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What character traits in a potential mate attract you?
#21780266 - 06/08/15 07:19 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I am talking about personality traits only, not the physical side of things.
For me, I really like talkative guys. I think it's hella cute how some of them just keep going on and on about themselves. Such cuteness. It also makes it a lot easier to approach them or to have a conversation with them.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: WAN]
#21780414 - 06/08/15 07:53 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Humor and personal adventurousness. I aint talking about mountain climbing
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: zappaisgod] 3
#21780593 - 06/08/15 08:25 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I like a girl who makes me wanna better myself. Funny, exciting, smart, good cuddler, likes good music.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: The Doobie Dude]
#21781614 - 06/09/15 02:47 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I thought you said male
into which i would reply comfertability and dark clothing colours.
or balls
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: Konyap]
#21781616 - 06/09/15 02:48 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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like a nasty set of balls the ones you fuck with
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: Konyap]
#21781819 - 06/09/15 06:06 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Female; dignifyed compassionate narcissistic killer.
Male; dignifyed ect, but not so narcissistic.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: WAN] 5
#21781831 - 06/09/15 06:13 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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WAN said: For me, I really like talkative guys. I think it's hella cute how some of them just keep going on and on about themselves. Such cuteness. It also makes it a lot easier to approach them or to have a conversation with them.
That's the kind of trait that you think is really cute at first, and then you become really sick and annoyed of later on the longer you get to know them.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: Crystal G] 3
#21782267 - 06/09/15 09:05 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah. They really do never shut up. Like a lot of women.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21782633 - 06/09/15 10:32 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: Humor and personal adventurousness. I aint talking about mountain climbing
zappa likes spicy stuff in the bedroom
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: zappaisgod] 1
#21782795 - 06/09/15 11:15 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: Yeah. They really do never shut up. Like a lot of women.
HA!
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: MoxyOx]
#21782799 - 06/09/15 11:17 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I had this older coworker who could not take a que and was borderline autistic. Never would shut the fuck up even if you turned away from him and would laugh at his own jokes.
His wife came to work one day and she was EXACTLY like him, just non stop blathering. They would literally talk to each other without any pauses in stream of consciousness. He made a lot more sense after that and I just got used to drowning him out.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: WAN]
#21785460 - 06/09/15 08:31 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Intellect is important. I read a lot of philosophy, history, social science, and other subjects, and I need someone who can keep up with me and carry on a conversation about these kinds of topics.
Shared values and worldview are key. We don't have to agree on everything, but there must be significant common ground when it comes to core values and beliefs, or else it's just not going to work. I can't stay in a relationship with someone who's on the opposite side of an issue I care deeply about.
While a little light-heartedness and sense of humor are appreciated, I also like someone with a dark, mysterious side (not serial killer dark, but having some sort of mystique about them). I'm kind of envisioning someone who's about halfway between hippie and goth.
Someone who's grounded and confident, with the vision to see past the mundane. Someone with her head in the sky and her feet on the ground.
Affection, loyalty, and nurturing are also big factors. I like to feel loved and cared for, and will eagerly return the favor. Allowing each other space when needed, but keeping the passion alive in the relationship.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: The Doobie Dude] 2
#21785503 - 06/09/15 08:41 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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The Doobie Dude said: good cuddler
aww how cute, I remember being 14.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: WAN]
#21785544 - 06/09/15 08:50 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Intelligence and sensitivity is the one-two punch that does me in. I have a particular body type which is "my type" but intelligence and sensitivity are more important than physical attraction. I mean book-learnin' for one thing, and the ability to recognize, understand, and appropriately respond to my emotions for another thing. The rest is secondary.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: Lucis]
#21785775 - 06/09/15 09:44 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Fennario said:
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The Doobie Dude said: good cuddler
aww how cute, I remember being 14.
That's a basic human emotion get outta here
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: The Doobie Dude]
#21785832 - 06/09/15 10:03 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I lack these basic human emotions you speak of, I HATE cuddling...it's hot, get the fuck off of me!
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#21785858 - 06/09/15 10:12 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I would think your cold heart would keep you cool.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: The Doobie Dude] 1
#21785875 - 06/09/15 10:16 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Nope, I live in the south...
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: The Doobie Dude]
#21786825 - 06/10/15 03:12 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: I lack these basic human emotions you speak of, I HATE cuddling...it's hot, get the fuck off of me!
