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The Doobie Dude


Registered: 04/28/13
Posts: 13,498
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Re: met my dad for the first time two weeks ago [Re: larry.fisherman]
#21741697 - 05/30/15 04:22 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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XLCaps said: Anyway, I love you faggots.
I feel the same way
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"There are a million reasons to drink and one just popped into my head. If a man can't drink when he's living how the Hell can he drink when he's dead?" - Irish Limerick I PLURed once because it was PLUR or die. - D.M.T.
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DTCharlieB
yum yum fish.


Registered: 08/31/07
Posts: 1,027
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Re: met my dad for the first time two weeks ago [Re: The Doobie Dude]
#21743075 - 05/30/15 10:58 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I'm kinda on the outside looking in on a situation like this. When I met my girlfriend she had a 1 year old son whose dad wanted nothing to do with him. Her son, who is now 7 has only met him once and that was about 4 years ago at random. I have always been there for him and I always will. My girlfriend and I now have a 7 month old son also, so we are more or less your typical family.
My son (or girlfriends son) knows I'm not his real dad and he has another dad but I'm not sure he quite understands what that means yet. All he knows is that I'm his dad and thats about it. I've recently heard through the grapevine his sperm dad is having another child so he will have a half brother or sister somewhere out there. My girlfriend and I are not sure what to tell him. I think he's too young to quit grasp the situation. If he ever wanted to meet his real dad and he wanted to meet him we wouldn't have a problem with it.
It's just kind of a tough situation because one day I'm sure he ll have alot of questions and possibly meet him. When he does have questions I don't always have the proper answers I just tell him that I love him and I ll always be there for him. It's just a tough predicament and it will be interesting to see how it plays out, especially when he gets older. I'd just hate to see him get hurt.
I don't know how these scumbags just have kids then just throw them away when they decide they don't want them. It seems like it happens more and more now a days, or maybe I just hear about it more then I used to. Either way people need to step up and raise their children to be decent adults. I'm not saying if you didn't have parents in your life your not decent adults, it just more often then not having a proper guardian leads to better adulthood.
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