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Patlal
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What are your thoughts on romance?
#21793619 - 06/11/15 03:59 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I've always felt unconfortable with romance. It's not shyness, it's more a perception that's it's unmanly. Kinda like saying stuff like "I love you honey bunny cutesie pie bla bla bla" in public (you know what I mean). I feels so unappropriate to me. Unfamiliar. It's just plain embarassing in my mind to be romantic, especially in public. Am I crazy?
It's something I just don't feel comfortable doing (As in not comfortable at all). I'd rather crawl under the carpet than to be romantic. It feels so unnatural to me.
I can't possibly be the only guy feeling this way right? Does romance feel off/not normal to you? Are you romantic? Does it embarass you???
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: Patlal]
#21793627 - 06/11/15 04:02 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I agree with you 100% about public displays of affection, It just doesn't tickle my fancy.
Now don't get me wrong, I love cuddling and all that cute shit back at the spot but out in public it can be annoying, especially if I feel like they are only wanting it to show off to other people. 
I'm more into a "life partner" rather than a significant other, someone to live life with, working towards the same goal. At this age I could care less if I was their only sexual partner, aslong as I knew they we're 100% working with me to the same life goal.
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: Patlal] 1
#21793628 - 06/11/15 04:02 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I don't like it in public just because its a part of my life thats nobody's business but my partners.
I like being romantic. In my opinion its the most manly thing you can do. Nothing makes me feel more like a macho big-dicked boss than that melting look on a girl's face
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Patlal
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: bloodsheen]
#21793648 - 06/11/15 04:08 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Alright, well good to know that PDA makes others uncomfortable too. It's another thing I would rather never do. Other than the quick kiss hello/goodbye.
EDIT: which just made me realize why marriage is so fucked up in my mind.
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: bloodsheen] 1
#21793651 - 06/11/15 04:09 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Im not really a fan of public display of affection. I'll hold your hand or put my arm around you but that's about it
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: Patlal]
#21793655 - 06/11/15 04:09 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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TBH, only weirdass motherfuckers refer to others as "hunny bunny" and "smoochie pie" and shit i think
more often than not it seems like a forced display rather than something genuine
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Patlal
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: Sheekle]
#21793658 - 06/11/15 04:10 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: TBH, only weirdass motherfuckers refer to others as "hunny bunny" and "smoochie pie" and shit
You obviously never met a woman before
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: Patlal]
#21793665 - 06/11/15 04:12 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Patlal said:
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Sheekle said: TBH, only weirdass motherfuckers refer to others as "hunny bunny" and "smoochie pie" and shit
You obviously never met a woman before
Last I knew, women are often weirdass motherfuckers.
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: Patlal] 5
#21793672 - 06/11/15 04:13 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Patlal said: It's not shyness, it's more a perception that's it's unmanly
That you care about the perception in the first place is unmanly.
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Edited by WScott (06/11/15 04:14 PM)
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akira_akuma
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: Sheekle]
#21793678 - 06/11/15 04:13 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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romance is not kid talking your hunniebun
romance is living on separate ends of the Earth and finding eachother over precarious circumstances and all odds, and having that supplement their relationship.
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WScott said:
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Patlal said: It's not shyness, it's more a perception that's it's unmanly
That you care about the perception in the first is unmanly.
zactactly.
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: akira_akuma]
#21793695 - 06/11/15 04:19 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I'm not into all the public romance either, I feel like girls like it cause it makes them feel special and they love it when another girl sees them getting that kind of attention in public.
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: highasfuk]
#21793701 - 06/11/15 04:21 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I'd probably love being all lovey dovey with a girl I'm with, but I've never had that type of relationship or that kind of connection with someone yet.
My sisters boyfriend makes it a point to make sure everyone is aware how much he's into her, in person, on the internet especially, even when they're sitting 2 feet away from each other he'll write her a long paragraph about how much he blah blah blahs her on one of his social media accounts and then she pulls out her phone thinking it's all cute, and I'm on the other couch like "Just fucking say it to her she's right here god damn it" , and that gets beyond annoying sometimes so I'd probably limit it even if I had that kind of relationship when around other people.
Edited by SirShroomsAlott (06/11/15 04:41 PM)
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: highasfuk]
#21793711 - 06/11/15 04:24 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Whats with this sudden influx of new members, usually with a zero rating. The shroomery is on spotlight right now. This shit is not a normal occurance. 5, 0, drinks low..
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: Amanita86]
#21793713 - 06/11/15 04:25 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I know Im not the only one seeing this..
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Malcolm_Xtasy
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: Amanita86]
#21793720 - 06/11/15 04:26 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Im responsible for that guys zero rating
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: Amanita86]
#21793741 - 06/11/15 04:32 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Dude there is a massive influx of noobies lately it sucks.
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#21793744 - 06/11/15 04:32 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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lol, I'll trust your judgment..
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: Bitter Cactus]
#21793747 - 06/11/15 04:32 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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it's good. it means more people to talk to whom are new and might not have their heads in shroomery mode all the time.
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: Sheekle] 1
#21793750 - 06/11/15 04:33 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Romance doesn't have to be PDA or mushy love notes. Its in the day to day life that lets your partner know you are thinking about them.
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Re: What are your thoughts on romance? [Re: Sheekle]
#21793751 - 06/11/15 04:34 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: TBH, only weirdass motherfuckers refer to others as "hunny bunny" and "smoochie pie" and shit i think
more often than not it seems like a forced display rather than something genuine
I'd feel like a retard saying that kind of shit. The closest I get to romance is saying "GOD DAMMIT WOMAN YOU'RE PISSING ME OFF".
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