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Universe
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Tripping with your intimate partner
#21786086 - 06/09/15 11:03 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I've been married for 27 years. My wife has been against me growing and tripping but I finally got her to change her mind. She just gave me the thumbs up to order spores and a grow kit. We tripped together like 25 years ago, once or twice. Then we had kids and she stopped all drugs and alcohol. The kids are big now, and we drink and get high together.
I'm hoping this brings us closer together. We're a happy couple but we're also pretty sick of each other. It's natural. I just think we need a reminder of how much we need and appreciate each other, and I think this will do it.
I'd love to read some stories about tripping with your spouse, or partner.. whatever. Do you think it helps your relationship?
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Re: Tripping with your intimate partner [Re: Universe]
#21786450 - 06/10/15 12:28 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I would imagine it does. My partner wouldn't touch psychedelics no matter how much I tell her it would help her. She is such a worrier and stressed over silly issues her life vision seems like she is looking through a toilet roll tube to me.I wish mine would try them, I swear a lot of her problems would be seen through fresh clearer eyes as the waste of energy they are. Tripping together would be like a new adventure with common ground to discuss after on experiences and perhaps clear out those feelings over over familiarity that grow after long periods together. I wish my partner would , she's just scared I suppose. Hope it goes well !
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Re: Tripping with your intimate partner [Re: Kingcannon]
#21786744 - 06/10/15 02:26 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Be. careful about tripping with your intimate partner especially if you're bored of each other, shrooms could amplify that thought and show you the emptiness that exists in both your lives. I broke up with my fiancé after tripping with her a few times. But again you both are too old to break up. Maybe you could do some low dose mdma with her to bring back the magic in your lives
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Re: Tripping with your intimate partner [Re: mothamaruti]
#21787301 - 06/10/15 08:23 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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But again you both are too old to break up
I lol'd at that. He does have a point though...mushrooms sometimes tell you things that you don't want to hear....I'm like you, op in that I laid off psych's for 20 some years. When I first dosed from my first grow...I did not expect the trip I got....it wasn't like I remembered at all..there was physical discomfort and anxiety that I couldn't remember having in the early years. I really think LSD would suit you two better....it's a bit more uplifting.
In any case, pay particular attention to your set and setting and make sure you cut off outside communication as best as you can....when my girl and I did the very same thing...she got a call from her crying and screaming teenage daughter that was nothing important ...just her demanding to go shopping...really fucked up the trip....threw her into a downward spiral.
The other thing to remember is that mushrooms tell the truth....and, sometimes the truth is not what we want it to be.
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Re: Tripping with your intimate partner [Re: Thayendanegea]
#21787328 - 06/10/15 08:32 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I've had quite a few great trips with my gf. It did not push us apart, but just pulled us together. We've had a bonding time while tripping together.
She likes psychedelics a lot now, after it took forever for me to convince her that they are good and helpful. And both times she has tripped, she has had amazing times.
But there were points where I wouldn't enjoy myself because I wanted to make sure she was 100% good. And I ended up bumming her trip out a bit. I just had to let go and have fun.
Good Luck tripping with your Significant other!
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Re: Tripping with your intimate partner [Re: Universe]
#21787493 - 06/10/15 09:21 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Universe said: I've been married for 27 years. My wife has been against me growing and tripping but I finally got her to change her mind. She just gave me the thumbs up to order spores and a grow kit. We tripped together like 25 years ago, once or twice. Then we had kids and she stopped all drugs and alcohol. The kids are big now, and we drink and get high together.
I'm hoping this brings us closer together. We're a happy couple but we're also pretty sick of each other. It's natural. I just think we need a reminder of how much we need and appreciate each other, and I think this will do it.
I'd love to read some stories about tripping with your spouse, or partner.. whatever. Do you think it helps your relationship?
my recent trips with my lady have been an amazing experience and have brought us closer together.she can't handle tripping every two weeks like I have been for the last 6 months but joins in with me every month or two.sometimes she gets concerned if I'm pushing the envelope or tripping too much but after we talk about it but she seems to understand where I'm coming from.
Trying to convince her to trip with me on the side of Mount Saint Helens! :-) it's so f****** amazing there and I have always wanted to trip there! she is a little apprehensive but I think I can talk her into it! It's a can't miss opportunity! :-)
when we trip there is a lot of love and caring shared. we also had some very deep and meaningful conversations in the midst of the experience :-)! I hope your experience brings the same bro :-)!
