
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Anonymous #2
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Re: Can I ever get this girl back? Anytime soon? [Re: Thayendanegea]
#21828509 - 06/19/15 03:01 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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the flower doesn't dream of the bee. it blossoms, and the bee comes.
don't obsess with the thought of the bee coming back just blossom and grow
what happens when another girl comes along just as great as her. you want to be ready this time, no? so keep blossoming, keep working on you.
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Rebelutionsssss
Mdmazing



Registered: 07/23/14
Posts: 13,137
Loc: San Francisco
Last seen: 2 years, 2 months
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Re: Can I ever get this girl back? Anytime soon? [Re: Anonymous #2]
#21828524 - 06/19/15 03:05 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: the flower doesn't dream of the bee. it blossoms, and the bee comes.
don't obsess with the thought of the bee coming back just blossom and grow
what happens when another girl comes along just as great as her. you want to be ready this time, no? so keep blossoming, keep working on you.
That's a perfect analogy
-------------------- : To define is to confine.
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Re: Can I ever get this girl back? Anytime soon? [Re: Rebelutionsssss]
#21830102 - 06/19/15 09:14 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I actually started realizing today how little I need her in my life. It was a roller coaster to create Facebook again and message her, but after that it was just whatever. I remembered, well, that she's fucking my friend or whoever else, and that means literally to me, she's dead as a potential mate. Maybe in time I suppose, but it doesn't even seem so appealing to me anymore.
As for your analogy, I'll take it to heart. I'll find my queen soon enough and I'll be ready for her when the time comes.
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