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Dilsnique
Admiral Admirable


Registered: 04/22/14
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: No not really. I just wish youd post more thoughts/opinions and less pictures
Sometimes the images relay my message better than words.
*takes bong rip of new strain called Chronic Butthurt*
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koods
Ribbit



Registered: 05/26/11
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I pop people's bubbles all the time. And I'm always complaining about some shit to my friends. Ask ohcrapitsnico. I'm always giving him grief.
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Bodhi of Ankou
*alternate opinion blocks path*


Registered: 06/02/09
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Loc: Soviet Canukistan
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Im known for being realistic, so these types of people generally dont hang around me. Usually theyre just looking for someone to feed into their fantasies anyways, along with being too immature to handle whats usually constructive criticism. I honestly dont think your losing out on much, you were even being nice about everything. Like the buddy getting scammed
I would not have been able to hold back on that one.
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Malcolm_Xtasy
Oh baby what Is you doin??



Registered: 04/04/12
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Dude it takes everything in my power to bite my tongue in these types of situations. And the fact that I did it bc I actually cared about the guy goes to show how much I actually enjoy being his friend outside of his retarded fantasies. And of course, he still shits on me anyway
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akira_akuma
Φύσις κρύπτεσθαι ὕψιστος φιλεῖ

Registered: 08/28/09
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: my thing is, you really don't want to be successful if you expect everyone to kiss your ass. Criticism makes better people and subsequently better products. I always assumed that was common sense but apparently not :shrug;
dude, when it's friends the message just seemingly gets interpreted as "if i was you".
99.9% of the time, this is easily ignorable. your friends are being retards. like most usually friends do.
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SunnyD
WiZarD oF LoVe



Registered: 04/29/13
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: my thing is, you really don't want to be successful if you expect everyone to kiss your ass. Criticism makes better people and subsequently better products. I always assumed that was common sense but apparently not :shrug;
Most people are crazy dude
i think you was being real
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The Doobie Dude


Registered: 04/28/13
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Just continue to lift and flex on them hoes
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Malcolm_Xtasy
Oh baby what Is you doin??



Registered: 04/04/12
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Haha doobie you already know the deal bro! Look good play good.
-------------------- I'm stupid, Enlil is smart. I'm ugly, Enlil is beautiful. I'm a loser, Enlil is a winner. Someday, I hope to be like Enlil but secretly know I never will.
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Bitter Cactus
reformed bad boy


Registered: 01/26/12
Posts: 11,773
Loc: Alberta, Canada
Last seen: 8 years, 4 months
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: This is post is going to be semi long so please bare with me if you have the attention span. This has really been driving me crazy lately.
So recently I've had a falling out with a few friends due to my "constant negativity." The thing is, I really don't feel like I'm that negative. I think the more appropriate word is realistic I'm just not afraid to tell people when their ideas are horrible if my opinion is consulted. I generally don't sugar coat it either which might be part of the problem.
First Situation:
Anyways, there's this kid I've known since high school who recently blew up on me bc of my "endless negativity." He recently got scammed by this job opening on craigslist in the UK that ended up trying to steal his personal information. The job was for data entry starting at $12 an hour. When he first told me he got the job I told him congratulations and that I was happy for him. The NEXT DAY he calls and says, "Bro this job is fuckin awesome, they're about to wire me $1500 for my new computer and some other supplies." I told him that makes no fucking sense because he hasn't even done a single seconds worth of work for the company. He says whatever and I let him go about his business. Approximately three days after this we're having a beer and he's like "Dude, so I had a SKYPE interview with the company and they're promoting me to manager!" Again, I didn't call him a fucking idiot for believe this ALREADY BLATANTLY OBVIOUS scam he was falling for. I bought him a beer and again told him congratulations. Not even five days after this he starts talking about how after a year the company offered to move him out to the UK and put him on salary if he does "satisfactory work" for a year. I asked him if he thought there was anything fishy going on with this company. He accused me of being a jealous hater and I left it at that. Finally, one day we're smoking some bud and watching ESPN and he goes "Oh yeah.. by the way that job was a complete scam. They tried to get me to install software on my PC that would give them remote access to all my files." I could've been like "Wow you fucking retard, it took you this long to realize that job was a scam? It really took them asking you to download a keylogger on your PC before you figured that out genius? But instead, I just say "yeah man I knew something weird was up with that."
Second Situation:
So this same kid wants to be the next Spike Lee. He's a halfway decent writer and I think he would be a pretty decent director if he got into the right situation. His idea for a movie is about our mutual idiot friend who is so fucking retarded it literally defies the laws of nature. For a frame of reference, the idiot friend asked me to split a speeding ticket with him because If I hadn't asked him to come over he wouldn't have gotten the ticket Anyways, I told him that it doesn't really sound like movie material because there's no way to come up with a plot that ties all of his stupid shenanigans together while simultaneously having the audience actually care about the character for an hour and a half. It basically just sounded like a knockoff of Dumb and Dumber to me. I suggested that maybe he should turn it into an animated adult swim type series. This way, the audience won't get bored since each episode will approximately be 15 minutes without commercials and you don't even really have to have a coherent plot. Each episode could just be an isolated incident of retardedness. His friends agree that my idea is good and they should move on that direction.
The next day I wake up with three texts from him telling me that I suck bc now all his friends like my idea better than his. I say well okay then, you can write the movie by yourself then and they can do the animated series..fuck em He follows this up with, "WOW, I can't believe you'd say something like that! They're my friends and we're in this together! I'd never be disloyal to my friends like that! You're so negative and such a hater and you don't care about anybody but yourself!!" I told him I don't really give a fuck about any of his movie ideas and he was the one texting me and getting angry. I was just giving him a solution to his problem. He told me to never text/talk to him ever again and that our entire friendship was bullshit.
I just don't understand how someone who has known me for over 5 years could get so butthurt over voicing my opinion. I could literally give five other situations of how fucking ridiculous this guy is but this post is already entirely too long. I already know I'm gonna get TL;DR'd Its cool though.
Thoughts? Opinions?
Am I just being an asshole?
There are three sides to every story. What you said, what he said, and what really happened. I have the inclination to believe that you left out a lot of the details to make yourself look like the good guy. It honestly sounds to me like you were being a prick and if one of your friends told their version of the story you would sound like a complete jackass.
That is just my opinion though, but I just fee like there is so much more to this story then is being revealed. If multiple people think you are being a pompous douche they probably are right.
-------------------- Taking acid and thinking you are a better man is a lot different then actually becoming a better man.
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The Doobie Dude