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MDMA or Acid , would be more fitting , shrooms can be ok but I suggest you go into nature . an do something special.
you could also try extracting your own DMT and experience it in team. Exploring DMT hyperspace can be really fun and bond making when doing it in team. 
low and medium dose DMT is all about love , it does get weirder when you go deeper but its a really nice thing to experience with someone you love
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Definitely MDMA or LSD. IMO deems seems like it might be a little overwhelming for someone that is just finally agreeing to even consume psyches.
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Re: Tripping with your intimate partner [Re: mushmagic]
#21790884 - 06/10/15 11:04 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Thanks for all the responses. About ten years ago I was looking into MDMA, thinking it would be fun. But since then I've learned more about it and I don't want to go there. I have a shitload of opiates (my dad's hospice meds) that I'm about to flush down the toilet because I don't think I'm supposed to feel that good on a regular basis and I'm afraid MDMA will be the same thing. People keep doing it, trying to get the original feeling back and then they can never be happy again. I'm that guy, so I decided I'm not gonna do that.
My wife and I are close. We fell in love at summer camp 37 years ago at the age of 14. 8 years later we reunited and two years after that we got married. My dad died recently and I inherited just under a million dollars, so we have something to be happy about. We're like one person. Our biggest fear is losing each other. One day it will happen.. hopefully not for a long long time.
I'm really excited about this.. we're gonna start tripping. We like to take vacations at a marina in Delaware. We rent a bungalow where we can sit on a private sandy beach and watch the boats come in and out of the inlet. This is a place with almost total seclusion and no internet. We'll trip hard and on the come down I'll fuck her like we're 14 again (I fucked her good at camp). She'll love it.
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Re: Tripping with your intimate partner [Re: Universe]
#21791894 - 06/11/15 06:19 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Universe said: We'll trip hard and on the come down I'll fuck her like we're 14 again (I fucked her good at camp). She'll love it.
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Re: Tripping with your intimate partner [Re: SludgeCity]
#21791906 - 06/11/15 06:28 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah I would agree with the lsd idea. Seems a lot more social while mushrooms might leave you guys confused and too introspective to speak much. Thus is why I need to be alone the first hour or so.
With that said. I do grow and trip and live with my fiance. She approves of it but would never touch it. It helps me and my depression so I'm happier in general especially when coming down on shrooms. That's when you would have a chance to be euphoric and intimate. Anytime before that I need to be alone or just laying next to my partner in silence basically. Idk if you remember but coming up can be very uncomfortable and i hate moving or communicating in general until after the peak.
But acid would give you the energy and vocal skills I think is more beneficial for Any relationship really. Just end up on the same level, lot less confusion. Still euphoric and the energy to try and work towards your love for each other
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Re: Tripping with your intimate partner [Re: Heisencybin]
#21792075 - 06/11/15 08:03 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Fuck L.....mush!.....u want this to be spiritual or not?....mush is where the love is....
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Re: Tripping with your intimate partner [Re: Universe]
#21792212 - 06/11/15 08:57 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Universe said: Thanks for all the responses. About ten years ago I was looking into MDMA, thinking it would be fun. But since then I've learned more about it and I don't want to go there. I have a shitload of opiates (my dad's hospice meds) that I'm about to flush down the toilet because I don't think I'm supposed to feel that good on a regular basis and I'm afraid MDMA will be the same thing. People keep doing it, trying to get the original feeling back and then they can never be happy again. I'm that guy, so I decided I'm not gonna do that.
My wife and I are close. We fell in love at summer camp 37 years ago at the age of 14. 8 years later we reunited and two years after that we got married. My dad died recently and I inherited just under a million dollars, so we have something to be happy about. We're like one person. Our biggest fear is losing each other. One day it will happen.. hopefully not for a long long time.
I'm really excited about this.. we're gonna start tripping. We like to take vacations at a marina in Delaware. We rent a bungalow where we can sit on a private sandy beach and watch the boats come in and out of the inlet. This is a place with almost total seclusion and no internet. We'll trip hard and on the come down I'll fuck her like we're 14 again (I fucked her good at camp). She'll love it.
That sounds like a perfect setting. I hope it goes off like you planned it. LOL...I'm one of those that can't fuck while on mushrooms....It's like...my mind just can't hold interest on any one thing for that long. Let us know how it turns out for you.
