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InvisiblePsychonautica
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Oldgregg] * 1
    #21790161 - 06/10/15 08:14 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Put your actual balls in her court.


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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: larry.fisherman]
    #21790166 - 06/10/15 08:15 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

i mean, we were hanging out nearly everyday and exclusively hooking up...we never really defined it as boyfriend/girlfriend.

it's kinda complicated since we're both living abroad and we do a lot of traveling


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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Detached]
    #21790199 - 06/10/15 08:23 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Women seem to prefer a guy who is capable of getting up and walking away from the relationship or friendship without looking back. If you become all sappy over this chick, she will sense it and take advantage of the situation.

Sounds like she is doing this to you... possibly for a reaction from you... or because she is fucking another guy.



So true. when me and my girl met i was a hard ass and only cared about doing me. HAd that bitch hooked from the first day she met me. We were together 8 years i told her she taught me how to love and she made me have "feelings" i got soft over the years and all lovey dovey with her cuz thats how she was on me. Well two weeks ago she broke it off. I couldnt resist but text her and spill my heart and and nah bitch could care less... I think if i stayed my hard ass/badass mentality self she would still want me. Just like the saying chicks like dicks not pussys.


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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Oldgregg]
    #21790232 - 06/10/15 08:29 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Oldgregg said:
i mean, we were hanging out nearly everyday and exclusively hooking up...we never really defined it as boyfriend/girlfriend.

it's kinda complicated since we're both living abroad and we do a lot of traveling



Maybe she doesn't want to get caught up in something complicated. Which is reasonable. :shrug:


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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Oldgregg] * 1
    #21790243 - 06/10/15 08:30 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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y'all are right, I'm gonna do me...ball's in her court, if she wants to continue hooking up or whatever great. if not then whatevs





That's the proper attitude to take.
Try not to get emotionally invested when you're just hooking up, even if just exclusive.

Hope you're enjoying China.


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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Mental Taco] * 1
    #21790255 - 06/10/15 08:33 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

I think when chicks are like that it basically indicates that they're damaged, broken people. It seems far from natural to run away when someone genuinely cares about you, and be attracted to those who don't actually like you that much.


Thank all the neglectful fathers and random rapists for that one. (Or something.)


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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Sheekle]
    #21790273 - 06/10/15 08:36 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

OP most girls aren't attracted to the "nice guy" routine.

You should find a cougar and become a sugar baby. You might be more appreciated that way.


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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Bitter Cactus] * 1
    #21790290 - 06/10/15 08:39 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

I think it's laughable to assume that any caring guy is following some sort of "routine" and can't be an honestly good human being.


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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Sheekle] * 1
    #21790296 - 06/10/15 08:40 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

The nice guy routine is usually an attempt to cover up some deep seated insecurities.


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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Bitter Cactus] * 1
    #21790312 - 06/10/15 08:42 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Yeah, if it's some sort of fake routine than I'd say that's a reasonably accurate assessment for the most part.


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"you are the biggest 'internet guy' I have ever come across"- Jokeshopbeard
"The more I see you post the more I realize you're just this fuckin tie dye loser who trolls the Shroomery 24/7." - Herbologist
"Sheekle you cannot vile the dice of bullshit you have posted on this forum over the years, I like databases" - thelastoneleft
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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Detached]
    #21790347 - 06/10/15 08:48 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Quote:

Detached said:
Women seem to prefer a guy who is capable of getting up and walking away from the relationship or friendship without looking back. If you become all sappy over this chick, she will sense it and take advantage of the situation.

Sounds like she is doing this to you... possibly for a reaction from you... or because she is fucking another guy.




That is so true. Every woman that I've showed little interest in seemed to treat me better. And fucked better.


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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: DigitalTorture]
    #21790366 - 06/10/15 08:51 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

That's because you remind them of Dad.


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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Psychonautica]
    #21790392 - 06/10/15 08:57 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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That's because you remind them of Dad.



Haha, basically. I don't know if it's just a historical thing, or if we just so happen to live in a generation of highly damaged "daddy issues" girls.


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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Sheekle]
    #21792174 - 06/11/15 08:45 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Well I definitely wasn't expecting a miscarriage...


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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Psychonautica]
    #21792201 - 06/11/15 08:55 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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DigitalTorture said:
Every woman that I've showed little interest in seemed to treat me better. And fucked better.



Quote:

Psychonautica said:
That's because you remind them of Dad.



Combine these 2 and you end up with :girlofdisapproval:


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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: DigitalTorture]
    #21794613 - 06/11/15 07:28 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Bitter Cactus said:
OP most girls aren't attracted to the "nice guy" routine.

You should find a cougar and become a sugar baby. You might be more appreciated that way.




It's not about being nice. But obviously be nice. It's about being interesting. Someone who can surprise her and wow her. Someone who's passionate for life. Can make them laugh. I'd hate to hear from a girl Oh he's just a really nice guy. I'm just naturally nice I want you to see the things and have the conversations of things that I'm passionate about in life.


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Re: Why do I let this happen... [Re: Oldgregg] * 1
    #21794678 - 06/11/15 07:46 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

There are 7 billion people in the world, foolish to focus on one....


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