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Is marriage worth it for the woman?
#21721644 - 05/25/15 04:32 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Hi. I was going to post this in the relationship forum but instead put it here because there are more people here.
My mother is always telling me that marriage is bad news for any woman. She said that a married woman would be burdened with most of the household chores, like laundry, washing the dishes, cooking, sweeping and mopping...etc. And if the woman has any child, she would also be tasked with rearing him/her, and she would do most of the worrying, because she is the mother and mothers tend to care about the kids more then fathers do. My mother also said the married woman would have to provide sexual service to her husband and she counts this as yet another negative thing against marriage, although I tend to disagree with her on this. She is also constantly telling me that if she chose to be single, she wouldn't be "tied down" to the home and her children. She would cook whatever she wanted to eat and however frequent she would have to do it. She would only have her own clothes to wash. She could also just hop on a plane and go travelling without worrying about anything.
So, what is your view on marriage as how it pertains to the woman/the wife? If you were a woman or if you have any sisters, would you recommend to them to get married?
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: WAN] 7
#21721651 - 05/25/15 04:33 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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It's more beneficial for the woman if anything. marriage is a sham.
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#21721659 - 05/25/15 04:36 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah it's so tough. Staying at home to watch kids, keeping the house clean, and cooking dinner. If there's a divorce she gets half his shit and alimony.
Men get the short end of the stick.
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#21721660 - 05/25/15 04:36 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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It sounds like your mother has bad experiences with men. You aren't a slave.. Marriage is about love and support. You're supposed to make each other's lives easier. Why would anyone get married if they thought it was some slave contract?
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: ModestMouse] 13
#21721663 - 05/25/15 04:37 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Sounds like your mom's kind of a bitch.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Enjoywho] 1
#21721671 - 05/25/15 04:38 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said: Sounds like your mom's kind of a bitch. 
lol that's what I thought too decided not to say anything
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: WAN] 3
#21721674 - 05/25/15 04:39 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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XLCaps said: It sounds like your mother has bad experiences with men. You aren't a slave.. Marriage is about love and support. You're supposed to make each other's lives easier. Why would anyone get married if they thought it was some slave contract?
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WAN said: Hi. I was going to post this in the relationship forum but instead put it here because there are more people here.
My mother is always telling me that marriage is bad news for any woman. She said that a married woman would be burdened with most of the household chores, like laundry, washing the dishes, cooking, sweeping and mopping...etc. And if the woman has any child, she would also be tasked with rearing him/her, and she would do most of the worrying, because she is the mother and mothers tend to care about the kids more then fathers do. My mother also said the married woman would have to provide sexual service to her husband and she counts this as yet another negative thing against marriage, although I tend to disagree with her on this. She is also constantly telling me that if she chose to be single, she wouldn't be "tied down" to the home and her children. She would cook whatever she wanted to eat and however frequent she would have to do it. She would only have her own clothes to wash. She could also just hop on a plane and go travelling without worrying about anything.
So, what is your view on marriage as how it pertains to the woman/the wife? If you were a woman or if you have any sisters, would you recommend to them to get married?
Just because your mom is weak and can't make decisions for herself doesn't mean it applies to all women. Sucks for her though.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#21721679 - 05/25/15 04:40 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: WAN] 3
#21721687 - 05/25/15 04:42 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Marriage is what you make of it, and it woirk for many and not for others.
As for women, I would suggest a woman get independant financially and emotionally before she marries, than all the pitfalls your mom is bitching about kind of become moot. When your independant nobody can tell you shit, and are forced into nothing.
Your post make your mom come off really whiney and spoiled....
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: DirtMcgirt] 3
#21721709 - 05/25/15 04:49 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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OP, your mother is 50 years behind the modern woman, today married women don't do any of that shit.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: qman]
#21721725 - 05/25/15 04:53 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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qman said: OP, your mother is 50 years behind the modern woman, today married women don't do any of that shit.
the chores?
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: WAN] 1
#21721761 - 05/25/15 05:03 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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WAN said:
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qman said: OP, your mother is 50 years behind the modern woman, today married women don't do any of that shit.
the chores?
If they work they maybe do half the chores and they sure as hell don't sexually service their husbands when they don't want to fuck.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: qman] 1
#21721766 - 05/25/15 05:07 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I believe that women are the only reason why marriage exists. It makes them feel safe or whatever.
No sane man would want to be attached to the same woman for the rest of his life fucking no other women but her.
Fuck, it seems that even divorce is meant for women. nce a man gets married he's essentially fucked.
But then when you say you don't believe in marriage you become this immature guy not ready for commitment or not wanting to prove his love or some other crap like that.
