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Oldgregg
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Why do I let this happen...
#21789666 - 06/10/15 06:34 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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How can I let one person have so much control over me? I've had a knot in my stomach the last 4 days and constantly feel like throwing up or crying...just because this girl who I thought cared about me decides to do a 180 with no explanation and start acting distant
Maybe she's having a bad week, maybe she's just had a change a heart...hung out with her in a group last night and she acted like everything was fine but I didn't get a chance to talk to her one on one...it takes all I have not to text her but I guess the best thing to do is just give her space
Constantly feeling like shit sucks though
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Oldgregg] 2
#21789672 - 06/10/15 06:35 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Because you're body is withdrawling from Oxytocin.
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Oldgregg]
#21789681 - 06/10/15 06:37 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Maybe she thinks you've got something on your mind and she's just giving you space. If you need to know, ask. Just know a man's golden rule in a relationship is to never say too much.
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Oldgregg]
#21789690 - 06/10/15 06:38 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Oldgregg said: How can I let one person have so much control over me?
if we put man and woman together, see which one was smarter you say men but i say no women run the men like a puppet show
it ain't me it's the people that say the men are leading the women astray but i say it's the women today smarter than the man in every way~
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Oldgregg
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That's a possibility....she said she's had a rough week though, I just wish she would talk to me about it
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Oldgregg] 1
#21789726 - 06/10/15 06:43 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Don't let women control you. You sound like you have a serious case of bitch dependency. Live your own life and be happy with yourself the girls flock after that.
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Psychonautica said: Because you're body is withdrawling from Oxytocin.
I read this and literally thought op was being poetic about withdrawing from oxycontin.
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Enjoywho]
#21789739 - 06/10/15 06:47 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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He doesn't want the girls, he wants this girl.
"I'll take your girlfriend and put that pussy on a pedestal."
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XLCaps said: Maybe she thinks you've got something on your mind and she's just giving you space. If you need to know, ask. Just know a man's golden rule in a relationship is to never say too much.
Truth there brother! It's best to say as little as possible.
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XLCaps said: He doesn't want the girls, he wants this girl.
"I'll take your girlfriend and put that pussy on a pedestal."
Tsk Tsk. Maybe she's just not that into you bro?
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This song perfectly sums up women
She hides in an attic concealed on a shelf Behind volumes of literature based on herself And runs across the pages like some tiny elf Knowing that it's hard to find Stuff way back in her mind, Winds up spending all of her time Trying to memorize every line
Sweet Lorraine, ah, sweet Lorraine. Sweet lady of death wants me to die So she can come sit by my bedside and sigh And wipe away the tears from all my friends eyes Then softly she will explain Just exactly who was to blame For causing me to go insane And finally blow out my brain, Sweet Lorraine, ah, sweet Lorraine.
Well you know that it's a shame and a pity You were raised up in the city And you never learned nothing 'bout country ways, Ah, 'bout country ways.
The joy of life she dresses in black With celestial secrets engraved in her back And her face keeps flashing that she's got the knack, But you know when you look into her eyes All she's learned she's had to memorize And the only way you'll ever get her high Is to let her do her thing and then watch you die, Sweet Lorraine, ah, sweet Lorraine.
Now she's the one who gives us all those magical things And reads us stories out of the I Ching, Then she passes out a whole new basket of rings That when you put on your hand Makes you one of the Angel Band And gives you the power to be a man, But what it does for her you never quite understand Sweet Lorraine, ah, sweet Lorraine.
Well you know that it's a shame and a pity You were raised up in the city And you never learned nothing 'bout country ways, Oh 'bout country ways, oh 'bout country ways, Yeah, about country ways, oh, country ways...
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Oldgregg] 2
#21789755 - 06/10/15 06:50 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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text her and say "dude quit bein a fag lets party"
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Enjoywho] 1
#21789757 - 06/10/15 06:51 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said:
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XLCaps said: He doesn't want the girls, he wants this girl.
"I'll take your girlfriend and put that pussy on a pedestal."
Tsk Tsk. Maybe she's just not that into you bro?
Just because you learned how to get your dick wet finally, it doesn't mean it's respectable or in any way a status symbol. The 'pussy on a pedestal' thing was made up by people who want to fuck your girlfriend, and they did.
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Wtf are you talking about? You don't even know me at all. This day in time is not even close to the first time I got my dick wet. You crazy.
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Enjoywho] 1
#21789771 - 06/10/15 06:53 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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You assumed that, which ultimately confirms whatever I actually had in mind. Vanity kills.
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Women seem to prefer a guy who is capable of getting up and walking away from the relationship or friendship without looking back. If you become all sappy over this chick, she will sense it and take advantage of the situation.
