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kakashi68
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I fail at life... 1
#21763852 - 06/04/15 10:59 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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For the past 4 years... since I was 16 so essentially my entire career... I have been rejected by everyone and everything. Rejected by every woman ive ever asked out(after my first non serious gf which hardly counted anyway) And by every job, training, failed two separate uni courses. I only got my part time job because the first person left after a week.
Guess im doomed to work min wage and die alone... I didnt want much, all I wanted was someone to love and a stable 50k job. Guess thats to much for a failure like. People are always like be yourself and follow your dreams. Yea fuck those people, im a failure and dreams never come true why even fucking bother.
Goodbye life... miserable forever.
-------------------- You know, just sometimes in between the first cigarette with coffee in the morning to that 400th glass of cornershop piss at 3am--you do sometimes look at yourself and think--this is fantastic. I'm in heaven. -Bernard Black
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Matt87

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Re: I fail at life... [Re: kakashi68] 3
#21763864 - 06/04/15 11:04 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Quit talking like your life is over. You are a kid. It takes time to find your niche.
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Shiithead
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Re: I fail at life... [Re: kakashi68]
#21763870 - 06/04/15 11:06 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Fuck this world man... Don't let it overcome you.
Seriously...
Don't let the bastards win.
Just move...
Wherever you are right now, move. I am in the same boat minus the job part. I just got on at this union job making 16 dollars an hour. Sure people still reject me, even there. But fuck em... What are they to you??
Apply for a job out of state and move there. Or even just go for an interview 9/10 they will hire you...
If you are willing to risk it all for a job with them, they will hire you. As for the women part... I am with you all the way... You need to find a foreign girl. They are humble compared to young american women. Don't blame yourself though... That is what the system is designed to do... Be better than this man. You totally are...
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Matt87

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Re: I fail at life... [Re: Shiithead] 1
#21763877 - 06/04/15 11:08 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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That just sounds like running from problems to me.
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memes
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Re: I fail at life... [Re: Matt87] 2
#21763879 - 06/04/15 11:08 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Matt87 said: Quit talking like your life is over. You are a kid. It takes time to find your niche.
I was just thinking back to this yesterday. It's funny how 'adult' you feel at 20, looking back at 18. how 'adult' you feel at 23, looking back at 20. how 'adult' you feel at 28, looking back at 25. how 'adult' you feel at 35, looking back on your 20s. how 'adult you feel at 50, looking back at the first half-century of your life. how 'adult' you'll feel at 70, thinking that you just blinked 20 years. how 'adult' you'll feel at 100, knowing that everyone's a fool but being wise enough to know that taking the energy to properly convey that to them isn't worth it. their memory is fleeting; their arrogance will regrow.
~life is beautiful~
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TNK
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Re: I fail at life... [Re: Shiithead]
#21763880 - 06/04/15 11:08 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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What are your dreams? What is your end goal?
Your only a few years younger than me, and I thought my life was completly over many, many, many times, from the bridge to the cell, over and over. If you keep working at making things better tho, they will get better.
Idk it can get far worse before better tho
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Re: I fail at life... [Re: Shiithead] 1
#21763886 - 06/04/15 11:10 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Its your attitude. Period. You know you are a loser so that's what you are. Get some some help if you are depressed. Then change your attitude.
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TheMovement
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Re: I fail at life... [Re: kakashi68]
#21763927 - 06/04/15 11:21 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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kakashi68 said: For the past 4 years... since I was 16 so essentially my entire career... I have been rejected by everyone and everything. Rejected by every woman ive ever asked out(after my first non serious gf which hardly counted anyway) And by every job, training, failed two separate uni courses. I only got my part time job because the first person left after a week.
Guess im doomed to work min wage and die alone... I didnt want much, all I wanted was someone to love and a stable 50k job. Guess thats to much for a failure like. People are always like be yourself and follow your dreams. Yea fuck those people, im a failure and dreams never come true why even fucking bother.
Goodbye life... miserable forever.
You don't fail at life man? Many people are worse off than you right now. And many people are better off. But that doesn't matter. You know why? Because you are fucking alive right now and you have this planet to play on. Your life is in your hands, take the fucking wheel and put that bitch in overdrive.
Listen to this song and reflect on what you have to be grateful for. Like a house, food, running fucking water <-- you know how many people don't have that? Yeah you do. Electricity. Think about all the good things you have in your life, not what you don't have. You are focused on what you are lacking rather than what you have, so of course you are going to feel depressed.
Go outside and just walk around the neighborhood. Listen to the birds. Meditate, think about where you want to head in life and pursue your vocation. I know you got it in you! It may seem tough, but the first step is the hardest! Women will come when you become happy with yourself. Trust me man, it all starts with you!
Now get out there and kick ass!

