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OfflinePsychedelicGinge
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Should we Take a Break?
    #21771050 - 06/06/15 04:12 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

My girlfriend and I have been in love for many years. We dated back in high school for a decent amount of time and split up but we never stopped seeing each other. We were both still really attached to each other but she was able to see other people and I was too focused on her to where I couldn't see anyone else. I had been pretty shy back then so I wasn't the greatest at meeting new people either but we've been back together for a while now and recently she's been feeling weird and honestly I am too. We can't even put our finger on what it is but I'm beginning to wonder if we should take a break from each other to really find the kind of person we like.

I love her but there are a lot of talks we get into where I think about what she has said for hours because I have so much disagreement to it. I'll literally sit there for hours thinking about why certain things that I am interested in is so wrong to her and I have wondered what it would be like to find someone that is okay or enjoys these things that I am interested in. I'm not saying that we don't have any mutual interests but a couple of the ones I love she completely does not respect which I find alarming sometimes. This doesn't just go for interests but certain sets of belief as well.

I know that there won't be a girl that completely agrees on every single one of my viewpoints or is interested in all the things I'm interested in but I'm really starting to wonder if there are girls that I might feel happier with. I've been pretty damn happy with her and she honestly makes me feel like I'm not crazy but lately it's been weird and I don't exactly know if I am happy. I don't know if it's just one of those weird points in a relationship that will pass on through or whatever but I don't want to regret not knowing what it could of been like if I explored more since I never was really good at it before. I've become a lot more social over the past year (I believe MDMA helped with this) and I feel like I'd be better at finding people now.

The hardest part about all of this is what being separated from her would be like. I don't think that would be possible now since we're living together but I just hope it doesn't put me in a weird place. I just heard from my roommate that once she had broken up with her boyfriend of 2 years that she just exploded with sexuality and starting sleeping a bunch of people and honestly I feel like that is such a smart move. I want to try, but it just seems like such a big move.

I'm sure I'm not the only one who has experienced something like this before. Can anyone share what it's been like for you if you've encountered this situation in your life before? I love the shit out of my girl and I haven't felt more comfortable with someone in my life but I'm just so fucking curious about who else is out there.


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Do not let psychedelics allow you to think lower of people who haven't done them or don't plan on doing them because "they don't know the truth". Let your enlightenment acknowledge that everyone is equal and that no one is inferior. This mentality goes against what they are meant for.
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Re: Should we Take a Break? [Re: PsychedelicGinge]
    #21771086 - 06/06/15 04:30 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

The grass isn't always greener.


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Re: Should we Take a Break? [Re: infected_2]
    #21771183 - 06/06/15 05:14 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Just focus on her


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Re: Should we Take a Break? [Re: Anonymous #1]
    #21771433 - 06/06/15 06:32 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

She's all I can focus on. She cant figure out why she's feeling weird about our relationship and it just seems like she is getting sad whenever she thinks about it. I don't want her to get sad because it only is going to make me sad and I don't know what to do to make her happy. It's only
Been a little more than a few days that she's been feeling like this so I'm really hoping it'll surpass.


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Do not let psychedelics allow you to think lower of people who haven't done them or don't plan on doing them because "they don't know the truth". Let your enlightenment acknowledge that everyone is equal and that no one is inferior. This mentality goes against what they are meant for.
By the way, everything typed on this account is completely fictional and all for the purpose of entertainment.


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Re: Should we Take a Break? [Re: PsychedelicGinge]
    #21772251 - 06/06/15 10:26 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

I've recently had your "grass is always greener" feeling. I broke it off with a girl I now look back on and could have married and been happy. But after a while I'm also settling something. She was great for 19/20 year old me. We broke up, I started finding myself. Less and less I think she is good for me because more and more I'm finding myself. Your break will break you two. Are you ready to enter the void? Because we know that nature rewards courage.


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Re: Should we Take a Break? [Re: Atrium]
    #21773043 - 06/07/15 07:10 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Something I have a strong belief in is not losing my individuality when I'm with a girl and I feel like that's one of the reasons she might be upset because she's not sure if I'm the type of person she should be spending her life with or not. I love her and I want her happy and I keep wondering if she would be happier with someone else.


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Do not let psychedelics allow you to think lower of people who haven't done them or don't plan on doing them because "they don't know the truth". Let your enlightenment acknowledge that everyone is equal and that no one is inferior. This mentality goes against what they are meant for.
By the way, everything typed on this account is completely fictional and all for the purpose of entertainment.


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Re: Should we Take a Break? [Re: PsychedelicGinge]
    #21773209 - 06/07/15 08:56 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

I get what you're saying man. You've got a relationship that's changing you. See I was the other way. Besides my ego being boosted a bit, I was actually staying the same. Stagnation, to me, is worse. I look back now and see it only stunted my growth as am individual. Because I had to deal with a whole other body in my mind. We all have different lives though. Remember you follow what makes you happy.


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The only thing about Chemistry I like is all the psychedelics that come from it.

The only reason I study Psychology is to have a legitimate excuse to enjoy Chemistry. :tongue2:


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Re: Should we Take a Break? [Re: Atrium]
    #21774521 - 06/07/15 03:00 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

I was saying I'm not changing my individuality for her lol and she knows that I won't change but I feel like there's a lot of things about me that she doesn't like.


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Do not let psychedelics allow you to think lower of people who haven't done them or don't plan on doing them because "they don't know the truth". Let your enlightenment acknowledge that everyone is equal and that no one is inferior. This mentality goes against what they are meant for.
By the way, everything typed on this account is completely fictional and all for the purpose of entertainment.


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Re: Should we Take a Break? [Re: PsychedelicGinge]
    #21775416 - 06/07/15 06:41 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Don't take this break until you have a girl lined up to fuck for the week or two you will be taking this break.  Cause let me tell you this she IS going to fuck a couple people.  Also you declare you're going on the break don't let her declare it.  IGNORE HER until she says she wants to talk during this break


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Re: Should we Take a Break? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #21775581 - 06/07/15 07:18 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

I'm at a college with a 3:2 girl to boy ratio so finding girls won't be hard if we end up splitting for a bit.


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Do not let psychedelics allow you to think lower of people who haven't done them or don't plan on doing them because "they don't know the truth". Let your enlightenment acknowledge that everyone is equal and that no one is inferior. This mentality goes against what they are meant for.
By the way, everything typed on this account is completely fictional and all for the purpose of entertainment.


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Re: Should we Take a Break? [Re: PsychedelicGinge]
    #21776101 - 06/07/15 09:09 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

No have a girl ready the moment you guys take a break.  Don't risk it.


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Re: Should we Take a Break? [Re: Anonymous #2]
    #21776150 - 06/07/15 09:19 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Tbh, I'd say go for the break. It'll further cement what both of you are feeling given the space.

The last time I had problems "strange feelings" with my girl, we stopped hanging out for a week (this period can be flexible) and it really put our experiences in perspective. I learned I was taking our relationship way too seriously, and needed to find a bit more of "me" in the mix.

8 months later, with a better lifestyle and more personal interests, things are going really well and we've balanced out. I cant even relate to the uncomfortable feelings I experienced, a type of amnesia. Funny huh?


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