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OfflineAtrium
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: abductee]
    #21750690 - 06/01/15 10:06 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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abductee said:
Why is it a problem if a woman is a slut and not married?

I think you can still obtain a certain level of openness and a bond with someone you casually have sex with, when there's no chance of a relationship. Sex is healthy, some relationships are not healthy. There's a lot of benefits to sex.



Because you give your all to the right person, when it's time. Before that time, you should give your all to yourself. I see life all about maturing and growing. Not everybody sees it that way. You live your life and I'll live mine. I just give my perspective on this board from time to time but I'm an enigma.


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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Atrium]
    #21752641 - 06/02/15 12:43 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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I think society overrates sex as some kind of magic thing to only be done with someone you love. well I say fuck that its fun and that's it. dont get me wrong it can be more but it dosent need to be. sex for sex is the best kind of sex in my books. Slut was probably invented by some religious dudes who hate all things fun (drugs, gambling, loud music...) were would the world be without things like drugs and sex my guess is something like Iraq with suicide bombers blowing themselves up just for the small chance of pussy in another dimension. Having something fun to do changes everything




Spoken like a dude who is terrible at making sweet, sweet love to a woman. Casual sex with randoms is only good because you get to treat them like whores.


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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Titus_Pullo]
    #21752766 - 06/02/15 01:15 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

When she tells you she's a little slut while you fuck her into oblivion...that's love


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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Black_Sunset] * 1
    #21756034 - 06/03/15 03:56 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Black_Sunset said:
When she tells you she's your little slut while you fuck her into oblivion...that's love



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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Crystal G]
    #21776282 - 06/07/15 09:48 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

I find it hard to believe you slutted around till you were older and middle aged (weren't you a stripper or something?). And managed to capture a such a perfect amazing catch of a husband. Does this guy have no self respect, or does he not know?

On top of that, what are you proposing, that because you slept around that every woman will find the same happiness as you? Every time a woman spouts something so silly it makes me think a woman who cannot mind her own business has no business worth minding. Personally I think you're spouting ignorance as heavenly wisdom. And it's clear your selling it to whoever will listen, and why, who are you exactly?

I don't judge slutty women* But I wouldn't touch them either. All they think about is sex or looking sexy, and so their outward life becomes them. A hedonistic triad of affairs, including the way they treat other humans. And people stuck in such a mindset have only nonsense to say anyways, because its all about them. Which is fine, but a lot of men do have standards and no one cares to tell young women that side of the story do they?


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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: The Doobie Dude]
    #21776732 - 06/07/15 11:50 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Black_Sunset said:
When she tells you she's your little slut while you fuck her into oblivion...that's love



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OfflineCrystal G
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: LackToast] * 1
    #21776820 - 06/08/15 12:18 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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LackToast said:
I find it hard to believe you slutted around till you were older and middle aged (weren't you a stripper or something?). And managed to capture a such a perfect amazing catch of a husband. Does this guy have no self respect, or does he not know?




I am not "middle-aged," unless you consider being in your late 20's "middle-aged." Yes, I was a stripper, that was how I put myself through college. My parents did not help me with any money, because of the drug problem I had before I moved out. In fact, no, what happened was, I was kicked out of the home one day without any warning, and found myself homeless. Therefore I had to resort to stripping in order to escape homelessness. It was either strip or fuck random nasty guys in exchange for a place to live. I chose the lesser of the two, since I was not willing to fuck nasty guys just to have a place to live.

Of course he knows everything about me--I hold no secrets about myself, because frankly I have no shame about my past. And of course he has standards--he is accepting about me, because he is a real man, and isn't insecure about petty bullshit that shouldn't even matter.

Cause let's face it, the real reason men can't handle it is because of their immensely fragile egos. He does not have a fragile ego like so many boys out there have. The REAL reason men can't handle it, is because they don't want their girl to have been with a stallion that had a bigger dick than them, they don't want to know that they have had way better lays in bed, have had way more orgasms on other guy's cocks, that shit drives ego-fragile men up the wall because they get butthurt so damn easily.

