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Anonymous #1
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Fuck me!!
#21734168 - 05/28/15 08:45 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I've become that person in my family that's the fuck up both my brothers are doctors and I barely graduated high school. I had to move three times during it but that's no excuse. Now I'm almost 23 living at home with a good sounding job but it's shit doing crap work for 11 bucks an hour. I really want to kill myself. One real girlfriend that left me a few years ago and I've given up living.
This sounds pathetic and stupid or whatever but I have no smarts, no money, shit job, no girl. I can either die with benzos and opiates or end up another fuck on the street asking you for money. I don't see why living just waiting to die is worth it.
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Anonymous #2
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Dude. You're 23. Don't freak the fuck out just yet. Life isn't always about success. Focus on the little things that count. That's all that matters. You are still young. Enjoy the hell out of it man. Go party. Life will have so much more to offer. Some day you will be on top of the world. Then that will come crashi g down and you will have to pick up and do it again. It's a cycle. Ups and downs make the world go round. You will be made stronger for it and one day you will realize that it doesnt really matter. Just be you and do what you do. Its all going to be ok. I promise you this.
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Anonymous #3
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Being the fuck up is the best role! You get to not do shit and laze around getting drunk. Just try not to create responsibility like children. That's when you're forced to grow up. Just keep on cruising along and before you know it you'll have lived a full life and be dead from liver failure at 45
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Anonymous #4
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Just get up and do something with yourself. You have a job and no bills, take 2 checks and find your own place. Go to trade school. That's only 2 years. Don't wait, life's about fun but you need to set yourself up to be OK later. Being in your 30s with no real skills isn't a position you want to be in.
Basically, quit being lazy and do something with yourself.
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Anonymous #5
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Learn to be happy with yourself, lifes not always gonna be all fun and games
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Anonymous #6
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Anonymous #1 said: I've become that person in my family that's the fuck up both my brothers are doctors and I barely graduated high school. I had to move three times during it but that's no excuse. Now I'm almost 23 living at home with a good sounding job but it's shit doing crap work for 11 bucks an hour. I really want to kill myself. One real girlfriend that left me a few years ago and I've given up living.
This sounds pathetic and stupid or whatever but I have no smarts, no money, shit job, no girl. I can either die with benzos and opiates or end up another fuck on the street asking you for money. I don't see why living just waiting to die is worth it.
Lol why the fuck do you want a girl so bad? Being single is the best, especially as a musician like myself because I have all the time to devote to getting things I need done and making progress. I make 12$ an hour, am 22, live at home, had some rough past relationships, about 3-4 years ago had one where a chick I loved backstabbed me, and I never fully got passed that, but I've realized over the past few years there's no reason to need or want a relationship. It's always going to end at some point, when life ends for one or both of you, or whatever way "fate" decides. Seriously though bro, chill the fuck out and watch some good porn or some shit. You're making a big deal out of nothing. If you really are so bored that you're thinking about all of this, do yourself a favour and watch some Gundam, it'll put you in a better mood I'm sure. And don't forget to keep smoking weed, that helps a lot too!
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Anonymous #7
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Number 1 I can see having two brothers that are doctors would put pressure on you but try to not let it. You got time to get your shit together trust me. There are some people in way worse positions. Don't see now as being the rest of your life. Keep looking for new jobs/oportunities and you'll do fine. Just strive to better yourself and I guarantee you will.
Your still young Dickface your fine.
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Anonymous #8
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crying about making 11 bucks an hour at 23
gawd can you be any more pathetic?
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Anonymous #9
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Find a spot in construction trades, learn it, know it, own it.
I was in your spot in my mid-20's with no smarts and only experience in grocery retail, got into painting and ten years later started my own business... Currently contracting through construction companies.
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Anonymous #10
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As far as the girl problem at least,check out"real social dynamics" on you tube those guys helped me learn to pick up girls better and that can be a huge confidence booster!
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Anonymous #11
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Anonymous #8 said: crying about making 11 bucks an hour at 23
gawd can you be any more pathetic?
He's mad because he wasn't making $13 an hour at age 17.
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Anonymous #12
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Dude you're only 23. Keep pushing and just do it differently. Get ambitious. Pursue a higher education. You're only 23 and I'm sure you can handle college, you were probably lazy/didn't care as a teenager in school. Or pick up an instrument, or any art, and think you can be great at it. Find a passion and let it take your time to forget about your sorrows.
You still have so much time and everything can be different down the road.
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Anonymous #13
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both your brothers are doctors? quick. better become an astronaut! otherwise your dumb bitch mother won't be proud, OP!
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Anonymous #14
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Quote:
Anonymous #1 said: I've become that person in my family that's the fuck up both my brothers are doctors and I barely graduated high school. I had to move three times during it but that's no excuse. Now I'm almost 23 living at home with a good sounding job but it's shit doing crap work for 11 bucks an hour. I really want to kill myself. One real girlfriend that left me a few years ago and I've given up living.
This sounds pathetic and stupid or whatever but I have no smarts, no money, shit job, no girl. I can either die with benzos and opiates or end up another fuck on the street asking you for money. I don't see why living just waiting to die is worth it.
get a cdl (you can get them free), once your school is done you will have to drive with a specific company for a while. get in a sleeper truck and live in the truck.
pay off the school.
get with a trucking company that pays by the hour (usually you get paid around 20/h if you can find it, my friend gets paid to wait at the port a lot)
live in the truck... save enough money to buy a rental property, rent it out... keep doing this until you have about 10 rentals, now you have money for the rest of your life even if you do nothing.
more free time than a doctor
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Anonymous #13
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yeah, pimp out those homes!
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Anonymous #15
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find something you like/enjoy...art,music,plants ,animals,science,rainforest,etc,focus on that try and get a job in that field ,you can advance and its like getting paid for doing something u would do for free or fun....like-bonus!and you very well may meet that special person, while doing these things-good luck
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Anonymous #4
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Anonymous #15 said: find something you like/enjoy...art,music,plants ,animals,science,rainforest,etc,focus on that try and get a job in that field ,you can advance and its like getting paid for doing something u would do for free or fun....like-bonus!and you very well may meet that special person, while doing these things-good luck
That sounds nice and all, but that's not how the real world works. Not to say this can't be your goal, but you have to eat and live and probably work a shitty job in the meantime.
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Anonymous #16
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Anonymous #1 said: I really want to kill myself.
I don't see why living just waiting to die is worth it.
I say and ask myself this every day of my life. I can tell by the way people talk and act around me they have no fucking clue what is really going on in my mind. Just think, all those suicides just "out of nowhere" and "without warning". And he was such a happy go lucky kind of guy.
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