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jenflower
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Thank you. I'm 27, and though I am young,your words are very reassuring. I've wondered if I'm losing my mind sometimes. Ha-ha. I've yet to meet another male or anyone for that matter who views things as I. Thank you again!
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jenflower
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What is it about sex that changes it? I'm in an odd relationship. We are dear friends, he's not from here, moved here about 4 years ago, and I met him literally a week after. We had a fling 3 years ago. Started being physical recently. It's weird though. It's like we are in the middle of what relationships are supposed to be and what they really are.
Not trying to move away from OP. but maybe this will help.
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memes
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Re: Be bold, motherfuckers. [Re: jenflower] 2
#21829852 - 06/19/15 08:17 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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you can digress from the OP's intent; this thread was just for me to vent and encourage others not to hold back on things in life.
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jenflower
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Re: Be bold, motherfuckers. [Re: memes]
#21830224 - 06/19/15 09:38 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Digress? I believe that people can learn from all aspects of life. I'm just kind of going with it. Given that he was originally posting about not knowing what to do, and I had experienced something similar, I may have been helping. But we are unsure. We are all connected and his post came at the correct time of my life. Coincidence? I think not.
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jenflower
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Re: Be bold, motherfuckers. [Re: memes]
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And wow, you are the OP. I FEEL LIKE A JACKASS. Sorry about that.
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LunarEclipse
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Re: Be bold, motherfuckers. [Re: memes]
#21831450 - 06/20/15 06:45 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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memes said: you can digress from the OP's intent; this thread was just for me to vent and encourage others not to hold back on things in life.

Speaking of not holding back, have you followed up on your "proposal" or was spilling your beans out on the table and walking away good enough?
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Mr.PhilCybin
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any update on office babe?
nothing too new in my word of "attempting to date".
redownloaded tinder 
free summer music series just started though, and babes are a plentiful finally. this place has been baron for the last 6 months.
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Re: Be bold, motherfuckers. [Re: jenflower]
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jenflower said: What is it about sex that changes it? I'm in an odd relationship. We are dear friends, he's not from here, moved here about 4 years ago, and I met him literally a week after. We had a fling 3 years ago. Started being physical recently. It's weird though. It's like we are in the middle of what relationships are supposed to be and what they really are.
Not trying to move away from OP. but maybe this will help.
I'm not sure exactly what it is...but for me... sex with a friend never really turned out well. One of us would eventually try to avoid the other for whatever reason. There was a level of comfort with each other that we seemed to trade away for a night of physical lust. This always seemed to happen, in my mind anyway, the moment after we finished each other. An uncomfortable quiet that would wind up lingering for many months.I guess it has to do with expectations ...or even perceived expectations. IDK You are much younger than I and may have different comfort levels than I do....so my philosophies may not even apply to you if you are more of a free soul....one that just enjoys taking in lifes nectars and can share that sense with your friend.
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jenflower
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I'm just weird. I've decided that's what it is. Ha ha.
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