Plus, he's not perfect, he has a past too. He has smoked crack and done drugs on occasion, although he was never an addict like me. He used to sleep around A LOT when he was younger too, even fucking prostitutes when he was a teenager. He has had one arrest record (which was expunged) for something related to that. I don't hold his past against him for the same reason he doesn't hold my past against me.

The reality is, you need to experience a "past" in order to grow as a person. You need to make mistakes, and sometimes live life on the edge, in order to learn valuable life lessons. I have felt and experienced things in my life that most women can only dream of. And that's what has made all my experiences worth it. No regrets whatsoever.

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Which is fine, but a lot of men do have standards and no one cares to tell young women that side of the story do they?





Except of course, that all of society, including everybody's father and mother and priest drills that sort of backwards thinking into women ever since they are little girls. What they DON'T tell you, is that the type of men who slut-shame are also the type of men who tend to be misogynistic, who don't really respect women, which is the REAL point I was getting at.


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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Crystal G]
    #21776838 - 06/08/15 12:25 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Why is it people that smoke crack always get a bad rap.  You listed that he "smoked crack" etc.  A person can blow 8 balls all night, but then crack hits get that *gasp*.  What up withat..

N/m, I just thought out loud there.  Must have been the crack..


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OfflineCrystal G
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Amanita86]
    #21776852 - 06/08/15 12:31 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Amanita86 said:
Why is it people that smoke crack always get a bad rap.  You listed that he "smoked crack" etc.  A person can blow 8 balls all night, but then crack hits get that *gasp*.  What up withat..

N/m, I just thought out loud there.  Must have been the crack..




Dude that's what I always say. There is literally no difference between crack and coke, just a class difference. But I put that there for a reason.

What I mean is… people make blanket assumptions about "loose" women all the time. Assuming they're self-absorbed, have low self-esteem, all this shit that frankly isn't true for everybody.

But at the same time, these are the same people on drug forums who preach that we shouldn't judge others who use drugs, or shouldn't judge others who were incarcerated for non-violent crimes.

My point is that this is exactly the same type of thinking. Society views people who use drugs as immoral people who are reckless with their bodies, as selfish people who disrespect and don't care about their families. Society views people who were incarcerated for petty crimes as bad, immoral people who lack any sense of ethics whatsoever.

So, if you believe that being a crackhead means that you can still be a good person, or that being an ex-convict can mean that you are still a kind-hearted person, why shouldn't the same hold true for loose women? Makes absolutely no sense to make blanket statements about women, while not holding the same view about other groups of people.


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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Crystal G] * 2
    #21778120 - 06/08/15 10:21 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Crystal G said:


Cause let's face it, the real reason men can't handle it is because of their immensely fragile egos. He does not have a fragile ego like so many boys out there have. The REAL reason men can't handle it, is because they don't want their girl to have been with a stallion that had a bigger dick than them, they don't want to know that they have had way better lays in bed, have had way more orgasms on other guy's cocks, that shit drives ego-fragile men up the wall because they get butthurt so damn easily.

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Which is fine, but a lot of men do have standards and no one cares to tell young women that side of the story do they?





Except of course, that all of society, including everybody's father and mother and priest drills that sort of backwards thinking into women ever since they are little girls. What they DON'T tell you, is that the type of men who slut-shame are also the type of men who tend to be misogynistic, who don't really respect women, which is the REAL point I was getting at.




Before i start id like to apologize for so succinctly attacking you and your husband, it was not my intention, but i do believe it came with the territory, now to my point.

You claim men must have super fragile egos for not wanting women who sleep around with studs. but my personal opinion is that this is just a female crying wolf, and a poor shaming tactic, like i said self centeredness at its finest. If its not big deal to sleep around with studs, why dont they just stay in realtionships with them?

