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MagicalOrangutan
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Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction?
#21734350 - 05/28/15 09:16 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Physically or otherwise.
I am kinda..in that situation, I believe lol, I met my girl in January of 2014 and I believe she was about to screw me for the first time about a month after meeting her, but she quickly figured out two things about me and then started acting non attracted and then didn't fuck me until just march of this year, 14 months after; and she seems like it's a chore for her to screw me now. And no I'm not particularly upset about this because my life is going great in every way other than women and I don't deserve and sure as fuck do not want any pity. She found out that:
1. I'm weird and have ticks that make me think I may have tourettes, and
2. I'm losing my hair and my hair looks all weird and thin and frizzy because of it, and I asked her if I should just shave it all down and she said "hell no, you'd resemble Jason vorhees from the horror movie", and she has mentioned that it's really disgusting to her when a guy is going bald
Have you ever had what you thought was or would be a great thing with a girl and something she found out about you ruined her very attraction to you? Discuss, my shroomery brothers
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r00tuuu123
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#21734447 - 05/28/15 09:33 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Only one solution to your dilemma man. DSHSB
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Edited by r00tuuu123 (05/28/15 10:06 PM)
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The Doobie Dude


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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: r00tuuu123]
#21734454 - 05/28/15 09:34 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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OP get help
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Mescalean
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: The Doobie Dude]
#21734466 - 05/28/15 09:36 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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This just made me happy that none of the men in my family have ever gone bald.
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Lucis
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: Mescalean]
#21734489 - 05/28/15 09:41 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I read you get your hair genetics from your mothers father, anyone know if there's any truth to that?
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: Lucis]
#21734496 - 05/28/15 09:42 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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idk lol
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: Lucis]
#21734500 - 05/28/15 09:43 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Ive found out something about a partner before and had it lessen my sex drive towards them. Its definitely possible....although my reasons are a little less, "Superficial". Mainly has to do with the politics of the relationship
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Edited by Almond Flour (05/28/15 09:43 PM)
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Lucis
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: Almond Flour]
#21734505 - 05/28/15 09:44 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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care to share what you found out?
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: Lucis]
#21734509 - 05/28/15 09:44 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Fennario said: I read you get your hair genetics from your mothers father, anyone know if there's any truth to that?
My mother's father has a full head of hair. I on the other hand have a receding hair line at 29.. I call BS
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Almond Flour
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: Lucis]
#21734512 - 05/28/15 09:45 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Fennario said: care to share what you found out?
Well with my previous girl the whole "Being emotionally twisted towards me and my family" was kind of a boner killer
Another girl the whole issue surrounding birth control makes lessens my sex drive. More than I want to admit
-------------------- Hippies and Liberals love Pope Francis, so why dont I quote him for you guys. "There is NO SALVATION outside the Catholic Church"
Edited by Almond Flour (05/28/15 09:48 PM)
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Almond Flour
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: Almond Flour]
#21734517 - 05/28/15 09:47 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Im losing my hair! Its neat to watch, but I am MILDLY self conscious about it. I just shave it down when it doesnt "Style" right, but its indeed possible to rock the receding hairline and to have it work for you, not against you.
Only downside is when I shave my head I look "Mean" I have been told this by multiple people. Probably doesnt help that I have a big ass battle wound on the back of my head from an "Altercation" I had back in my late teens
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Lucis
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: Almond Flour]
#21734525 - 05/28/15 09:48 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Shroomslip said:
My mother's father has a full head of hair. I on the other hand have a receding hair line at 29.. I call BS
Yeah I wasn't so sure about that one, it was a long time ago when I remember hearing/reading that.
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Almond Flour said: Well with my previous girl the whole "Being emotionally twisted towards me and my family was kind of a boner killer"
Another girl the whole issue surrounding birth control makes lessens my sex drive. More than I want to admit 
My ex was not cool with my family either, caused hella problems. As far as birth control goes, have you ever been fucking a girl and hit her IUD, hate that shit, makes my dick head feel some type of way.