Fuck it.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: WAN]
#21721916 - 05/25/15 05:52 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Honestly you could say the same for men that's it's not worth working constantly and doing everything in his power to keep the family afloat. With all due respect I think your mother's advice might've applied in the 50s but we live in a new age. Every happy couple I know respects what each other has to do as far as jobs or taking care of kids and all my friends that are dad's have a very active role is raising and taking care of the child when he's not working.
I don't think marriage is super important if you truly love each other. My best friend and his girl have been together for 8 years and didn't feel the need to get married. They're probably the happiest couple I know. The key is they do everything a married couple does in the respects of not keeping options open,being faithful,complete honesty,joint money accounts etc. I guess their love is just strong enough to not put labels on it.
That being said marriage can be convenient as well, for example my sister and her bf are getting hitched in Vegas because it will help them on their taxes for the kid. Personally I think that's a TERRIBLE reason but that's just my opinion.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Patlal]
#21721929 - 05/25/15 05:58 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Patlal said: I believe that women are the only reason why marriage exists. It makes them feel safe or whatever.
No sane man would want to be attached to the same woman for the rest of his life fucking no other women but her.
Fuck, it seems that even divorce is meant for women. nce a man gets married he's essentially fucked.
But then when you say you don't believe in marriage you become this immature guy not ready for commitment or not wanting to prove his love or some other crap like that.
Fuck it.
Nah man I'm a romantic I like that idea just starting when I'm 40 or so (not THAT romantic)
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damn dude, your mom is like straight outta the 50's bruh, sounds like a class act.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Patlal]
#21721944 - 05/25/15 06:04 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I don't really get marriage myself. Instead of spending a fuck ton of cash on this stupid ceremony. Why not travel for a month and experience some shit together.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Enjoywho]
#21722037 - 05/25/15 06:34 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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First of all, thank you to all who replied in this thread, despite that some of the things uttered in this thread is not the most positive in regards to my mother. In defense of her, I think I will just clarify that she is a very dutiful, and responsible mother. Perhaps a mite too dutiful (and responsible), which is what caused her to think the way she does.
I am not trying to take sides here, although I do want to elaborate a bit on my mother's way of thinking and why she said the things that she said. For example, after making this thread, I up and went out, then took a leisurely, hour-long walk in the neighborhood. It was very relaxing. But my mom? She has to stay home and make dinner for the whole family. Don't get me wrong, what she does is very important, but I am not sure if I want to give up the freedom to do whatever I want, whenever I want, and not just for one or a few days, but for pretty much my entire life (or till the kids are 18, which is still a huge chunk of my life). Also, I think some of the things she said are true, too. For example, our family has 4 people. Now, logic tells us that she would have to spend roughly 4 times as much on grocery compared to just feeding one person (namely herself).
My mother has a bit more time now that me and my brother have become adults. But back when we were still kids, my mother never had any chance whatsoever to travel. If I get married, this is what I will have to consider, too. It's not just travel, but a whole range of activities that one would not be able to enjoy due to having too little time. Although I realize this happens to the men, too.
I don't know, man. I mean I am not some sort of militant feminist or a big hairy dyke. I like men, and am attracted to them. I think I definitely want a man in my life, but I don't know about getting married. I think the attending responsibilities might be too much for someone like me to handle. And I don't want to jump into anything to hastily. This would only lead to regrets and heartaches.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: WAN]
#21722085 - 05/25/15 06:51 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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If you want to maintain an egalitarian relationship with a man with a job do not have a child. If you have a child you are going to get stuck with most of the raising purely based on biology. He can help but that's it.
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#21722109 - 05/25/15 06:59 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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1. No one says you HAVE to get married. I've been with my chick for 6+ years, we have a kid, we live together, but we aren't married and probably never will be.
2. If your mom is staying home to take care of the kids, cook and clean, does she also have a job bringing in half the income? Or does your Dad slave his ass off to bring in all the money so your mom and siblings can live a decent life? It's a two way street sweetheart. Is SHE the one earning and paying 4x as much on groceries? Maybe then I can understand her complaint, if she was raising the kids, cooking, cleaning AND working.
3. Most "modern women" don't do many of these things.. they'd rather focus on their career and do whatever they want. Which.. fine.. that's their choice.
4. Your mom complains about "having to provide sexual services to her husband"... umm.. that's called loving someone. If that's a negative.. then what the fuck did she get married for? Sex is an important part of any relationship.
5. Your mom sounds like she's right out of the 50s, and just woke up to modern feminist thinking and is now pissed off that she CHOSE to live like that.
6. If you have KIDS, then that's your choice and you have to take the responsibility to raise them right. Yeah, social life goes down the drain and it's difficult and very expensive. That's common knowledge.
Personally, I will never get married. There's just too many downsides for the male. It's most definitely more beneficial for the woman.