Answer: because they cant, they are equally as big of losers as the men they shame and reject, exect nature gave them youth and beauty which spend fucking uncommited guys. ONCE AGAIN this is fine but you cant have your cake and eat it too, unless you lie about your past, which is a common thing women do.

the truth is women never change, in 7th grade they dated the 8th graders. in 10th grade they dated seniors. when they turn 21 they date men 25-40. Its always the same, they date the men who have much more going for them (and these men are very few btw, so its the same men getting lots of sex), and pay no attention to the males who must work to become something. the result is the same, they get a sense of arrogance and believe they are equally as valuable to society as the guys they sleep with. and then they want to dismiss the fact that the knife cuts both ways, that they dont deserve labels from guys who dont want them(read who the men they didnt want), because be honest why commit to a woman who was fucked by every citzen dildo, when you can just find a young one who hasnt?

I have never seen a man build a house just to let rats in the attic...
I believe where you call me a misogynist, i call feminists idiots. The fact that you can sit here with a straight face and say women can sleep around and men who judge that are boys, means your pushing a pro woman and anti male agenda. You believe you can have the orgies and the respect, the stallion cocks and then the supporting husbands.

I dont blame you, beautiful women get everything handed to them, just like it takes lots of money to make more money, it takes a lot of freedom to complain about the patriarchy.

Its just another push from women to experience their own sexual utopia while denying the mans. because the invention of the pill and condoms, women can sleep around freely with little consequences, because men are aggressors and women arent, they have little agency, because women define rape, they have no agency. because gentically the eggs, and zygote, have more value then sperm, women are catered to, protected, and given much more freedom that they choose to acknowledge. So now you come along and also believe you are also in the right to define a mans standards of how women worthy of supporting should act, you claim it is backwards ass society telling me to think this way? that same society that bends over backwards for women?


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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Crystal G] * 1
    #21778205 - 06/08/15 10:47 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Crystal G said:


Dude that's what I always say. There is literally no difference between crack and coke, just a class difference.




This where you and I are going to disagree.  Crack is way fucking better than lines.  They aren't in the same league.

Other than that I say fuck the moralistic douches who think they know how you should live your life.  The fucking phony is posting on a drug site so I assume he does drugs.  Well the vast majority of the population thinks that is immoral.  Whatcha gonna say now, reincarnation of Rev. Fred Phelps?  Take your false useless moralizing somewhere else, ya hypocrite.


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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Crystal G]
    #21778213 - 06/08/15 10:50 AM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Crystal G said:
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LackToast said:
I find it hard to believe you slutted around till you were older and middle aged (weren't you a stripper or something?). And managed to capture a such a perfect amazing catch of a husband. Does this guy have no self respect, or does he not know?




I am not "middle-aged," unless you consider being in your late 20's "middle-aged." Yes, I was a stripper, that was how I put myself through college. My parents did not help me with any money, because of the drug problem I had before I moved out. In fact, no, what happened was, I was kicked out of the home one day without any warning, and found myself homeless. Therefore I had to resort to stripping in order to escape homelessness. It was either strip or fuck random nasty guys in exchange for a place to live. I chose the lesser of the two, since I was not willing to fuck nasty guys just to have a place to live.

Of course he knows everything about me--I hold no secrets about myself, because frankly I have no shame about my past. And of course he has standards--he is accepting about me, because he is a real man, and isn't insecure about petty bullshit that shouldn't even matter.

Cause let's face it, the real reason men can't handle it is because of their immensely fragile egos. He does not have a fragile ego like so many boys out there have. The REAL reason men can't handle it, is because they don't want their girl to have been with a stallion that had a bigger dick than them, they don't want to know that they have had way better lays in bed, have had way more orgasms on other guy's cocks, that shit drives ego-fragile men up the wall because they get butthurt so damn easily.

Plus, he's not perfect, he has a past too. He has smoked crack and done drugs on occasion, although he was never an addict like me. He used to sleep around A LOT when he was younger too, even fucking prostitutes when he was a teenager. He has had one arrest record (which was expunged) for something related to that. I don't hold his past against him for the same reason he doesn't hold my past against me.

The reality is, you need to experience a "past" in order to grow as a person. You need to make mistakes, and sometimes live life on the edge, in order to learn valuable life lessons. I have felt and experienced things in my life that most women can only dream of. And that's what has made all my experiences worth it. No regrets whatsoever.