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Idk man. True mush has some true spiritual love that lsd misses some of. But chances of wanting to be quiet, alone, introspective, or be confused and not connect as well are higher IMO. Unless you were to trip on mush by sitting quiet and not becomi mg all lovey dovey until the comedown. Lsd is so much more like mdma than shrooms are. Shrooms for personal development for me. Lsd for social situations including with family. Communication is so much easier and euphoric. And you have that energy to say, do and love. Shrooms just make me the ultimate quiet thinker lol. Just make sure you get real L. Bad stuff going around these days. Use darknet
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Re: Tripping with your intimate partner [Re: Heisencybin]
#21793507 - 06/11/15 03:29 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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If you want to make love to your wife by the end, definitely get acid. No question.
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Re: Tripping with your intimate partner [Re: Heisencybin]
#21794395 - 06/11/15 06:42 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Acid would be nice but I have no access to it and I don't see that changing. I'm going with mushrooms for a bunch of reasons.
1) I can't get LSD.
2) Even if I could get it, I don't like the LSD duration and the come down. It takes too long and I end up in bed with insomnia.
3) I can get spores and grow kit without putting myself in peril legally.
4) I sold this idea to my wife stressing that it's all natural, like growing tomatoes. I know LSD is from fungus, but it's from a lab and that doesn't sound as good.
5) She loves growing vegetables and I know she'll love the whole process of watching the white spots in the jars and then seeing those penises popping out of the cakes. She'll enjoy the multiple flushes too. It's fun stuff, the growing and nurturing process. It adds a lot to the whole experience.
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Re: Tripping with your intimate partner [Re: Universe]
#21795861 - 06/12/15 02:29 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Let me say this first. Most of my post are in mushroom cultivation so I come from a growers stand point. I grow for hobby and its very rewarding to say the least. I enjoy growing but don't trip often.
1. Don't buy a grow kit (they are $$$$$ and not really worth it)
2. I'd suggest skip cakes and get into grains such as rye, birdseed etc. (cheaper, faster and most efficient method of cultivation)
3. Any reputable cube spore will do and prepared substrate bags can be bought on well known auction sites.
Just some advice take it or leave it. if you have any questions.
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Re: Tripping with your intimate partner [Re: 2shoes]
#21796158 - 06/12/15 06:13 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah screw the kit man. Pf tek or what he said above. I use pf tek because I'm a beginner ish still. Well if she feels more comfortable with shrooms, then go for it. Just know that if you ever want L, go on darknet and do your research. Best decision I ever made... recently...
the growing will also take a little time. Expect at least 1-2 months before you guys have enough to dose. Go with tea. Start low. My comfort zone is 1.5 gram initially, then 2 more an hour or so later. But thats is just me. I trip a long time with no tolerance. I don't use lemon juice because I feel like it makes the trip shortened and more intense. For a spiritual bonding connection, I'd start low. And make tea. If your need specifics on how to make tea, just ask.. it's easy.
But just remember that the comeup and peak can be quite confusing and disorienting and makes me a bit irritable sometimes if I'm moving around or trying to communicate. I lay down with my mindfold alone for the beginning. So be prepared and ok with just riding some parts out and have her aware of these initial anxiety provoking effects. But yes, the comedown with your lover will be very euphoric and bonding communication with words tends to get tricky though. Dampens that's part of the brain the higher you go...
they can make one physically lethargic, that's why I recommended acid cuz it gives you that bonding energy and desire to socialize/connect and make love if that's in the agenda.
But it sounds like you guys are dead set on shrooms so that's awesome too please do your research and her too. Awhile ago when I first jumped back in after years off, I grew and was like "I'm gonna a take a whOle 8th with my roommate because I took an 8th my first time tripping when I was like 17." Yeah big mistake. I had a rough time for an hour or two and was debating my sitter if we should go to the hospital. ... tisk tisk... all ended well though. Very scary, but an intensely spiritual reborn trip. So I recommend to start low, especially if you haven't touched them in awhile. Also, I had only touched acid in recent years which is stimulating. Well I forgot that shrooms can make one tired and lethargic and was expecting energy and euphoria. That's what got me freaking out. Stumbling around n shit haha lesson learned. Hell, if you want zero discomfort the whole time, you both should take only 0.5-1 gram a random night. Just to get your barrings and know that it will make you euphoric and enhance the mood, while not fucking you up to where it's hard to communicate. You won't see much, but it's similar to a low dose mdma euphoria I imagine. Just a suggestion.
