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Anonymous #1
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This is bullshit
#21729341 - 05/27/15 04:20 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Why can't I ever find a fucking girl! Everyone else seems to have an easy time just going up to girls and talking to them but I'm like fucking handicapped. Think I'm giving up and just going to dose myself into oblivion because it seems like that's the only damn thing I'm good at my life is perfect when I have a women in my life and sadly they're few and far between.
It's like taking a fucking toll on my psyche now cant take being alone anymore
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Anonymous #2
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YOU CAN DO IT!
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Anonymous #3
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ALL. NIGHT. LONG!
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Anonymous #4
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Anonymous #1 said: Why can't I ever find a fucking girl! Everyone else seems to have an easy time just going up to girls and talking to them but I'm like fucking handicapped. Think I'm giving up and just going to dose myself into oblivion because it seems like that's the only damn thing I'm good at my life is perfect when I have a women in my life and sadly they're few and far between.
It's like taking a fucking toll on my psyche now cant take being alone anymore
If you think you need a woman in your life for it to be perfect, you're delusional.
If you don't like being alone with yourself, you're not ready for a relationship. BTW, you're most likely giving off vides that you're desperate as hell for female companionship, that's never going to work.
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Anonymous #1
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I know I do but I don't know how to fucking change myself. When I care about someone I show it but all that does is push them away and then I'm screwed. I have had a 3 year relationship a couple years back but ever since then I've been wanting some kinda of real relationship. I just added some girl I use to hook up with on Facebook and feel fucking pathetic I want to fucking kill the guys that act like narcissistic dumbasses but have women crawling all over them when I would do anything for my girl and they take it as a weakness. Makes me want to punch a hole in the wall
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Anonymous #5
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Anonymous #2 said: YOU CAN DO IT!
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Anonymous #6
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Anonymous #3 said: ALL. NIGHT. LONG!
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Anonymous #7
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The reason they have no problem talking to girls is they don't give a fuck. Someone turns them down, they move on. The desperate ones tend to shoot for the unattainable because they just happen to be there and then dwell on it when it doesn't work out, putting off a funk of desperation. You want a girl, be confident. Yes you're going to get turned down plenty and yes it's going to suck. But then you just move on. Many doors close when confidence wanes.
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Edited by Anonymous (06/20/20 11:58 PM)
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Anonymous #9
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I knew as soon as I read the title of this thread that I would find an insecure OP that was going to be ranting like a toddler, and whatdya know. Pick yourself up. You're probably too full on with new girls, sounds like it. I don't even have advice for you, because nobody can do much but that, give advice. It all starts and ends with you buddy, turning to the people on the shroomery for a bit of a vent and an ego boost isn't the way to go about it. It's hard to connect with people if you don't share common interests. Join a fishing club, start a sport, go to an annual book club meeting if that's what you're in to. Go out and meet people. or just "dose yourself into oblivion". I'm sure chicks dig that. You should tell each and every one you meet that that's what you do to fix your problems, I bet they love it
Edited by Anonymous (05/28/15 07:04 AM)
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Anonymous #1
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And you just have a perfect life don't you anon 9 seems you lack compassion.
I guess I just need to learn to accept myself before anyone else will thanks everyone
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Anonymous #4
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Work on yourself OP, then you will attract a decent woman. You're getting ahead of yourself, you're trying to get a woman before you get a life. Get your life in order and THEN get a woman, patience grasshopper.
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Anonymous #10
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Anon 4 is right, you have to make something of yourself before a woman can find you attractive.
I was EXACTLY where you were just weeks ago and man it gets better just focus on your future and figure things out that way.
you can get girls all day being a nobody but if you want a woman who takes you seriously you have to find something youre better at other than drugs.
try quitting drugs for just a short period of time and try to find out what other things interest you.
it wont be easy but if you work hard for something you will be rewarded.
just talk to girls as if they are your dude friends and start there put yourself in positions where you talk to girls or else you obviously don't have any chances.
I believe in you man just try to focus on positivity and that energy will do good for you.
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Anonymous #9
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Anonymous #1 said: And you just have a perfect life don't you anon 9 seems you lack compassion.
I guess I just need to learn to accept myself before anyone else will thanks everyone
I never said I have a perfect life, I know I dont, and I acknowledge and accept that, but what I don't do is vent on the shroomery and then drown my sorrows in drugs. Instead of doing so, take at least one step in the direction of who you wanna be, might work wonders.
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Anonymous #10
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OP just needs to be pointed in the right direction to go anon 9. he is seeking advise. try saying something productive you may actually help the guy.
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Anonymous #9
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What sort of bullshit advice am I gonna give him that he hasn't heard before. It's up to him what direction he chooses to go in, whether it be an ice addict, a bodybuilder or a fuckin' masterchef, it doesn't matter, he'll never be any of them unless he chooses to. I'm sure, either way, he'll meet some women along the chosen path.
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Anonymous #10
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how do you know he has heard all the advice you have? youre projecting i believe.
he may not have been told much of anything on how to better himself.
that's the thing about having a shitty personality you don't actually think youre shitty.
ive been there, still am.
you got a shitty personality anon 9 did you know that?
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Anonymous #11
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GHB a bitch and fuck the shit out of her.
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