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Am I boring?
#21754905 - 06/02/15 09:13 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I'm not into many fetishes. I like to fuck hard, slow and sometimes a quickie but that's about it. I'm not into handcuffs or anything like that. I've noticed a lot of people have interesting fetishes that I would never be apart of, what's up with that? Am I sexually boring? Does everyone have wild fetishes?
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basqueshaman
Todays scapegoat



Registered: 04/01/11
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No worries about being vanilla, as long as you enjoy what your doing and same for the other person involved
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OsculateOfDemise



Registered: 06/24/05
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As long as the sex is good and both people are cumming, then I don't see why you should feel like you are boring for not stepping out of your boundaries.
Kinkiness might come with time, with age, or with a long term relationship. It might never come. What really matters is that you and you partner are both satisfied.
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Black_Sunset
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Depends on the partners also. You might be into some things with one, nothing with another, different stuff with the next, etc.
Give some stuff a try. It's fun to tie people up. Get some bandannas and tie up wrists to start that's so quick and easy place to start. The biggest part of all this is mental stimulation. Does it turn you on to tie someone up or be tied yourself? Brings out a lot of feelings. Or whatever the fetish is
Try watching kinky porn. Bondage porn is really popular and there is tons of good stuff out there.
In the end it's not like you're gonna be having kinky sex everytime. It's fun to mess around and get crazy sometimes but if you're both enjoying yourself I don't think you'd have anything to worry about being "boring".
Some kinky things that are easy to try: food with sex like eating something off of somewhere. Taking drugs together just for sex. Bondage(even just hand tying). Inflicting pain(even just choking and hair pulling). Fucking or touching in public.
List goes on but you get it.
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Anonymous #2
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Sometimes I think about fucking a guy to get rid of boredon
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koraks
Registered: 06/02/03
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Not everyone is kinky,not by a long shot. And that's just fine. Don't be fooled by all the talk about fetishes online; kinksters (myself included) like to talk about this, much more so than vanilla people it seems. So there's a distinct bias present in what you read on the net.
Having said that, it's entirely possible that you'll run into some fetish at some point that you like. If it happens; great, embrace it! If it doesn't, don't worry about it. You're perfectly fine as it is!
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basqueshaman
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Re: Am I boring? [Re: koraks]
#21756754 - 06/03/15 10:14 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Keep in mind were all supposed to be different
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bloodsheen
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I don't actually find kinky porn particularly interesting but I recently found out that I like being dominated quite a bit 
Have you ever actually tried anything different? I seriously had no idea I was into that stuff until it happened to me
Porn is all about the visual (basically), but when its happening to you its not about the visual at all necessarily
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Anonymous #1
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I came to the conclusion i'm boring I guess. Oh well, I enjoy some hard core porn but i'm not going to be air tight with a woman and two other guys with dirty dicks being close to me.
I think i'm normal but who knows
I'm uncomfortable with chocking my girl friend even if she want's me too. Maybe i'm just a pussy, fuck I have no clue.
I think it's because I grew up in a family of all sisters and my mom's family being all sisters. I've seen dudes get pervy with them my whole life (im the youngest.) Maybe that's why i'm conventional maybe? Because I don't want to be the pervy guy I saw a lot of growing up around women.
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bloodsheen
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Sounds like a hang up to me
I can relate, I enjoy pain but Im very very cautious about giving it.
I think its from all those years of getting yelled at for hurting my little sister 
Theres more than just group sex and bondage in the world you know...
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A cautious young fellow named Lodge / Had seat belts installed in his Dodge. / When his date was strapped in / He committed a sin / Without even leaving the garage. That's clever, isn't it?-A boy and his dog
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