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Finthehuman69
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NEED ADVISE.....Help
#21735452 - 05/29/15 02:40 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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so i have been living n an apartment the last year, this place has been deemed my home. Having originally moving to this apartment for school, I am now focused mainly on working, and this is when the trouble began. I had the brilliant idea of moving a peer of mine into my housing as he was in the middle of being moved, i view this kid as a friend, but slowly but surely he showed that he is too self absorbed to have friends n has basically beyond over stayed his welcome. he has paid for his rent but i have gotten threats of police from my neighbor who doesn't like him which effects me greatly as i never want police involved n my life but i digress.
basically where i am at is i want to just change the locks on him and move all his stuff out. i have served him an eviction notice (even to i am a tenant sub leasing to him) he doesnt have a lease, he is literally a given a place by me out of my kindness and he repaid me by over staying his welcome. mind you i am four years younger than him, today he had his father call me and basically threaten me with him going to court with this eviction notice. this kid as i will call T is now attempting to force me to have him here. what i want to know is how can i get ride of this loud mouthed entitled trust fund baby to leave as soon as possible. any advice, i am in the east bay of the sf bay area in the city of el cerrito. plz help i am running out of ideas and patience
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I don't know about all the legal stuff, but it's never right to stay in some else's place when they obviously don't want u there and then force ur self in, just doesn't seem right in my book
What did he do tho to have ur neighbors want to call the police on him?..
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Re: NEED ADVISE.....Help [Re: zZZz]
#21735534 - 05/29/15 03:42 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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If he's not on the lease, he has no grounds for legal actions and is in fact trespassing if you've told him he's not welcome in your home.
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call up his dad and congratulate him for raising a total cunt of a child
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Psychonautica said: If he's not on the lease, he has no grounds for legal actions and is in fact trespassing if you've told him he's not welcome in your home.
does he get mail? mail can be used to show residency and can make it much harder to kick him out the fact you issued an eviction notice should be enough to get the law on your side even if he could claim residency
you may be able to get a restraining order to keep him out not sure if you need a legit reason to file a ro
and screw his dad even if he did bring you to court and get you kicked out his son would get kicked out too
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Re: NEED ADVISE.....Help [Re: CosmicFool]
#21735710 - 05/29/15 06:07 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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CosmicFool said: not sure if you need a legit reason to file a ro
I know several people that have RO's against them, they did absolutely nothing wrong, one person just said they were being harassed by so and so and bam RO is issued.
It's actually very easy to get an RO against someone, at least in some states.
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If the eviction notice was written, the next step is getting the court involved. You can't just change the locks and move his shit out. Been a long time since I've seen the process, my grandmother used to have a bunch of rental properties, but IIRC it involved a trip to the county clerk. A marshall or sheriff will eventually serve them with some paper that tells them they're legally required to exit within a given amount of time. Then IIRC once that time is up, you can then legally remove his stuff and change the locks.
But like I said, it's been a long time since I've seen the process. I could be remembering wrong or things could have changed since then.
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Re: NEED ADVISE.....Help [Re: Shroomslip]
#21736783 - 05/29/15 12:58 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Thank you all for the information, he has gotten mail being the main issue but to think it is socially ok for him to fight for residency in my apt with out a lease agreement is so shady, and the fact his dad backed him up is also wrong i see one of only three possible actions: 1. to get a lawyer and go to court n fuck his ass from renting in the future. 2. to bribe him like give him money to leave now. 3. raise the cost of him living here so i dont feel so fucken wronged. the reason the neighbor threatens with police is she beleives he smokes cigerettes and sells pot and she is right, that is my main reason is he isnt an adult with it he is like a high school student nickle n dime bagging it, i bet you he even does it right out front which i told him he would get kicked out over.... fucken spoiled kid who hasnt ever had consequences... seriously the other issue is the amount of sensitive information in my life he is privy too n how loud of a mouth he has gets me worried, idk if he is a snitch in the end, i feel soooo angry cuz i have had to halt and evacuate my genetics n cultivation to safer locations cuz he has blown up my house n wont leave. and hey congratulations to his father raising a self absorbed douche bag.