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Which is fine, but a lot of men do have standards and no one cares to tell young women that side of the story do they?





Except of course, that all of society, including everybody's father and mother and priest drills that sort of backwards thinking into women ever since they are little girls. What they DON'T tell you, is that the type of men who slut-shame are also the type of men who tend to be misogynistic, who don't really respect women, which is the REAL point I was getting at.




"men who slut-shame are also the type of men who tend to be misogynistic"

You keep on just focusing on men who "slut-shame" females, in my opinion it's mainly other women that "slut-shame" other females!! Most men don't even care that much, if they can get their dick wet it's all good.

Who tells men about girls that fuck tons of guys? Usually it's the girl friends of those sluts.  What do you call these girls that "slut-shame" other females?  I call them jealous for the most part.


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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: LackToast]
    #21778973 - 06/08/15 02:19 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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zappaisgod said:
This where you and I are going to disagree.  Crack is way fucking better than lines.  They aren't in the same league.




Oh, in terms of better physical high, fuck yeah. Coke is fucking nothing. That's why I never had a coke addiction, I only had a crack addiction. IV coke isn't even as good as smoking a hit of crack. It's so good, I know it's the one drug I'll never be able to touch anymore. I will spend literally every last penny I have on that shit. :lol:

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Other than that I say fuck the moralistic douches who think they know how you should live your life.  The fucking phony is posting on a drug site so I assume he does drugs.  Well the vast majority of the population thinks that is immoral.  Whatcha gonna say now, reincarnation of Rev. Fred Phelps?  Take your false useless moralizing somewhere else, ya hypocrite.




Touche, that is exactly the point I was getting at too.

If any "decent" woman out there knew that you touched drugs, especially hard drugs like coke, heroin, PCP, whatever, they would automatically consider you non-marriage material as well. At least the homely, conservative, housewife types of women that the men in here are referring to anyway.




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the truth is women never change, in 7th grade they dated the 8th graders. in 10th grade they dated seniors. when they turn 21 they date men 25-40. Its always the same, they date the men who have much more going for them (and these men are very few btw, so its the same men getting lots of sex), and pay no attention to the males who must work to become something. the result is the same, they get a sense of arrogance and believe they are equally as valuable to society as the guys they sleep with. and then they want to dismiss the fact that the knife cuts both ways, that they dont deserve labels from guys who dont want them(read who the men they didnt want),




Now you're talking about something COMPLETELY different from hypersexuality. What you are referring to is hypergamy. Statistically yes, it is more common among women, but the ratio of hypergamous women to men (in terms of marriages) is like 60%/40%. So men are actually not that far off.

By the way, you know that there is a HUGE correlation between hypergamy and sexual objectification, right? It's funny, because society always criticizes gold diggers. But they never criticize the (usually older) man who is using the woman as a sexual object and plaything. If anything, the man is also taking advantage of the woman by using her as a sex object.

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because be honest why commit to a woman who was fucked by every citzen dildo, when you can just find a young one who hasn't?




Now this comment just screams to me that you have very little, or almost no dating experience at all. Why not date a young, inexperienced one? Are you not familiar with the immaturity levels of young girls, the fact that they tend to be spoiled and have higher expectations, the fact that they tend to be dramatic and cause more fights?

In fact, I've met MANY young 20-something guys who say that they prefer older women for exactly that reason. Older women aren't about the drama, they don't nitpick or fight or complain about stupid shit, they are far more appreciative and sweeter.

A young girl who has no experience is probably not going to be able to experience an orgasm in the bedroom as well. A young girl who throws her life away by settling down and getting married young and in their teens is likely to experience a crisis later on in life, due to the fact that they feel like they have missed out on living life experiences.

So, have fun with that. It's pretty clear to me you have not dated around.

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I believe where you call me a misogynist, i call feminists idiots. The fact that you can sit here with a straight face and say women can sleep around and men who judge that are boys, means your pushing a pro woman and anti male agenda. You believe you can have the orgies and the respect, the stallion cocks and then the supporting husbands.