Registered: 04/28/13
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Dude Malcolm lifts, the other side of the story is not even worth your time.
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Bitter Cactus
reformed bad boy


Registered: 01/26/12
Posts: 11,773
Loc: Alberta, Canada
Last seen: 8 years, 4 months
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I have a feeling OP has a chip on his shoulder and carries himself with an arrogance and always nitpicks what other people are doing. I could be off base here but I usually have a good read of character.
-------------------- Taking acid and thinking you are a better man is a lot different then actually becoming a better man.
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Psychonautica
Cuddly Wuddly Fuccboi


Registered: 04/20/15
Posts: 10,854
Loc: Free Soul & IISkuNkII
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: This is post is going to be semi long
Since I know you love these.
 
Another one for everyone to save.
Also I'm gonna read it now.
Edited by Psychonautica (06/11/15 02:50 PM)
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Malcolm_Xtasy
Oh baby what Is you doin??



Registered: 04/04/12
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Bitter Cactus said: I have a feeling OP has a chip on his shoulder and carries himself with an arrogance and always nitpicks what other people are doing. I could be off base here but I usually have a good read of character.
I mean im giving you the whole story. The way they percieved my criticism is something we'll never know
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Psychonautica
Cuddly Wuddly Fuccboi


Registered: 04/20/15
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It sounds like your friend has the loosest vagina ever and probably wouldn't classify as being a friend if he can't handle that someone thinks you have good ideas.
Does he think the world revolves around him?
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Malcolm_Xtasy
Oh baby what Is you doin??



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That's basically how I feel. Just because someone has a different opinion than me doesn't mean im going to stop being their friend. But this is the same guy that told me he hates all white people and says "fuck white people" every chance he gets
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Konyap

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I've had freinds were I could litterally sit here doing nothing and they'd walk out on me for breathing becuase I was 3rd tier to the view they had of how their life should be, friends suck, people are bullshit
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Psychonautica
Cuddly Wuddly Fuccboi


Registered: 04/20/15
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As a white person I can say I agree with that.
Fuck white people. Black people shoot people who deserve it, the only time they murder innocents is when they miss because they hold their guns sideways all willynilly.
White people shoot up schools.
When's the last time you saw a nigga shoot up a school?
On the basketball court, exactly.
Fuck white people. White people suck.

You can't make a font size smaller than 8 in ms paint So I had to shorten my name to Psycho.
-------------------- The chances of you even being born, Were forty million to one. There's two parts of the statistic And I want you to live through one 3/8/95 - 7/10/15 Rest In Paradise, Brother. Sheekle said: yeah, i said i was afraid of psychonautica

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zappaisgod
horrid asshole


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Re: Chronic Butthurt [Re: koods] 1
#21793568 - 06/11/15 03:46 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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koods said: I pop people's bubbles all the time. And I'm always complaining about some shit to my friends. Ask ohcrapitsnico. I'm always giving him grief.
Is that what they call virgin assholes these days?
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highasfuk


Registered: 06/01/15
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They sound like some pretty fuckboys. I'd want to keep that high school drama out of my life
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Supachopped719
Stranger


Registered: 10/16/13
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Re: Chronic Butthurt [Re: koods]
#21793819 - 06/11/15 04:49 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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koods said:
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Malcolm_Xtasy said: Is it possible for you to make a post without a picture of gremlin?
Just wondering..
Do you see it?
I see it.
Malcolm this is what they don't like.
-------------------- Real Eyes Realize Real Lies.
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