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That sucks. I don't understand why if his dad cares so much, why doesn't he let his son live with him?
You might need to talk to a lawyer if they actually are rich and going to fight you in court. It sucks though, have you tried confronting him about it? (like verbally)
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its like daddy is just creating an environment where his son can continue to procrastinate moving back to New Jersey to help daddy mc money bags with the family business. leasing warehouses to low income. or something else horrible like that, scoundrels. its like i am so uncomfortable, being in the lower class myself i have a fear of court n police, cuz like gangs they just take your money n your time. when if it was up to me my whole family n my inner circle i call family of peers all want a piece of him. but fuck it....
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cuz his son has been in a downward spiral ever since his lil bro died. n wants to continue to not deal with it so yeah that is why he isn't moving back with daddy cuz he is playing him... n for him to be in my face is sooo stupid.... he isnt looking for apt's or at least not viewing any.
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OP this may sound extreme but puting locks on the fridge an the other doors he uses like the bathroom and move all the entertainment stuff that is yours into your bedroom ya know tv stereo video games and what not. If you own the couches and lamps and coffee tables put them in storage. Shut off the AC and get a window unit for your room and above all do not take a check marked rent in the memo as this implies a lease take cash only.
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Re: NEED ADVISE.....Help [Re: r00tuuu123]
#21737179 - 05/29/15 02:51 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I wouldn't let his ass back in the apartment OP. Change the locks and find somewhere to stay for a few days till this shit blows over. If I was you i'd be looking for a new place to live too, but i'm always a little overly cautious.
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You could do the nice thing and pay for a new place he could live far away from you. But he still might return...
Or u could simply pack all your stuff and move away, without telling him where u are going to live next.
Or change the locks and keep him out of your apartment, like u suggested.
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Did u try telling him to move out before u filed the eviction notice?..
This is bogus op, the law shouldn't have to be applied here, u want him out so make it clear to him y and do not take no for answer. U want ure space back and he must understand this. U gave him a place to stay and helped him out with a few things, he should understand and kick rocks.
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Re: NEED ADVISE.....Help [Re: zZZz]
#21737302 - 05/29/15 03:20 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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my issue is i am on the lease so by moving the land lord would end getting mad at me n that could fuck my credit along with my cosigner, my father the cosigner with me is furious he had his father call to try and intimidate me. it is super low that he took it here, a rich kid, never worked, with over 20k in his account... the thing is i am about to call the land lord soon and ask for advice around if he takes me to court, just so he knows i am trying to get rid of him. he has ruined my housing situation. n shows no remorse.... all i know is my father said ok your dad threatened my son and now im not gonna threaten him but the thing is i dad can actually walk into the house in tell him whats up, his dad doesnt hardly ever see him... and has the audacity to tell me he has done this or that when he hasnt. it is fucked that his father will help him, he wants him to stay till august so he can move with his fam, but its like at the end of april i was asking him politely to go now its beyond that he is willing to fuck with my and my father's credit (who is in process of moving) so its fucked that the law is applicable here but i think the land lord might be able to shed light on it. I was thinking talking to a lawyer but they always try and find a way to get hired before you get information, tho i guess its that time i need to find a lawyer for my self... i have made it abundantly clear he needs to leave over n over n over again. n yet he is playing destiny on ps4 now n i aint gonna talk to him because i am still so irrationally mad his father talked for him n made law based threats. for a 21 year old to have to deal with this from a 25 year old is insane. and i am sorry to vent here i just was out of ideas, n am used to getting surprisingly informative info here on even arbitrary subjects.
