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Mescalean
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: MoxyOx]
#21734110 - 05/28/15 08:30 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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MoxyOx said: Everyone is the truth then. Crystal G is confused and a walking void if anything, I've read her stories and heard what she's done. She can't even trip because she's too afraid of her own mind. That's a little sad to me, anyone else?
yeah told her she needs to eat an oz of shrooms. if anyone could benefit from that it would be her.
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Mescalean] 1
#21735250 - 05/29/15 01:07 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: Pretty much if a guy fucks you it doesn't mean shit. In our minds we think "it's better than jerking off", if a guy sticks around and continues to fuck you for years and love you, then you know youre a catch.
No. It really doesn't. I've seen dumbass 18 year old trophy wives or mail-order brides with 50 year old geezers. I've seen women who are completely empty on the inside and plastic on the outside, who are with men simply because of their good looks, and because the men have money. Women like the type on those "Real Housewives" shows, not even exaggerating, you see that shit ALL THE TIME in California.
I've been in many long-term relationships for years, does that automatically make me a catch now? That alone should tell you that is some straight BS you are spewing.
Actually in fact, quite many men have attempted pursuing me for long-term relationships. The reason? According to them, I always love sex, I enjoy cooking and apparently am good at it, I'm smart, I'm educated, I'm kind and nice and treat my boyfriends well, I work out and have a great body, I'm independent, I'm not at all materialistic, I'm outdoorsy, and I'm relatively successful (or was, anyway). Often times I was the one that turned them down or broke it off after a few dates, because I was not at all ready for a long-term relationship or at all interested in them.
I find it hilarious that you don't even understand just how easy it is to get a man to date you long-term. It's so easy it's not even funny. All you have to do is be charming, witty, funny, interesting, and be intelligent enough to speak about all different sorts of topics. And in a lot of cases, sometimes you don't even need to be any of that. All you need to be is moderately attractive to some guy out there who's really really lonely. If that weren't the case, there would be no such thing as "mail order-brides" as a fucking concept.
The fact that somebody is willing to date you long-term says absolutely nothing about whether you're a catch or not. Maybe you're just some trashy, sleazy scumbag who is simply in a relationship with another trashy, sleazy scumbag. That shit happens all the fucking time, you know!
People always frown down upon people who freely have sex, but getting into relationships when you are not at all emotionally or mentally ready, or jumping from relationship to relationship, is far more dangerous, reckless, and needy than being uninhibited with sex will ever be. For some reason people don't ever "relationship-shame" though, which I find to be really bizarre, since many types of relationships are extremely destructive and hurtful to the soul and psyche.
And frankly, I would never consider a man who like you for a date, let alone a relationship. You probably have a pretty hot body though, so I'd bang you for a night though… maybe. I mean, if you caught me on a good night and everything, sure, why not, it's just casual sex.
I don't think you even realize that a lot of these "sluts" you judge probably have a lot higher standards than you think, and the way that you rank people as objects of potential romantic interest goes both ways, buddy. You do realize that a relationship requires mutual desire from both people, not just one person, in order for a relationship to exist?
They probably think the exact same thing about you. Do you really think women think and speak highly of men who buy prostitutes, or men who get multiple chicks pregnant, or men who have fucked enough people to have had multiple STD's? Women don't want to marry the guy who has any kind of past like that either. At least, not any "nice, proper" religious housewife type woman, like the type you're talking about.
You do have a point though about how much easier it is for women to get laid, simply because they are approached way more often. That's why realistically, I just find it difficult to imagine exactly how a woman who is single but is actively dating and looking for Mr. Right DOESN'T rack up numbers. Especially with the advent of online dating. It's incredibly easy for a single woman to date 10 different guys for example, in the span of 6 months.
And it might not be exactly from "being slutty" by dating them all at the same time, or having one-night stands with them all either. It could just be that she booked 3-5 dates with each guy and slept with him, and then got bored or disinterested and then moved on to date the next guy. I used to do that shit all the fucking time. A lot of men bore me, and I simply didn't realize until somewhere between the 3rd to 10th date… Sometimes I slept with them and I realize we don't have any sexual chemistry, or sometimes certain aspects of his personality came out that repelled me (seeing shit like a temper or jealousy problem makes me run fast the other direction), or I realize somewhere down the line that he's far too different from me for this to work in the long run.
I mean, I don't do that anymore since I've been in my relationship, but basically whenever I was single and felt like I was emotionally ready for a relationship and was actively searching for Mr. Right, that's what my life was like. I went through a LOT of men before I decided on a particular guy, and that is because I absolutely refused to settle. Settling is for when you're in your 40's, not your 20's.