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The Doobie Dude said: I would think your cold heart would keep you cool.
It has something to do with body types mate.. like the elephantseal, with a heavy layer of insulating fat, it can withstand nearly freezing water.,
If you lose a bit of weight, you get cold, easy as that. If youre suffocating in a 300lbs blub of lard, youre bound to heat up. Up north, we tend to fatten up towards winter, not to freeze.
Not that you weigh 300lbs, though, Chickgrowstoo, I would know, but in principle.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: WAN]
#21786838 - 06/10/15 03:30 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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sense of humor.
loves his mother.
Has good morals values & treats others well
has conviction in his character. Does not sacrifice his beliefs to be liked or accepted by others.
emotionally mature
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Broad shoulders
chest hair
big balls
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: Icyus]
#21787135 - 06/10/15 07:06 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I weighed less than 120 lbs when I got pregnant... now at 8 months I weigh 135 so it's not weight, it's the fact that its 100 degrees here in the summer and the "winter" is a whole month long.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#21787147 - 06/10/15 07:12 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: I weighed less than 120 lbs when I got pregnant... now at 8 months I weigh 135 so it's not weight, it's the fact that its 100 degrees here in the summer and the "winter" is a whole month long.
You are getting 4 months of Polar Vortex in 2016, it's a fact.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: sprinkles]
#21787160 - 06/10/15 07:14 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Hey baby
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: sprinkles]
#21787205 - 06/10/15 07:36 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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sprinkles said: Broad shoulders
chest hair
big balls
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: Anonymous #1]
#21788294 - 06/10/15 01:24 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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It's funny how we like all these attributes..but physical attraction is what gets them in the door in the first place.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: Thayendanegea]
#21788695 - 06/10/15 02:49 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Right? No one wants to be the shallow asshole but ain't nobody gonna be fuckin with an ugly ass partner.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: chicksgrowtoo]
#21788774 - 06/10/15 03:08 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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chicksgrowtoo said: I lack these basic human emotions you speak of, I HATE cuddling...it's hot, get the fuck off of me!
This is one reason why I hate the summer lol
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: Thayendanegea]
#21788820 - 06/10/15 03:19 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Do you think there is anything wrong with that?
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: WAN]
#21788968 - 06/10/15 03:51 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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These character traits right here...it's all in the eyes..
 Study those eyes... I would wife her and give her children that number like the stars..
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: Amanita86]
#21789029 - 06/10/15 04:08 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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i like girls with big titties, small butts, and long legs. I try to weed through those to find the smart ones.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: Titus_Pullo]
#21789555 - 06/10/15 06:04 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Titus_Pullo said: Do you think there is anything wrong with that?
Nope...I own it.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: ballsalsa]
#21789563 - 06/10/15 06:06 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I like those ones that crack me into a fall down with their eyes...
I dont know if you have ever been belly down in a "jungle", or woods setting but when you're sliding through and everything is fine..everything is fine ...everything is fine.. boom...you make eye contact with what you had no idea was there, and it's a fucking foot away... it's all in the eyes. I don't need a palm..
And just to flashback, most of your animals react based on eye contact, through all their various displays whether it's a dance, feathers, hiss, growl anything you can think of, eye contact is always maintained....
It's all in the eyes..everything..
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: The Doobie Dude]
#21791861 - 06/11/15 06:03 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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The Doobie Dude said:
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Fennario said:
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The Doobie Dude said: good cuddler
aww how cute, I remember being 14.
That's a basic human emotion get outta here 

I don't mind spooning, I only jest with ya bruh.
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: Lucis]
#21792406 - 06/11/15 10:09 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I know, hence the
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: The Doobie Dude]
#21792438 - 06/11/15 10:17 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I seem to exclusively fall for girls that get their ass on a stage. (Contemporary dancers, cellists, singers, actresses...)
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: GoldenEye]
#21793359 - 06/11/15 02:46 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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You mean attention whores
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21793749 - 06/11/15 04:33 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Intelligent, sweet natured, loyal, mature. Someone who doesn't let their moral compass be misguided by those around them. Someone who helps me to grow as much as I help them, to fix each others broken wing so we can fly together
Oh and someone who is hygienic and looks after themselves (washes often, takes care of their hair etc. etc.)
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Re: What character traits in a potential mate attract you? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21794285 - 06/11/15 06:21 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: You mean attention whores
I'm pretty sure it is the expressive/sensitive thing that does it.
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