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Black_Sunset
Amateur Anesthesiologist


Registered: 11/16/08
Posts: 2,451
Loc: Somewhere California
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Don't fucking do it. Youre just going to be on here in 6 months asking us what you should do because you strung this poor girl along and this better looking new girl came into your life.
Save her some pain man. and yourself
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koraks
Registered: 06/02/03
Posts: 26,672
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Anonymous said: Just for some reason I keep thinking looks are more important than personality
Experience will tell you that looks are also important, but so is personality. There's only one way to learn this and that's by dating. So whenever you feel up to it, get started and build some experience. There's usually no first time right in love!
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Re: am I a peice of shit? [Re: koraks]
#21791224 - 06/11/15 12:47 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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What makes it more sad, a month before I met this chick, I took this other chick I met who I considered pretty( like a 7) and she was sooo boring, anti partying, anti weed, anti everything, after second date I never talked or replid to her texts agian... So this is the second chick I've ever dated, so I realize personality plays a big role... I guess I'm trying to be too picky and want to have the best of both worlds
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Konyap

Registered: 06/30/07
Posts: 33,945
Loc: Planet Piss
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Black_Sunset
Amateur Anesthesiologist


Registered: 11/16/08
Posts: 2,451
Loc: Somewhere California
Last seen: 5 years, 7 months
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Re: am I a peice of shit? [Re: Konyap]
#21791269 - 06/11/15 01:00 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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2 chicks in 1 month I say you are on your way to meeting someone great. Accept that you have high standards and stick to them...you will be MUCH happier and have a healthy relationship if you genuinely feel you want to be with the other person.
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Thank you! But to clarify this was over a 4 month span, I've been talking to the current one for like 2 months... It's just I feel like if I meet a hot chick and have no relationship experience I'll sabotage myself, cuz I really don't know how to be in one or even progress to sex foe that matter
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sprinkles
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Registered: 10/13/12
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Loc: washington state
Last seen: 3 years, 17 days
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easy. love someone before you sleep with them, especially the first one. If you dont love her, dont sleep with her. Tell her it's friends or nothing. If she doesnt like that screw her (no pun intended), no loss because you didnt really want to be with her anyway.
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koraks
Registered: 06/02/03
Posts: 26,672
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Re: am I a peice of shit? [Re: sprinkles]
#21792440 - 06/11/15 10:17 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Dunno man, and it's probably to do with how you define love, but for me, love cokes long after initially sleeping with someone. It's a crucial step in the process and certainly not the end of it.
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Anonymous #1
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Re: am I a peice of shit? [Re: koraks]
#21794753 - 06/11/15 08:06 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Hmmmm exactly... which why I worried if I met someone experienced, sinse most people are, they take my inexperience as a flaw and ditch me
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