That's what you have to do, because sex is part of intimacy, and sex absolutely factors into the equation when you are searching for the perfect partner for yourself. A guy could be absolutely the perfect package and everything that I'm looking for in a man, but if his sex game is shitty and hopeless and there's no chance he could improve it, I wouldn't even consider him to be my partner. On the other hand, I have chosen guys who weren't quite as physically attractive as the guys I usually date, or they were a lot less successful than I was. But I chose them because they were highly intelligent, they were very giving and sweet, they had good morals, they loved cooking meals for me, and were great lovers in bed.
Right now my fiancee has the whole package. Model-quality good looks, sweet, caring, considerate, loving, loves to cook, fantastic in bed (I cum every time, the most was 5 times with him in under 15 minutes), super smart and well-read, not too conservative and not too wild, very mature for his age, great fashion sense and well-dressed, a gentleman in public but used to have a very similar crazy past just like me so he is extremely understanding of my past experiences. He is the only lover that I have told absolutely EVERYTHING that I have posted here on the Shroomery about, and he is very open-minded about my past. He recognizes that the past does not make the person. I love the fact that I share an intimate connection with somebody who I don't have any secrets from and can share everything about myself to.
Honestly, I believe he is much smarter, far more well-read, and much better looking than me too. He's out of my league. I'm the lucky one to be with him.
The only thing is that he doesn't have much of a sense of humor, he's more the serious type. But that's okay, I have plenty of humor for the both of us.
Edited by Crystal G (05/29/15 06:18 AM)
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Crystal G]
#21735279 - 05/29/15 01:20 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I used to work at a grocery store over night and I have seen a fat nerdy guy with ordered bride and she seemed really into him and all but I think shes faking it all. that's pretty sad.....
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Anonymous #5]
#21735937 - 05/29/15 08:12 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: abductee]
#21736861 - 05/29/15 01:24 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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@ abductee,
Bro, learn how to say what you want to say in ONE post. I've noticed that you consistently have two or even three posts back-to-back-to-back.
Before you hit "post" or whatever how about you think for a second and decide if you want to add anything else lol.
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Anonymous #8]
#21736943 - 05/29/15 01:53 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Well if i could show you a pic... it was like the startwars kid with scarlett johanson.
dude had money you can just tell....
can you explain what you are so about?
because that's EXACTLY how i felt when i first seen them together.
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Trichome_Delta9]
#21737516 - 05/29/15 04:31 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Most women are sluts these days. I'd say the average 20-25 year old woman averages 1 dude every 2-4 months minimum assuming she is slim, attractive, and decent personality and not in a relationship. They don't really need game to get laid at all unless they are overweight.
Then after 25, approaching 30, they realize they need to have babies now or never, so they find their "provider", settle down, and hop off the cock-carousel. Women are sickening creatures, but to be honest men are no better...maybe worse. Older single men (35+) are perhaps the most disgusting of all because they prey on young women who likely have electra complexes.
Basically, I find most people to be disgusting, vapid and flippant regarding their sex lives.
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Titus_Pullo]
#21737666 - 05/29/15 05:08 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Titus_Pullo said: Most women are sluts these days. I'd say the average 20-25 year old woman averages 1 dude every 2-4 months minimum assuming she is slim, attractive, and decent personality and not in a relationship. They don't really need game to get laid at all unless they are overweight.
Then after 25, approaching 30, they realize they need to have babies now or never, so they find their "provider", settle down, and hop off the cock-carousel. Women are sickening creatures, but to be honest men are no better...maybe worse. Older single men (35+) are perhaps the most disgusting of all because they prey on young women who likely have electra complexes.
Basically, I find most people to be disgusting, vapid and flippant regarding their sex lives.
yup yup its a sad world I try to focus on positive things like...... hold on..... uuhhhmmmmmm........ one sec im sure ill think of something......................
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Trichome_Delta9]
#21737821 - 05/29/15 05:48 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Bewbs?
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Amanita86]
#21737890 - 05/29/15 06:07 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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touché
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Trichome_Delta9]
#21737894 - 05/29/15 06:08 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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you know what would be a slutty thing to do post nudes on here and like you said its a good thing so get to it !!!!!!
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Anonymous #5]
#21738084 - 05/29/15 06:57 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: you know what would be a slutty thing to do post nudes on here and like you said its a good thing so get to it !!!!!!
