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desant
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Lost my best friend
#21793164 - 06/11/15 01:59 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Ive known him for many years, he always used to say we are like brothers...
2 weeks ago he hooked up with a girl and he was saying he fell in love with her...
To make long story short: the other day i went to a place where some cats hang out and asked some people where his GF is and if shes around cos i wanted to meet/see her, thats all...
Today those douches tell my friend i was there grooming for her! What a load of BS. Now my friend wont reply to texts or calls, shit is unreal
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Edited by desant (06/20/15 05:13 AM)
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akira_akuma
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Re: My best friend broke up with me [Re: desant]
#21793167 - 06/11/15 02:00 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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that is some shit. your friends are some serious backhanded sureshit idiots.
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Re: My best friend broke up with me [Re: akira_akuma] 6
#21793193 - 06/11/15 02:06 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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How come you didn't just ask your buddy if you can meet his girl?
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Re: My best friend broke up with me [Re: desant] 5
#21793196 - 06/11/15 02:07 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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If he was your friend he probably would've introduced you to her eventually. Asking her whereabouts from random people is just plain fuckin creepy.
Better luck next time mate
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Re: My best friend broke up with me [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy] 1
#21793213 - 06/11/15 02:10 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Tell the dude what happened, if he isnt a fucking idiot then he will believe you.
Get back on what happens next.
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akira_akuma
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: If he was your friend he probably would've introduced you to her eventually. Asking her whereabouts from random people is just plain fuckin creepy.
Better luck next time mate
not really. he asked some people obviously at a place he knows well enough to ask where so and so is, and they told him. that's not creepy. maybe a bit long winded... maybe a bit more gusto then you might ordinarily see... but how is it creepy? explain, please, i'd value your input.
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Re: My best friend broke up with me [Re: SuperFly]
#21793227 - 06/11/15 02:13 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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SuperFly said: How come you didn't just ask your buddy if you can meet his girl?
because she doesn't necessarily belong to him? and they are individuals?
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desant
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Re: My best friend broke up with me [Re: MajickMuffin]
#21793234 - 06/11/15 02:15 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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MajickMuffin said: Tell the dude what happened, if he isnt a fucking idiot then he will believe you.
Get back on what happens next.
Just texted him
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Re: My best friend broke up with me [Re: akira_akuma]
#21793239 - 06/11/15 02:15 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Eh I guess if he knew the guys its less creepy. But the fact that the girl has no idea who the fuck he is makes it super weird IMO.
"Hey.. im the best friend of the guy you just met and fucked two weeks ago. I couldn't get a hold of my buddy so I thought showing up where you live would be the best way to reach you."
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Re: My best friend broke up with me [Re: desant] 4
#21793248 - 06/11/15 02:18 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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ask for pictures of her boobs
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Malcolm_Xtasy
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And the fact that he refers to his buddy not talking to him as a "breakup" makes him sound like a whiny stalkerish blowhard.
Where you guys in an intimate relationship?
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well, she might appreciate that, instead. maybe she might be like "oh that's sweet of you". i mean, as long as he doesn't act creepy, i don't think he can be creepy. it's not creepy to want to meet the girlfriend of someone you consider a good friend. and maybe they are just really openly friendly and she could know that, or might not, either way... why tiptoe around yourself like that? if she really thought it was creepy, even on some base level, she could have cleared it up herself. or at least, they (the couple) could have told him to settle down themselves, as opposed to some dumb idiot outsiders to the situation basically tattling on him. tattletales are fucking garbage.
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Re: My best friend broke up with me [Re: desant] 5
#21793254 - 06/11/15 02:19 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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did you ever cross streams?
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: And the fact that he refers to his buddy not talking to him as a "breakup" makes him sound like a whiny stalkerish blowhard.
Where you guys in an intimate relationship? 
maybe he just values friendship more than you do?
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Re: My best friend broke up with me [Re: akira_akuma]
#21793266 - 06/11/15 02:22 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Haha you make good points but when I heard the word breakup I think intimate relationship with the opposite sex (Or same sex if you're gay).
Like he was secretly gay for the dude and his buddy broke his heart.
Just my perspective
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Re: My best friend broke up with me [Re: desant]
#21793267 - 06/11/15 02:22 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Can you explain "grooming" in this sense? I don't understand.
I've had friends disappear because they fell in love or got whipped or whatever it is that happens, but I just figure they were never dependable in the first place I was just mistaken. It is good to have a couple best friends on the back burner so if one doesn't work out you can just switch it up
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Re: My best friend broke up with me [Re: desant] 1
#21793331 - 06/11/15 02:38 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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desant said:
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MajickMuffin said: Tell the dude what happened, if he isnt a fucking idiot then he will believe you.
Get back on what happens next.
Just texted him
akira, thanks for support
My friend face timed me on my iphone and we had a chat, he totally understands it now and we back to cool. Like u said bro, some dickheads tattling are not cool, but my homie understands it 100% now
Glad to be back
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Re: My best friend broke up with me [Re: desant]
#21793519 - 06/11/15 03:33 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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desant said:
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desant said:
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MajickMuffin said: Tell the dude what happened, if he isnt a fucking idiot then he will believe you.
Get back on what happens next.
Just texted him
akira, thanks for support
My friend face timed me on my iphone and we had a chat, he totally understands it now and we back to cool. Like u said bro, some dickheads tattling are not cool, but my homie understands it 100% now
Glad to be back 
Thats good to hear. Your friend apparently, is not a fucking idiot.
You better go fuck them tattlers up. Teach em a lil lesson.
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Re: My best friend broke up with me [Re: Salomon]
#21793529 - 06/11/15 03:35 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Salomon said: ask for pictures of her boobs
This is sound advice OP
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: Haha you make good points but when I heard the word breakup I think intimate relationship with the opposite sex (Or same sex if you're gay).
Like he was secretly gay for the dude and his buddy broke his heart.
Just my perspective 
he might be. who cares. feeling are feelings. if you don't act on them, they do not manifest for other's to see, no? i mean, if you wanna say that OP, in this for instance, might be doing himself a disservice, but then again, you can feel something for someone can not act on it... even hate them too all at once.
just sayin', i get where you're coming from but OP might just be someone who has a connection to friendship more than usual. friends kinda are supposed to be trustworthy to the point where you kinda care for eachother, no? so break up is a little strong but he might just feel really strongly about his friends. i know i do. because i don't make friends with people who are not going to be friends a year from now. i mean, if so it is, that the friendship doesn't last long, doesn't really bother me... but i do in fact treat my friends like family. so there is a difference there, no? so there can be differences overall for people across the board.
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