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Malcolm_Xtasy
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Dating women taller than you
#21731962 - 05/28/15 10:14 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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My girlfriend is taller than me when she wears heels and I hate it. Makes me feel like a little manlet. I'm not short by any definition (a tad over six feet) but my girl is 5"9 and when she wears heels she's like a half inch taller than me. Anybody else feel this way? Or do you guys like them big amazonian women?
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I dated a girl who was taller and bigger than me for a long time. Never really cared, I don't personally see why you would. (but we're all different obviously)
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Re: Dating women taller than you [Re: Psilosopherr] 1
#21731979 - 05/28/15 10:18 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I could never date a girl who is taller then me..I'd definitely still fuck them, but not date them.
If they're the same height or only a little tiny bit shorter then me, that is tolerable.
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It's not that big a deal if you're both tall anyway IMO
But I can't say I wouldn't feel a little awkward if my girlfriend was like 6'5 or something
My ex was like 5'1 though and I'm 6'2 so that's what I was used to
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Re: Dating women taller than you [Re: Psilosopherr]
#21731982 - 05/28/15 10:19 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah i dated a chick taller than me one time. Didnt really bother me much. She was too fine to care.
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Re: Dating women taller than you [Re: Psilosopherr]
#21731986 - 05/28/15 10:20 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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rbalzer said: I dated a girl who was taller and bigger than me for a long time. Never really cared, I don't personally see why you would. (but we're all different obviously)
Its great for cuddling.
Idk man. It's like some weird evolutionary instinct that kicks in. You are man, man must be big and strong, man must protect female I mean, it doesn't keep me up at night or anything. I've just recently noticed that it bothers me.
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SirShroomsAlott said: I could never date a girl who is taller then me..I'd definitely still fuck them, but not date them.
If they're the same high or only a little tiny bit shorter then me, that is tolerable.
Why not? I wanna know your feelings behind it. Does it make you insecure? Is it just your preference?
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If I dated a girl that was taller than me she would be a complete freak of nature. Ah, the luxury of being tall.
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Re: Dating women taller than you [Re: GoldenEye]
#21732007 - 05/28/15 10:27 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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How tall are you GoldenEye?
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I am attracted to both petite, and taller girls. In practice, it seems that i tend to date the taller ones. i've only ever dated 1 girl shorter than 5'7". I'm a skinny dude too, so they often are close to me in weight too. I don't worry about it much, but very tall girls can make positioning awkward for doggy-style sex
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Re: Dating women taller than you [Re: ballsalsa]
#21732030 - 05/28/15 10:34 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yea the doggy style thing can definitely be a little awkward. One of my ex's was 5"2 and I actually found that to be a little too short. I guess my ideal height would be 5"5-5"7
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Re: Dating women taller than you [Re: ballsalsa]
#21732031 - 05/28/15 10:34 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I'm a short guy. I dated a girl that was 3-4" inches taller than me who loved heels.
It was odd at first but I liked it after a while. I'd get a lot of stares and it seemed like everyone was dying to know what my secret was.
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Re: Dating women taller than you [Re: ballsalsa]
#21732032 - 05/28/15 10:35 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Never been with a girl taller than me. I'd date one if she was cool enough; height isn't really a deal breaker for me (within reason).
I'm 5'10", most girls I've been with seem to be under 5'8". It's not something I've ever really seriously pondered; but I don't see my height having too much reflection on my confidence.
I've noticed short people with proper posture appearing seemingly larger than tall guys that slouch; body language reveals more about a person than most typically consider.
I'd give props to any dude who is confident enough in himself to date a girl who is taller than him.
Honestly, I'm really just curious how that might make me alter my technique in bed.
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SirShroomsAlott said: I could never date a girl who is taller then me..I'd definitely still fuck them, but not date them.
If they're the same high or only a little tiny bit shorter then me, that is tolerable.
Why not? I wanna know your feelings behind it. Does it make you insecure? Is it just your preference?
Definitely more of a preference, I liked the way you put it in a previous post, I feel like as the man I should be bigger and stronger and be the one needed for protection haha, I guess in a way that does make it a little about insecurity.
I've definitely been attracted to girls taller then me, but it just doesn't even feel right standing next to a girl who you're dating and is taller then you, looks disproportionate IMO.
It's funny I saw this post too, this is probably one of the only qualities about a woman that would totally turn me off to the idea of dating them, I'm mainly about personality but for some reason I just wouldn't be able to get over the fact I'm smaller.
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Re: Dating women taller than you [Re: Acaterpillar]
#21732049 - 05/28/15 10:42 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I've dated girls taller than me, and couldn't really care less 
I can kinda see where you're coming from with the evolutionary thing, but being tall doesn't make you a great protector. i get it though
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Re: Dating women taller than you [Re: ballsalsa]
#21732052 - 05/28/15 10:43 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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ballsalsa said: I am attracted to both petite, and taller girls. In practice, it seems that i tend to date the taller ones. i've only ever dated 1 girl shorter than 5'7". I'm a skinny dude too, so they often are close to me in weight too. I don't worry about it much, but very tall girls can make positioning awkward for doggy-style sex
I'd forgotten about that. Definitely make it awkward
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Re: Dating women taller than you [Re: ballsalsa]
#21732057 - 05/28/15 10:44 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I stood up in a wedding with a chick who towered over me with her heels. I'm 6'1 and I just about started some shit when we had to take pictures together. My ex wife was a little shorter than me with her highest heels, but if she was taller, sorry honey. Time to take off the sexy shoes.
That's all fine when we are out and about, but it's out of the question when taking pictures side by side. I could only imagine what it must feel like to be dwarfed by a woman. It's bad enough dating someone tiny making you feel like a goon, but taller would be strange as hell.
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Re: Dating women taller than you [Re: Psilosopherr]
#21732061 - 05/28/15 10:46 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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its not that big a deal. just put her on the edge of the bed and stand on the floor or maybe kneel one knee on the bed.
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Re: Dating women taller than you [Re: Astral Pain]
#21732063 - 05/28/15 10:47 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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this is a great thread. I find it interesting that it genuinely gets under some peoples skin.
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Re: Dating women taller than you [Re: Mr.PhilCybin]
#21732064 - 05/28/15 10:47 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Mr.PhilCybin said: I've dated girls taller than me, and couldn't really care less 
I can kinda see where you're coming from with the evolutionary thing, but being tall doesn't make you a great protector. i get it though 
Idk. I've been recently pondering the concept of height and the subliminal messages it gives off. There's a reason that the average height of CEOs is just a shade under 6 ft. I just think it's kinda interesting.
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