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Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public?
#21722403 - 05/25/15 08:18 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Would you give me some scenario's or pointers maybe?
I feel like this happens a lot but usually chicks come onto me when they know me personally as a friend and I don't have a lot of experience, so me failing or not trying anything is probably making my image look like a creeper.
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: Konyap] 1
#21722429 - 05/25/15 08:24 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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At first, don't talk about work, and if she begins, try to change the subject. I can't stress enough how fucking boring work talk is with a person who is basically a stranger.
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: Magenta]
#21722484 - 05/25/15 08:35 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Usually they give me clues or something but I have on the back of my mind that I'm not always ready to go out and do stuff so I let them go, then I go home and realized they probably get porked by like five dudes before I see them again.
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: Konyap] 1
#21722924 - 05/25/15 10:27 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I think things work out when we don't have expectations at all
All my previous relationship and the current one happened out of the blue when I was not looking for a date or partner
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: Thaj]
#21723183 - 05/25/15 11:56 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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About 50/50 either met them through mutual friend or I met them in public at some type of event or public place
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: Black_Sunset]
#21724219 - 05/26/15 09:51 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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There is this goth chick in my street that I really would like to date. But I don't know anything about her other then she usually walks to whatever it is she is walking to at the same time as me. Never spoken to her, don't even know her name and I'm shy to just walk up to her and introduce myself, mostly paranoid that she'll think I'm a creep lol
Also I'm a little insecure, in the sense, who am I to just decide and walk into this person's life?
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Edited by Rosen_Rot (05/26/15 09:57 AM)
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#21724354 - 05/26/15 10:35 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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You're Rosen Rot, that's who you are..
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: Amanita86]
#21724375 - 05/26/15 10:44 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Goth chicks like black bleeding roses though 
Thank you, I think I understood what you mean
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: Rosen_Rot] 1
#21724543 - 05/26/15 11:46 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Op live your life and pursue your dreams. Get your head right and the right girl(s) will take notice. It's like we're all attracted to what is best for us at that specific time. You'll notice, if you begin to get your head right, you'll be turning the right heads.
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: Atrium]
#21725044 - 05/26/15 02:17 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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some chick gave me her parking spot stuv today and I was like, "that's very nice of you" and she walks away and is like "lucky you!"
should have been like, how can i make it up to you or something?
I dunno i suck at expression emotions
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: Konyap]
#21725062 - 05/26/15 02:22 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ask that woman out. Now.
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#21725082 - 05/26/15 02:27 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: Konyap]
#21725090 - 05/26/15 02:29 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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You don't think you'll be able to see her again? I dunno I come from a very small country. Finding someone here is extremely easy. Dunno how hard it is abroad but opportunities like that seldom come knocking at the door. The goth chick is an opportunity but yea people are very... reserved here
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Edited by Rosen_Rot (05/26/15 02:32 PM)
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#21727755 - 05/27/15 08:19 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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"Usually they give me clues or something but I have on the back of my mind that I'm not always ready to go out and do stuff so I let them go, then I go home and realized they probably get porked by like five dudes before I see them again."
So true..lol its a vicious cycle
Its best though when it does click, especially if there's a mutual flirting and play of word. I don't get out much and most of the women i've dated have been from first chatting online. I did run into this woman in one store and she was standing in the middle of the isle with her back turned towards me looking at a mini christmas tree.. Her black boots when up to her knees and her jeans ohh so tight.. I couldn't keep my eyes off her as I strolled down the isle. As I came up behind her I asked some random question like " getting the decorations up?" she turned around and was like " yah, I wanted something to put by my door".. I mentioned something like, "yah I gotta put my lights up soon.." a little more banter than I continued on my way... thinking.. damn. damn.. lol. After that I went to the grocery store and ran into her again and I was like.. second chance .lol . so I say to her " Stalking me now, are you?" lol she laughed and we passed each other.. anyways.. I had to do something so I just shopped around and made us run into each other again.. this time I introduced myself and we chatted for a hot minute.. but sadly I walked away with only her first name.. I locked that name away so I wont forget, who knows we might run into each other again.. I didn't want to get too personal and ask for her number because of the "creep" factor.. It seems to me people now a days don't meet through the old, run into the person. Its so much online now adays that its weird to give your number to someone you've just met.