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Obsesshroom said: I wouldn't let his ass back in the apartment OP. Change the locks and find somewhere to stay for a few days till this shit blows over. If I was you i'd be looking for a new place to live too, but i'm always a little overly cautious.
Yea but you can't hold his stuff hostage If OP denies access to other than the common area which no longer has any comforts and his bedroom and puts a lock on the fridge and puts the guys food in a styrofoam cooler on Ice he will get the point and a lock the bathroom The guy will get the point pretty quick.
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Re: NEED ADVISE.....Help [Re: r00tuuu123]
#21737337 - 05/29/15 03:32 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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yeah fixing the inside locks is a good idea. your right that will really get the message of it. great first step...
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Finthehuman69 said: yeah fixing the inside locks is a good idea. your right that will really get the message of it. great first step...
No I mean padlocks man interior locks can be picked by a 2 year old.
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He gets his daddy involved what a loser
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Re: NEED ADVISE.....Help [Re: Hobozen]
#21737389 - 05/29/15 03:49 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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yee, ikr im younger than him n he acts like a fucken child... he told his dad he is looking at apt.s n his dad said that to me n guess what i havent seen him one go veiw one... im about to just find him one. fucken kid... once he got his dad envolved i was like hey dad guess what n he was like that fucker is paying your rent and some if he is still there.
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Can't wait for pris to respond,he knows all about this shit. However you obviously are right though. Hate it when people take advantage of extended kindness
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There is another way to get him out.
It is used as a last resort as it it dark and cruel. You could scare him out.
So for example, give him a moderate dose of a deliriant, say datura, make sure u dont give him a lethal dose, that would be horrible!!!
Anyway, give him a deliriant dose, tell him its a psychedelic. Then as he starts to trip out of his mind on datura extract, play with his mind, make him have a bad trip.
He might just wanna leave the apartment and never wanna come back and live there anymore (cause of the scary ghosts he saw!).
I know pretty cruel, but he is taking over your precious living space! Time for something dark.
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I wouldn't do that.
He's a little bitch that has his daddy handle his problems. He or his dad probably go to the police saying you supplied him with drugs and/or other stuff.
Now if you could spike his drink with lsd without him knowing... hehe
That's pretty dark thing to do with such a beautiful drug though.
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Or if you got the balls, just start jerking off in the living room every time he's in it. I know if someone I was living with started doing that shit I'd be gone.
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luvdemboomers said: I wouldn't do that.
He's a little bitch that has his daddy handle his problems. He or his dad probably go to the police saying you supplied him with drugs and/or other stuff.
Now if you could spike his drink with lsd without him knowing... hehe
That's pretty dark thing to do with such a beautiful drug though.
Yeah way to make a horrible situation worse.
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Re: NEED ADVISE.....Help [Re: Shroomslip] 1
#21737923 - 05/29/15 06:14 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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OP should become gay and start trying to suck this guys dick, then when his dad comes over, try for a 3some
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Re: NEED ADVISE.....Help [Re: Shroomslip]
#21738647 - 05/29/15 09:09 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Shroomslip said: Or if you got the balls, just start jerking off in the living room every time he's in it. I know if someone I was living with started doing that shit I'd be gone.
This just might work..
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Re: NEED ADVISE.....Help [Re: zZZz]
#21738654 - 05/29/15 09:10 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Why stop there?
Cover all of the walls with giant blown up photos of your dick. Cover the entire house in your nudes.
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Start walking around in the nude, that's legal right?,
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Re: NEED ADVISE.....Help [Re: zZZz]
#21738685 - 05/29/15 09:19 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Yeah, perfectly legal, it's your house.
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Then it's settled. Op shall walk in the bare starting now
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If the idiot has 20k in his account then I don't see why rent shouldn't be 5k a month for him.
Has he paid June's rent? If so, give it back and tell him he can leave on the first or you can have him removed from your home.
Everything useful, interesting, or simply your's should be hidden or taken away. Even the toilet paper if he didn't pay for it.
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