What you've never seen Crystal Gs naked pictures or her home videos?  To bad she doesn't leave them up, but hey it's her choice. I just thank her for what she's shown
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: basqueshaman]
#21738121 - 05/29/15 07:05 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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man would i like to see some od those
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Anonymous #5] 1
#21738289 - 05/29/15 07:36 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Anonymous said: man would i like to see some od those 
Be patient she post pictures here and there  If you haven't seen her she's a very pretty Asian girl
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Mescalean
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Titus_Pullo]
#21738320 - 05/29/15 07:42 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Titus_Pullo said: Most women are sluts these days. I'd say the average 20-25 year old woman averages 1 dude every 2-4 months minimum assuming she is slim, attractive, and decent personality and not in a relationship. They don't really need game to get laid at all unless they are overweight.
Then after 25, approaching 30, they realize they need to have babies now or never, so they find their "provider", settle down, and hop off the cock-carousel. Women are sickening creatures, but to be honest men are no better...maybe worse. Older single men (35+) are perhaps the most disgusting of all because they prey on young women who likely have electra complexes.
Basically, I find most people to be disgusting, vapid and flippant regarding their sex lives.
I need to remember to give you a plus 5 for this dude. High as shit but ill check back to this later and see this again and be like. oh yeah. he nailed it.
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Mescalean]
#21739182 - 05/29/15 11:09 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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sex (and orgasm) aint the shit it's cracked up to be, yo
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Titus_Pullo]
#21739360 - 05/29/15 11:59 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Titus_Pullo said: Most women are sluts these days. I'd say the average 20-25 year old woman averages 1 dude every 2-4 months minimum assuming she is slim, attractive, and decent personality and not in a relationship. They don't really need game to get laid at all unless they are overweight.
Then after 25, approaching 30, they realize they need to have babies now or never, so they find their "provider", settle down, and hop off the cock-carousel. Women are sickening creatures, but to be honest men are no better...maybe worse. Older single men (35+) are perhaps the most disgusting of all because they prey on young women who likely have electra complexes.
Basically, I find most people to be disgusting, vapid and flippant regarding their sex lives.
Bet you wouldn't be any different if you had options. Play the game or fall on your ass, boy.
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: MoxyOx]
#21740782 - 05/30/15 11:56 AM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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You're absolutely right, I won't deny it. I would fuck a new girl every weekend if I could. But I still think it would be a disgusting thing to do...our nature can be very animalistic and disgusting. I have the physique to attract women, and I go on a lot of dates when I'm single but I'm not out-going enough for hook-up culture.
Edited by Titus_Pullo (05/30/15 12:35 PM)
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Titus_Pullo]
#21741320 - 05/30/15 02:38 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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I take that back. Everyone lies on a spectrum between chaste and whorey. Some women are nasty like that, but I've met gorgeous women who DO hold out for the right man. Just like some men are more willing to put their efforts into their work and life before devoting time to finding a partner. Both those principles apply to everyone though, it's just through choice how you play the game. That redpill stuff is truth only to a point. The world is not black and white like that.
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Re: Why Being a Slut Should Be Considered a Good Thing For Women [Re: Crystal G] 2
#21749272 - 06/01/15 04:24 PM (8 years, 7 months ago) |
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Crystal G said: I don't get what's with all the slut-shaming. I believe being a "slut" should be considered a good thing for women, because you can figure out your body so much easier when you have experience with all types of men.
Just hear me out.
When you have lots of experience with many different types of men, you get a really good feel for things. You get a good feel for what type of sex you like, what type of man you like, you become so in tune with your body and what it takes to help it achieve climax, and you get a lot less nervous over time the more men you bang, so over time it eventually becomes so MUCH easier to orgasm with different men.
In the past couple of years, I've noticed that a few things have happened for me. Before, when I was a teenager, I could only climax during oral sex, but since my mid-20's I have been able to have orgasms during penetration with several different men since then. And I strongly believe that my ability to cum through penetration is inherently linked to the vast amount of sexual experience I've had.
So go on out there, ladies. Experience all the men that life has to offer (or women if that's your thing). You really truly will get to know yourself and know your body on a deeper physical level, and it will make sex so much better with future men that you are in relationships with.
And if for nothing else, just because, well…. #YOLO. Keep on fucking, partner.
I think society overrates sex as some kind of magic thing to only be done with someone you love. well I say fuck that its fun and that's it. dont get me wrong it can be more but it dosent need to be. sex for sex is the best kind of sex in my books. Slut was probably invented by some religious dudes who hate all things fun (drugs, gambling, loud music...) were would the world be without things like drugs and sex my guess is something like Iraq with suicide bombers blowing themselves up just for the small chance of pussy in another dimension. Having something fun to do changes everything
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