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Re: I fail at life... [Re: kakashi68] 2
#21763934 - 06/04/15 11:23 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Your attitude is why you are where you are. No weak heart shall prosper.
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propensity
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Re: I fail at life... [Re: kakashi68] 4
#21763992 - 06/04/15 11:38 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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kakashi68 said: For the past 4 years... since I was 16 so essentially my entire career...
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Re: I fail at life... [Re: kakashi68] 1
#21764065 - 06/04/15 11:59 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Could all those lines referenced in your sig be at fault? I have yet to see any good come from white drugs, that could be a big part of why you feel so depressed.
As others have said work on improving your attitude. I try to always keep in mind it could be much better, but also much much worse.
So clearly the logical decision is to work for the good and overcome the bad.
-------------------- Don't worry about me, I've got all that I need. And I'm singing my song to the sky You know how it feels, With the breeze of the sun in your eyes. Not minding that time's passing by I've got all and more, My smile, just as before. Is all that I carry with me I talk to myself, I need nobody else. I'm lost and I'm mine, yes I'm free
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Re: I fail at life... [Re: kakashi68]
#21764096 - 06/05/15 12:12 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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if wisdom comes from failure we should be pretty learned up after we've accumulated life experience. Successful people don't learn anything..
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ReposadoXochipilli
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propensity said:
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kakashi68 said: For the past 4 years... since I was 16 so essentially my entire career...


On the upside being unsatisfied gives you the energy to change, you just have to harness it
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ManianFH
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Re: I fail at life... [Re: kakashi68]
#21764155 - 06/05/15 12:35 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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kakashi68 said: For the past 4 years... since I was 16 so essentially my entire career... I have been rejected by everyone and everything. Rejected by every woman ive ever asked out(after my first non serious gf which hardly counted anyway) And by every job, training, failed two separate uni courses. I only got my part time job because the first person left after a week.
Guess im doomed to work min wage and die alone... I didnt want much, all I wanted was someone to love and a stable 50k job. Guess thats to much for a failure like. People are always like be yourself and follow your dreams. Yea fuck those people, im a failure and dreams never come true why even fucking bother.
Goodbye life... miserable forever.
haha 50k a year job. after two years earning that much youd be like 'this is Bullshit im worth way more'
ehh life is ups and downs. if you cant get lucky with ups you gotta make em yourself. go take some trips man, get out and see the world. good way to get laid too, if you dont try too hard
-------------------- notapillow said: "you are going about this endeavor all wrong. clear your mind of useless fear and concern. buy the ticket, take the ride, and all that.... " ChrisWho said: "It's all about the journey, not the destination."
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ManianFH
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Re: I fail at life... [Re: kakashi68] 2
#21764161 - 06/05/15 12:37 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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really though its 90% in your attitude. just love life, even the shitty parts, then life wont suck as much. the more you learn to appreciate every moment, the better you get at appreciating life in general.
just roll with that shit. take some trips seriously. whaatever is stopping you from doing that just bulldoze through it. i used to try and get people to roll with me to vegas and when people would bail id be like, fuckit, im going alone! and those trips were THE SHIT
-------------------- notapillow said: "you are going about this endeavor all wrong. clear your mind of useless fear and concern. buy the ticket, take the ride, and all that.... " ChrisWho said: "It's all about the journey, not the destination."
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twelvelookslikeu
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Re: I fail at life... [Re: kakashi68]
#21764654 - 06/05/15 05:52 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Your 20. Your going to look at this post in 10 years and feel stupid
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Mad_Larkin

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propensity said:
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kakashi68 said: For the past 4 years... since I was 16 so essentially my entire career...

hahaha
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AroundtheSon
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I hate to simplify things like this, but this quote was where my heart space was at. Acceptance and Love of Self tends to allow others to do the same.
Hang in there. Switch it up. If you always do what you've always done you'll always get what you always got. - Lincoln, I think.
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plambe
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musiclover420 said: I have yet to see any good come from white drugs
LSD is a white crystaline substance.
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Re: I fail at life... [Re: kakashi68]
#21764854 - 06/05/15 07:34 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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twelvelookslikeu said: Your 20. Your going to look at this post in 10 years and feel stupid
I look at my posts from yesterday and feel stupid. YMMV.
OP, you're still young, I felt the same way if not worse at 20.
It's easy to say and maybe not so easy to do, but life gets better/easier with age. I've got 12 years on you and I still don't know shit. Just love yourself and surround yourself with positive forward-thinking people.
Good luck, brother.
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