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: blackhawk]
#21734527 - 05/28/15 09:49 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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sounds like she is using you.
do you ever pay for her food, drinks, or let her stay in your house for free? if so, shes definitely being a parasite.
if she gave two fucks, she would be happy to sleep with you. my cousin went bald around 22, and still hasnt had any problem with women, so i doubt thats your problem
if she really thinks you look like jason with a clean shaved head, again, she is a vain bitch
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: Lucis] 1
#21734528 - 05/28/15 09:49 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Im getting a bad vibe from this entire situation.
You say "she...didn't fuck me..." (as if the whole deal was in her hands), and then link it back to two points which may or may not have anything to do with her attraction towards you. What's clear, however, is what you're thinking about yourself. I can tell you that unless both parties can take solace in insecurity, it's generally unattractive.
Come to peace with yourself and your situation, and the people around you will become more relaxed in your presence. Relaxation/security = key to escalating towards intimacy.
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Almond Flour
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: Lucis]
#21734533 - 05/28/15 09:50 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Fennario said:
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Shroomslip said:
My mother's father has a full head of hair. I on the other hand have a receding hair line at 29.. I call BS
Yeah I wasn't so sure about that one, it was a long time ago when I remember hearing/reading that.
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Almond Flour said: Well with my previous girl the whole "Being emotionally twisted towards me and my family was kind of a boner killer"
Another girl the whole issue surrounding birth control makes lessens my sex drive. More than I want to admit 
My ex was not cool with my family either, caused hella problems. As far as birth control goes, have you ever been fucking a girl and hit her IUD, hate that shit, makes my dick head feel some type of way.
Ya man, im not the biggest fan of birth control as many know. Im not saying I want 20 kids, believe me I dont, but I see nothing but issues with birth control. Ive tried them all and every single one of them caused "Something" that just kept screaming to me.....maybe we were just meant to possible have kids when engaging in sex. Went Rasta and never looked back! However its not so easy with some females to embrace
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Lucis
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: Adolin]
#21734535 - 05/28/15 09:51 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Gresh said: if she really thinks you look like jason with a clean shaved head, again, she is a vain bitch
Word.
If she's so concerned with your appearance, and not who you really are, then she is no good bro. She should like/love you for who you are, not your hairstyle.
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: Myopic.Skam]
#21734546 - 05/28/15 09:53 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Myopic.Skam said: Im getting a bad vibe from this entire situation.
You say "she...didn't fuck me..." (as if the whole deal was in her hands), and then link it back to two points which may or may not have anything to do with her attraction towards you. What's clear, however, is what you're thinking about yourself. I can tell you that unless both parties can take solace in insecurity, it's generally unattractive.
Come to peace with yourself and your situation, and the people around you will become more relaxed in your presence. Relaxation/security = key to escalating towards intimacy.
Good first post. Only took a new comer 2 seconds to dislike this guy good shit
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: MagicalOrangutan]
#21734552 - 05/28/15 09:53 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Is this that same chick you had in your av that you were having problems with awhile back? The one with the psycho mom?
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: Amanita86] 1
#21734557 - 05/28/15 09:54 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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The very same one he was gonna film having sex with without her knowledge and send it to her family and post online and shit
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Re: Has any girlfriend of yours ever found something out about you and immediately lost attraction? [Re: Lucis] 1
#21734560 - 05/28/15 09:55 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Fennario said: I read you get your hair genetics from your mothers father, anyone know if there's any truth to that?
I've also heard this, don't know if there's any truth to it.
But op, if I were in your situation, and believe me this is just what I would do in not telling you to do this. I would treat her like a piece of trash. If she heard stuff about you that turns her off I'd show her that her shit stinks also. Stinks like an obese women's smelly vagina. And that smells bad I know from experience.
But shit I guarantee if you knew everything about her some of her shit would turn you off also. Sounds like a not so great relationship and if I were you I would concentrate on the good shit that's going on in your life. Do this, continue to do what you do, don't worry about a snobby biznatch, and you will be rolling around in the grass on a sunny day with happiness.
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