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Mental Taco



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Letting Go and Heartache
#21740323 - 05/30/15 09:37 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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For those of you who have experienced a great deal of heartbreak in your lives. How do you go from living with (or being with)(what was) the love of your life for a long time, to being alone.
What has helped you find happiness again and get over the past? Family, friends, drugs, hobbies, ect.?
What has helped you?
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rackem



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Re: Letting Go and Heartache [Re: Mental Taco] 1
#21740327 - 05/30/15 09:38 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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go get some strange.. pick up a few more hobbies.
its all good man.. it will pass
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sanchothestoner
Satan's Grandson



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Re: Letting Go and Heartache [Re: rackem]
#21740395 - 05/30/15 09:55 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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doing activities that get my mind off of it. playing music, hanging out with friends, hikes, stuff like that.
-------------------- I fucking hate you... God damn, I love you... But we both know if we stick together, we'll just tear ourselves apart You are my sunshine, my only sunshine, you make me happy, when skies are grey You are my heroin, but there's an abscess... God damn, I miss the vein!
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OhMrJohnson
Ashes Against The Grain

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Me and my ex have been broken up for over 2 years now but I still think about her every day
The memories get blurry but they never disappear entirely
Cherish them and know that this life has more in store for you in due time
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Diminish the sub-principle and leave its toxic trace.. Once and for all!
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The Doobie Dude


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Re: Letting Go and Heartache [Re: OhMrJohnson]
#21740468 - 05/30/15 10:17 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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OP go hit the gym and hit on every attractive girl you see.
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"There are a million reasons to drink and one just popped into my head. If a man can't drink when he's living how the Hell can he drink when he's dead?" - Irish Limerick I PLURed once because it was PLUR or die. - D.M.T.
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King Klick
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Quote:
The Doobie Dude said: OP go hit the gym and hit on every attractive girl you see.
I think we could all take away a little bit from this.
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passifloracaerulea



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Re: Letting Go and Heartache [Re: King Klick]
#21740578 - 05/30/15 10:47 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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It depends what you want and how you see it. I see love as an oxytocin addiction and it literally is that. Do you want to kick the addiction for good or find a new dealer? In my opinion love is a chemical trick of nature to get us to procreate and raise our young. True partnership is a great thing to find, but it seems to be less common than love. Partnership is logical and love is not.
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Shortknight



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Try to just take it on the chin and keep on rollin' Thats the way I look at it... Theres really nothing thats going to help except time, so you just have to keep on keepin on and trying to have fun the best you can. Youl get were you need to go soon.
Shorty
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The Doobie Dude


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Re: Letting Go and Heartache [Re: Shortknight]
#21740593 - 05/30/15 10:52 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Shortknight said: Try to just take it on the chin and keep on rollin'
That is a good way to look at a lot of stuff in life
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"There are a million reasons to drink and one just popped into my head. If a man can't drink when he's living how the Hell can he drink when he's dead?" - Irish Limerick I PLURed once because it was PLUR or die. - D.M.T.
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Mr.PhilCybin
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Re: Letting Go and Heartache [Re: rackem]
#21740598 - 05/30/15 10:53 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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rackem said: go get some strange.. pick up a few more hobbies.
its all good man.. it will pass
the lame part is that all the cliche bullshit you hear is true, and it's all anyone can really say.
there's no secret.
the biggest thing, is just to focus on yourself, and healing your self man. Read, hike, stretch, do some yoga, whatever gets you high (im not talking about drugs specifically, but i suppose the right ones might help too)
the only thing that's going to make it better is time, be patient.
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Rebelutionsssss
Mdmazing



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Time and finding new love eventually. It's fucking tough for sure man and there will always be apart of that other person with you but it slowly fades and you just learn to live with it. Meeting other women was definately a big aid for me but then those women just broke my heart too so it's kind of been like a perpetual state of trying to get over someone. Drugs and good friends never hurt
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Envix
Avoidant Disorder



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don't smoke cigarettes
don't swap habbits
there's no "letting go" of anything because there's nothing to "let go of". your "holding on to it" only exists in your mind. it was never yours to begin with. it was just a passing phase in life just as everything else is. eventually you will be "letting go" of your physical body and you yourself will become dust in the wind
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Mdmazing



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Re: Letting Go and Heartache [Re: Envix]
#21740838 - 05/30/15 12:13 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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-------------------- : To define is to confine.
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Mescalean
Burke is love, burke is life.


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Re: Letting Go and Heartache [Re: rackem]
#21740872 - 05/30/15 12:22 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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rackem said: go get some strange.. pick up a few more hobbies.
its all good man.. it will pass
This last girl. The day she decided to leave me was the day before a planned acid trip with a good buddy. She left me, that day came. My buddy comes over. She decides she has to bring all my shit over that day knowing we had planned this. I tell her to not come anywhere near my property. She comes to drop it all off right at my back window. I see her, close the blinds and said fuck it. I ate all the paper. 10 tabs. Dabs. A hole in the wall later. and the next morning I felt much better.
I think this will be post break up ritual for a while for me personally. Large-massive dose trips.
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