What makes you think I want any man to "support" me? I've always paid 50/50 when I'm out on dates with all of my past boyfriends. Sometimes I pay, sometimes he pays. Any time I've lived with a boyfriend, I always split the rent halfway.

The only time I don't pay, is the first 1 to 3 dates, if the man offers to pick up the check I let him (because letting him pick up the check makes him feel like a man and I don't want him to think I'm trying to diminish or challenge his masculinity in any way).

Or, the only time I don't pay, is if I KNOW the man I'm on a date with makes a lot more money than me (at least 2 or 3 times as much). But all my serious boyfriends in the past have made roughly around the same amount of money as me. I've never had a serious boyfriend who made more than $10K more than me per year, and like 2 out of my 5 serious boyfriends I had, I was the one making more dough.

In fact, even after marriage I would prefer to continue to have my own income and my own savings account, just so when things don't work out I always have something to fall back on. When I met my current S/O, I was making more money than him. My first serious boyfriend didn't even have a job the first 2 years I was with him. Money doesn't even come into the equation for me in terms of the checklist that I look for in a mate.

I've dated extremely wealthy men in the past, I'm talking the Vice President of Merill Lynch type wealth (he now owns his own hedge fund companies in NYC and Japan last I talked to him), and frankly I am turned off by exorbitantly wealthy men. I've noticed a lot of them tend to have this egotistic aura about them, they act like they can buy any woman (or any person for that matter) simply by throwing money at them. It's a huge turn-off. It's almost like this inflated ego of "Bow down to me, I am a millionaire" type of attitude that just doesn't sit right with me. The types of people that automatically think something is better just because you pay $1,000 for it instead of $100.

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I dont blame you, beautiful women get everything handed to them, just like it takes lots of money to make more money, it takes a lot of freedom to complain about the patriarchy.




Yes, that's right. I got everything handed to me. Apparently my college degree was just handed to me because of my beauty. Apparently my scholarships and competition awards were handed to me simply because I'm a pretty woman. Apparently my performance awards throughout my career were just handed to me simply because I'm a beautiful woman in the office. Apparently I was hired at a billion-dollar corporation simply because I'm a beautiful woman, EVEN THOUGH 90% of the district managers working in corporate were male.

And FYI, I am not that beautiful, in California I am barely average.

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Its just another push from women to experience their own sexual utopia while denying the mans. because the invention of the pill and condoms, women can sleep around freely with little consequences, because men are aggressors and women arent, they have little agency, because women define rape, they have no agency. because gentically the eggs, and zygote, have more value then sperm, women are catered to, protected, and given much more freedom that they choose to acknowledge. So now you come along and also believe you are also in the right to define a mans standards of how women worthy of supporting should act, you claim it is backwards ass society telling me to think this way? that same society that bends over backwards for women?




I don't even know what you're ranting about anymore. Sure more birth control exists for women, but that is because birth control was always seen as the woman's responsibility. Even today, when women get pregnant, who gets blamed? The woman. Nobody blames the male who impregnated her. That's why I hope a better birth control option comes out for men, because I am unable to take hormonal birth control of any kind due to medical reasons.


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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Crystal G]
    #21778998 - 06/08/15 02:25 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Young guy who loves older women, reporting in.


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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Crystal G]
    #21779042 - 06/08/15 02:36 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Confirmation bias. That's rich. You've had life easier because you're a pretty women. Until you're on the other side you won't see shit about the struggle everyone else has to go through. You've had to put effort in, yes, but nothing compared to what others need to. People will placate your wishes a lot more willingly than if you had a horse's ass for a face.


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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: MoxyOx]
    #21779117 - 06/08/15 02:50 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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MoxyOx said:
Confirmation bias. That's rich. You've had life easier because you're a pretty women. Until you're on the other side you won't see shit about the struggle everyone else has to go through. You've had to put effort in, yes, but nothing compared to what others need to. People will placate your wishes a lot more willingly than if you had a horse's ass for a face.