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Re: Tripping with your intimate partner [Re: Thayendanegea]
#21796366 - 06/12/15 08:20 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Thayendanegea said:
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Universe said: Thanks for all the responses. About ten years ago I was looking into MDMA, thinking it would be fun. But since then I've learned more about it and I don't want to go there. I have a shitload of opiates (my dad's hospice meds) that I'm about to flush down the toilet because I don't think I'm supposed to feel that good on a regular basis and I'm afraid MDMA will be the same thing. People keep doing it, trying to get the original feeling back and then they can never be happy again. I'm that guy, so I decided I'm not gonna do that.
My wife and I are close. We fell in love at summer camp 37 years ago at the age of 14. 8 years later we reunited and two years after that we got married. My dad died recently and I inherited just under a million dollars, so we have something to be happy about. We're like one person. Our biggest fear is losing each other. One day it will happen.. hopefully not for a long long time.
I'm really excited about this.. we're gonna start tripping. We like to take vacations at a marina in Delaware. We rent a bungalow where we can sit on a private sandy beach and watch the boats come in and out of the inlet. This is a place with almost total seclusion and no internet. We'll trip hard and on the come down I'll fuck her like we're 14 again (I fucked her good at camp). She'll love it.
That sounds like a perfect setting. I hope it goes off like you planned it. LOL...I'm one of those that can't fuck while on mushrooms....It's like...my mind just can't hold interest on any one thing for that long. Let us know how it turns out for you. 
I know right? In one trip with my wife, right after we ate the shrooms we got in bed and got in the mood... I found myself trying to finish while I was in a sea of thoughts and mind fuck... With a huge effort I was able to finish... but... I don't think we can have sex on further trips... Not even "sex to wait for peak" as right after eating the shrooms we got into it and the trip caught us finishing our business lol.
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Re: Tripping with your intimate partner [Re: Heisencybin]
#21796374 - 06/12/15 08:22 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Heisencybin said: Yeah screw the kit man. Pf tek or what he said above. I use pf tek because I'm a beginner ish still. Well if she feels more comfortable with shrooms, then go for it. Just know that if you ever want L, go on darknet and do your research. Best decision I ever made... recently...
the growing will also take a little time. Expect at least 1-2 months before you guys have enough to dose. Go with tea. Start low. My comfort zone is 1.5 gram initially, then 2 more an hour or so later. But thats is just me. I trip a long time with no tolerance. I don't use lemon juice because I feel like it makes the trip shortened and more intense. For a spiritual bonding connection, I'd start low. And make tea. If your need specifics on how to make tea, just ask.. it's easy.
But just remember that the comeup and peak can be quite confusing and disorienting and makes me a bit irritable sometimes if I'm moving around or trying to communicate. I lay down with my mindfold alone for the beginning. So be prepared and ok with just riding some parts out and have her aware of these initial anxiety provoking effects. But yes, the comedown with your lover will be very euphoric and bonding communication with words tends to get tricky though. Dampens that's part of the brain the higher you go...
they can make one physically lethargic, that's why I recommended acid cuz it gives you that bonding energy and desire to socialize/connect and make love if that's in the agenda.
But it sounds like you guys are dead set on shrooms so that's awesome too please do your research and her too. Awhile ago when I first jumped back in after years off, I grew and was like "I'm gonna a take a whOle 8th with my roommate because I took an 8th my first time tripping when I was like 17." Yeah big mistake. I had a rough time for an hour or two and was debating my sitter if we should go to the hospital. ... tisk tisk... all ended well though. Very scary, but an intensely spiritual reborn trip. So I recommend to start low, especially if you haven't touched them in awhile. Also, I had only touched acid in recent years which is stimulating. Well I forgot that shrooms can make one tired and lethargic and was expecting energy and euphoria. That's what got me freaking out. Stumbling around n shit haha lesson learned. Hell, if you want zero discomfort the whole time, you both should take only 0.5-1 gram a random night. Just to get your barrings and know that it will make you euphoric and enhance the mood, while not fucking you up to where it's hard to communicate. You won't see much, but it's similar to a low dose mdma euphoria I imagine. Just a suggestion.
....nah bro....I must be at one with the mushroom gods because I just have a coursing feeling of love and euphoria! 0. 5 grams has no noticeable effect whatsoever I would definitely go a little bit higher unless you have some kickass fungus like penis envy. get out there a little bit and put on some amazing music that takes you to that place! :-) run with it! laugh, cry, love. hug and hold. I will literally break down in tears with the feeling of love that I have for my woman! it's very deep and touching! I'm telling you! the mush is where the love is.
acid makes you think. Mushrooms make you feel!.....
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