Sounds like she is doing this to you... possibly for a reaction from you... or because she is fucking another guy.
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Sheekle]
#21789793 - 06/10/15 06:57 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Sheekle said: text her and say "dude quit bein a fag lets party"
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y'all are right, I'm gonna do me...ball's in her court, if she wants to continue hooking up or whatever great. if not then whatevs
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Oldgregg] 2
#21790156 - 06/10/15 08:13 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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By the way you made it sound I thought she was your gf.
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Oldgregg] 1
#21790161 - 06/10/15 08:14 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Put your actual balls in her court.
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i mean, we were hanging out nearly everyday and exclusively hooking up...we never really defined it as boyfriend/girlfriend.
it's kinda complicated since we're both living abroad and we do a lot of traveling
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Detached]
#21790199 - 06/10/15 08:23 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Detached said: Women seem to prefer a guy who is capable of getting up and walking away from the relationship or friendship without looking back. If you become all sappy over this chick, she will sense it and take advantage of the situation.
Sounds like she is doing this to you... possibly for a reaction from you... or because she is fucking another guy.
So true. when me and my girl met i was a hard ass and only cared about doing me. HAd that bitch hooked from the first day she met me. We were together 8 years i told her she taught me how to love and she made me have "feelings" i got soft over the years and all lovey dovey with her cuz thats how she was on me. Well two weeks ago she broke it off. I couldnt resist but text her and spill my heart and and nah bitch could care less... I think if i stayed my hard ass/badass mentality self she would still want me. Just like the saying chicks like dicks not pussys.
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Oldgregg]
#21790232 - 06/10/15 08:29 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Oldgregg said: i mean, we were hanging out nearly everyday and exclusively hooking up...we never really defined it as boyfriend/girlfriend.
it's kinda complicated since we're both living abroad and we do a lot of traveling
Maybe she doesn't want to get caught up in something complicated. Which is reasonable.
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Oldgregg] 1
#21790243 - 06/10/15 08:30 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Oldgregg said: y'all are right, I'm gonna do me...ball's in her court, if she wants to continue hooking up or whatever great. if not then whatevs
That's the proper attitude to take. Try not to get emotionally invested when you're just hooking up, even if just exclusive.
Hope you're enjoying China.
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Mental Taco] 1
#21790255 - 06/10/15 08:33 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I think when chicks are like that it basically indicates that they're damaged, broken people. It seems far from natural to run away when someone genuinely cares about you, and be attracted to those who don't actually like you that much.
Thank all the neglectful fathers and random rapists for that one. (Or something.)
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Sheekle]
#21790273 - 06/10/15 08:36 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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OP most girls aren't attracted to the "nice guy" routine.
You should find a cougar and become a sugar baby. You might be more appreciated that way.
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I think it's laughable to assume that any caring guy is following some sort of "routine" and can't be an honestly good human being.
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Sheekle] 1
#21790296 - 06/10/15 08:40 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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The nice guy routine is usually an attempt to cover up some deep seated insecurities.
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Yeah, if it's some sort of fake routine than I'd say that's a reasonably accurate assessment for the most part.
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Detached]
#21790347 - 06/10/15 08:48 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Detached said: Women seem to prefer a guy who is capable of getting up and walking away from the relationship or friendship without looking back. If you become all sappy over this chick, she will sense it and take advantage of the situation.
Sounds like she is doing this to you... possibly for a reaction from you... or because she is fucking another guy.
That is so true. Every woman that I've showed little interest in seemed to treat me better. And fucked better.
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That's because you remind them of Dad.
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Psychonautica said: That's because you remind them of Dad.
Haha, basically. I don't know if it's just a historical thing, or if we just so happen to live in a generation of highly damaged "daddy issues" girls.
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Sheekle]
#21792174 - 06/11/15 08:45 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Well I definitely wasn't expecting a miscarriage...
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DigitalTorture said: Every woman that I've showed little interest in seemed to treat me better. And fucked better.
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Psychonautica said: That's because you remind them of Dad.
Combine these 2 and you end up with
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Bitter Cactus said: OP most girls aren't attracted to the "nice guy" routine.
You should find a cougar and become a sugar baby. You might be more appreciated that way.
It's not about being nice. But obviously be nice. It's about being interesting. Someone who can surprise her and wow her. Someone who's passionate for life. Can make them laugh. I'd hate to hear from a girl Oh he's just a really nice guy. I'm just naturally nice I want you to see the things and have the conversations of things that I'm passionate about in life.
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Oldgregg] 1
#21794678 - 06/11/15 07:46 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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There are 7 billion people in the world, foolish to focus on one....
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