I could say the exact same thing if you want to bring race into the equation. I grew up in a conservative, predominantly white area. Growing up, people assumed I wasn't from the neighborhood, and I once even got the cops called on me for being at the park with my dog because the neighbors were so sure I wasn't "from the area."

Have you ever been picked on or bullied because of your race? Have you ever had people make assumptions about you because of your race? No, I didn't think so.

It is true, my life would have been a lot harder if I was a 300lb ugly woman. But would my life have been a lot harder if I was a clean-cut, innocent-looking male? It's hard to say. Nobody assumes a man can't do certain jobs, but I bet if I applied for certain jobs, people would assume I would not be able to do them.

One of my exes was white. The whitest guy I ever dated. He said it was awesome being a white male, because people at work always automatically assumed he was in charge simply because of his complexion. When in fact, really, he was just the intern.


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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Crystal G]
    #21779481 - 06/08/15 04:11 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Have you ever been picked on or bullied because of your race? Have you ever had people make assumptions about you because of your race? No, I didn't think so.

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I have and you're one of the people who have made assumptions.  We did a couple jobs in the Bronx and one in Bed Stuy.  We got run out of Bed Stuy but the Bronx Jamaicans welcomed us even though these extortionist coalitions came around demanding tribute.  We had already hired about a dozen locals so they sent the extortionists packing..


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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Crystal G]
    #21779490 - 06/08/15 04:13 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

Yes actually I have. I'm of eastern european descent and have a middle eastern-sounding last name. I was ousted as an outsider constantly as a child, so trust me I know the feeling.

Especially when I first moved to the states and lived in a ghetto slum surrounded by nigs. They make sure you know you're not one of them.

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    #21779926 - 06/08/15 06:05 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Crystal G said:I have felt and experienced things in my life that most women can only dream of.




I don't really know you but I kind of doubt it.  I think that you were referring to having tons of sex with a whole army of men, orgasming and cumming all night long, right?  If this is true then I dont think your experience is what "most women can only dream of".

Sex (and consequently, orgasms) is way over-rated.  Find something worthwhile to do with your life, yo


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    #21779933 - 06/08/15 06:07 PM (8 years, 7 months ago)

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Why is it people that smoke crack always get a bad rap.  You listed that he "smoked crack" etc.  A person can blow 8 balls all night, but then crack hits get that *gasp*.  What up withat..

N/m, I just thought out loud there.  Must have been the crack..




What I mean is… people make blanket assumptions about "loose" women all the time. Assuming they're self-absorbed, have low self-esteem, all this shit that frankly isn't true for everybody.

But at the same time, these are the same people on drug forums who preach that we shouldn't judge others who use drugs, or shouldn't judge others who were incarcerated for non-violent crimes.

My point is that this is exactly the same type of thinking. Society views people who use drugs as immoral people who are reckless with their bodies, as selfish people who disrespect and don't care about their families. Society views people who were incarcerated for petty crimes as bad, immoral people who lack any sense of ethics whatsoever.




While I see your point, the big difference between a drug-user versus non-drug user is one doesn't do the drugs at all.

The only way this is a fair comparison to sex is if you talk about somebody who has sex in any way, shape, or form compared to somebody who refuses to have sex outside of marriage

With drugs, the key is moderation and responsibility. And actually, I wouldn't be willing to have a long-term relationship with a former drug addict because I don't believe addicts can be trusted. I don't blame them for it, honestly I don't. I don't blame violently mentally ill people for their illness either but I wouldn't trust them to take care of my children or keep themselves from hurting me.

The same goes for sex. I understand somebody experimenting with their body, but not with zero control. Not somebody who treats sex like a hit of a drug. I would never trust somebody who fucked any attractive guy who wanted to fuck, just like I would never trust somebody who would put any old shit in their veins/nose/lungs.

Its not about morality, as much as you love to keep dragging that tired old word into the mix at every opportunity. Its about the kind of soul you'd be willing to keep close to your heart for any length of time.


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