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Almond Flour
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What's it like to cheat.....?
#21816127 - 06/16/15 07:10 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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For those of you who cheat is it magical? To have your cake and to eat it to? Is it everything we who don't cheat dreams it is on a dark and stormy night and we are feeling "weak" but resist for a variety of reasons?
For those who don't cheat how on earth do you maintain? What's your secret when temptation peaks in and girls are flirting with you?
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Re: What's it like to cheat.....? [Re: Almond Flour]
#21816139 - 06/16/15 07:13 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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It's all fun and games until someone gets caught.
Too much guilt and shame.
Unless it's a revenge cheat... then you videotape the shit and send it to your current GF before you break up with her. Just my $.02
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Re: What's it like to cheat.....? [Re: Detached]
#21816150 - 06/16/15 07:16 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Detached said: It's all fun and games until someone gets caught.
Too much guilt and shame.
Unless it's a revenge cheat... then you videotape the shit and send it to your current GF before you break up with her. Just my $.02
Is there guilt and shame? Does it actually effect your mental state?
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Re: What's it like to cheat.....? [Re: Almond Flour]
#21816274 - 06/16/15 07:46 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Guilt and shame. Not worth it in the least, if you're that unhappy just leave.
Seems like a good idea at the time but it really is not worth it even if your not caught.
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Almond Flour
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I have to admit fellas. Sometimes, with girls flirting with me, and me and my significant other fighting.....I think about cheating.
It drives me fucking crazy at times. Its like the biggest trap ever. All of the sudden I start ruminating over the negative aspects of my relationship and think....fuck maybe the grass is greener.
Tell me im not the only one
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Edited by Almond Flour (06/16/15 08:35 PM)
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Re: What's it like to cheat.....? [Re: Almond Flour]
#21816346 - 06/16/15 07:59 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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You're not the only one, it happens to everybody.
Wait till you get a ring on your finger and all the sluts look at you even more trying to get what they aren't supposed to have. And you're are supposed to be even more loyal, so it's like a double down on both sides.
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Almond Flour
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Supachopped719 said: You're not the only one, it happens to everybody.
Wait till you get a ring on your finger and all the sluts look at you even more trying to get what they aren't supposed to have. And you're are supposed to be even more loyal, so it's like a double down on both sides.
That does blow man. Its funny at my new job, I tell everyone I have a fiance, and yet the cute bro ho flirts with me every time Im within chatting distance, and the thick women that work across the store make eye love to me every time I pass.
Ironically though, once you are single all that shit stops
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Edited by Almond Flour (06/16/15 08:36 PM)
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Re: What's it like to cheat.....? [Re: Almond Flour]
#21816372 - 06/16/15 08:05 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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The forbidden fruit. Once it's not forbidden it's just a shitty apple some slut took a bite out of and left on the ground.
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Supachopped719 said: The forbidden fruit. Once it's not forbidden it's just a shitty apple some slut took a bite out of and left on the ground.
Thats some deep shit. Definitely belongs in the new "Men" thread everyone has been posting in
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Supachopped719 said: The forbidden fruit. Once it's not forbidden it's just a shitty apple some slut took a bite out of and left on the ground.
Seriously though I wonder what would happen if I married guy actually went for one of those girls. WOuld they be stoked and try to marry him? Or would they go "This shit is boring" and simply leave while his marriage is in shambles and he has a ton of guilt
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Re: What's it like to cheat.....? [Re: Almond Flour]
#21816409 - 06/16/15 08:13 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Also what is the morality behind cheating while outside of marriage? I mean, if you are not married is it really "Cheating"? Obviously its an act that causes damage to the relationship and is bad "Practice". But philosophically speaking is it wrong to cheat while outside marriage? I mean, you are not married. So what do you actually owe that person? Premarital sex, is wrong either way from a religious perspective, so whats premarital premarital sex?
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Edited by Almond Flour (06/16/15 08:14 PM)
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Re: What's it like to cheat.....? [Re: Almond Flour]
#21816422 - 06/16/15 08:15 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Door number two
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Re: What's it like to cheat.....? [Re: pslyke]
#21816484 - 06/16/15 08:24 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Re: What's it like to cheat.....? [Re: Amanita86] 1
#21816507 - 06/16/15 08:29 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I've cheated on some of my EX's and it was never worth it. I obviously didn't care much about them though or I wouldn't have done it. I'm currently engaged to my true love and would never cheat on her. Even if the hottest chick in the world threw herself at me. When you truly love someone you will do anything to avoid them from getting hurt.
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Re: What's it like to cheat.....? [Re: Magicman69]
#21816516 - 06/16/15 08:31 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Magicman69 said: I've cheated on some of my EX's and it was never worth it. I obviously didn't care much about them though or I wouldn't have done it. I'm currently engaged to my true love and would never cheat on her. Even if the hottest chick in the world threw herself at me. When you truly love someone you will do anything to avoid them from getting hurt.
That is true when I think about it.
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Re: What's it like to cheat.....? [Re: Almond Flour]
#21816558 - 06/16/15 08:37 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Detached said: It's all fun and games until someone gets caught.
Too much guilt and shame.
Unless it's a revenge cheat... then you videotape the shit and send it to your current GF before you break up with her. Just my $.02
Is there guilt and shame? Does it actually effect your mental state?
There is guilt and shame if your partner doesn't deserve that type of treatment. Revenge cheating is a whole separate chapter in my book.
It effected my mental state enough that it ended up killing a relationship that I was in for over 5 years but I don't regret it. I think I was looking for a reason for it to end and I didn't have enough balls to do it. Easier to blame an outside cause like another woman.
People have different reasons for stepping outside of their relationship.
I prefer to be single for this reason. Temptation is much more inviting when forbidden.
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Re: What's it like to cheat.....? [Re: Detached]
#21816732 - 06/16/15 09:12 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I've flirted with other girls, they had boyfriends too but nothing came of it and it was harmless imo. just the though of actually cheating on someone I love and care about fills me with guilt and shame and I don't think I could do it.
Unless I was really drunk, there was one time when I was really drunk and I didn't even think about my girlfriend but It just never happened, luckily.. the next day I was pissed at myself and ashamed that I was totally willing to do it too, idk if I'd put myself in that position again.
I can't really see why people cheat unless they're in some hollow relationship where they don't really care about the other. I've been cheated on once because she couldn't break up with me herself. Cheating to end a relationship you're unhappy with is a really hurtful way of going about it..
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Re: What's it like to cheat.....? [Re: Detached]
#21816756 - 06/16/15 09:16 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Ive only cheated once. I dont and do regret it because i dont like hurting people i love but the chick i cheated on fucked me up real bad in the head and did lots of fucked up things that hurt me.
Ive only been cheated on once, that i know of. And i was with a lesbian and she "fucked" some chick and i was just like "yo, just be a lesbian, its cool."
Ive been the one who was cheated with multiple times. Sometimes its sad, sometimes its REALLY good sex. Mostly its fun though. Usually the dude deserved my dick in his girl anyways.
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