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: abductee]
#21729166 - 05/27/15 03:29 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I met my current partner at a yoga studio we both visited. Does that count as a public place?
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: Tripsurfer]
#21729575 - 05/27/15 05:21 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Years of social conditioning have made me like this I was always good at talking to one person but I can't follow conversations easily When I was with my first girlfriend it was a major accomplishment for me not to say any thing stupid in a way
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: Konyap]
#21730845 - 05/28/15 12:25 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yes,I met My first serious girlfriend when I was in my senior year of highschool, and Apart from that, I've never had a relationship with someone I met publicly. I've only had two other girlfriends of which I met online. Yesterday I went to the dollar store and there is a girl who works there as a cashier, I reckon I went to school with her, because the first time I met her she was asking me if I went to the same high school as she did , and when I graduated, ( she graduated a year before me) and every time I go in her eyes are glued on me and she definitely remembers me from school even though I don't remember her from school *Flattering* I can tell she had a crush on me too, because she's always a bit flirtatious and acts silly, but It's one of them weird scenarios for me, like I always make small talk with her, but never have the guts to ask for her number. I've been having thoughts about her pretty frequently since yesterday and I really want to act on it, because I'm even fantasizing about getting to know her. My sister said that she asked if we were related (I guess because me and my sister went in the store together) And she made a comment to my sister saying "He is tall and thin, He's a good looking man"! I was flattered about it when my sister told me what she said Like no other girls ever show interest or attraction to me and I almost don't even know how to take it, I've been single and isolated for so long... I really want to get to know her and maybe hang out with her sometime. It's so tempting to just ask her out on a date, but I don't wanna jump in to fast and scare her away. I haven't felt this way in a Long time...
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: FlackoTheAlien]
#21730988 - 05/28/15 01:30 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I didn't grasp the culpability of keeping an eye on someone until this matter.
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: FlackoTheAlien]
#21731070 - 05/28/15 02:10 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Stop over thinking. Act as cool and as if it won't make a world of difference if she says no. Clearly she's into you and you're probably torturing the poor woman by not asking her out. She's asked about you, remembers you, complimented you and had a "girl talk" with your sister.
Just do eeeeeeet! She's dripping wet for you man do eeeeeet!! 
You've got a good thing going man, don't screw it. Better than me, I just oogle the goth chick at the bus stop. Still can't muster up the balls to say hi or something stupid like that
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Re: Has anyone here ever dated someone they met in public? [Re: Rosen_Rot]
#21731113 - 05/28/15 02:42 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Quote:
Rosen_Rot said: Stop over thinking. Act as cool and as if it won't make a world of difference if she says no. Clearly she's into you and you're probably torturing the poor woman by not asking her out. She's asked about you, remembers you, complimented you and had a "girl talk" with your sister.
Just do eeeeeeet! She's dripping wet for you man do eeeeeet!! 
You've got a good thing going man, don't screw it. Better than me, I just oogle the goth chick at the bus stop. Still can't muster up the balls to say hi or something stupid like that
Hell yeah dude! Thanks alot for the advice, I am definitely gonna at least ask her for her number. This type of thing definitely isn't my strong-suite. but I'm feeling extra confident about it with her. She's the most adorable girl ever! I am 99% sure she is single and I'm almost positive she isn't slutty. Although she gives me these *naughty crazy girl looks* and it really turns me on, like just her eyes makes me melt I live in a small town and unfortunately the number of single women is ridiculously low, much less BEAUTIFUL single girls.
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