No offense but your mom sounds selfish.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Shroomism]
#21722121 - 05/25/15 07:03 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah OPs mom puts out for me no problem. Sucks for the dad though
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Shroomism]
#21722160 - 05/25/15 07:14 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Marriage can be advantageous tax wise. Children are never advantageous anywise
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy]
#21722163 - 05/25/15 07:14 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I don't know if my mom truly loves my dad but I know that whenever my dad makes a mistake, she will nag him for a long time, but when I do it, she forgives me (unless it's something monumentally stupid)
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: WAN] 2
#21722175 - 05/25/15 07:18 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Obviously not if she refers to intimacy as sexual services like she's a prostitute or something. Wtf?
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21722189 - 05/25/15 07:21 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: Marriage can be advantageous tax wise. Children are never advantageous anywise
Unless they make it big like CEO or NFL Allstar
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Patlal]
#21722194 - 05/25/15 07:23 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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And they'll probably hate you anyway because of how much you beat them to succeed.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21722204 - 05/25/15 07:25 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Sad but true.
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Most men including myself aren't really interested in marriage in their 20s or 30s imo. Also I'm not sure how you're making the direct connection between relationship>marriage>babies. A lot of times you can have a strong relationship without marriage or babies. There are ALL many birth control techniques.
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Shroomism said: 1. No one says you HAVE to get married. I've been with my chick for 6+ years, we have a kid, we live together, but we aren't married and probably never will be.
2. If your mom is staying home to take care of the kids, cook and clean, does she also have a job bringing in half the income? Or does your Dad slave his ass off to bring in all the money so your mom and siblings can live a decent life? It's a two way street sweetheart. Is SHE the one earning and paying 4x as much on groceries? Maybe then I can understand her complaint, if she was raising the kids, cooking, cleaning AND working.
3. Most "modern women" don't do many of these things.. they'd rather focus on their career and do whatever they want. Which.. fine.. that's their choice.
4. Your mom complains about "having to provide sexual services to her husband"... umm.. that's called loving someone. If that's a negative.. then what the fuck did she get married for? Sex is an important part of any relationship.
5. Your mom sounds like she's right out of the 50s, and just woke up to modern feminist thinking and is now pissed off that she CHOSE to live like that.
6. If you have KIDS, then that's your choice and you have to take the responsibility to raise them right. Yeah, social life goes down the drain and it's difficult and very expensive. That's common knowledge.
Personally, I will never get married. There's just too many downsides for the male. It's most definitely more beneficial for the woman.
No offense but your mom sounds selfish.
Now THAT is good advice
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Malcolm_Xtasy] 2
#21722231 - 05/25/15 07:32 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Wow people are so fuckin rude on here. its sad to hear how your mother views marriage. its all subjective, it works for some but not for others. the best you can do is make sure youre with someone you want to spend THE REST of your life with. that's as simple as it can be put.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21722360 - 05/25/15 08:05 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: Marriage can be advantageous tax wise. Children are never advantageous anywise
I dunno if that's true anymore. I heard the tax breaks are pretty much gone now. I haven't really read up on it though.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Shroomism]
#21722389 - 05/25/15 08:12 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Considering the laws being passed for homosexual marriage I think it's to prevent people from abusing the law. Having children still grants you a few tax breaks, as does having dependants.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: MoxyOx]
#21722693 - 05/25/15 09:19 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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The question is, is marriage worth it for the man?
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Shroomism]
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All you married guys with wives who cook and shit are lucky.
The girls they're making now... I have been a better cook than any one of my exes. None could cook or would bother to learn.
If there is no sexual acts performed or cooking in it for me then why the fuck would I get married. Guys get the short end of the stick.
I actually got into this same topic with a girl i went to highschool with about how her life as a mother was so fucking hard. she shut up as soon as i pointed the fact out she had made 20 posts to her wall throughout the day. couldnt be that busy
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
#21722756 - 05/25/15 09:33 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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haha that reminds me of a Bill Burr set. "any job you can do in your pajamas cant be that hard" or something like that. he has a whole lot of jokes about that topic.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
#21722768 - 05/25/15 09:35 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I also don't see the connection between marriage and babies. They are obviously related, but marriage doesn't necessarily lead to babies.
However, i think they are both stupid.
(I like kids, but don't think i'll have any. Will never get married - can't even conceive of why anyone would, it is pretty much the most ridiculous social ritual i can imagine - although low key/non traditional weddings arn't so bad....)
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lol one of my favorite comics, I actually posted that bit and she went off about how she thought he was a moron and knew nothing of her struggles lol
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean] 2
#21722783 - 05/25/15 09:40 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Damn OP did you ever think you'd make a thread where everyone tears your mom a new asshole?
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
#21722794 - 05/25/15 09:42 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: All you married guys with wives who cook and shit are lucky.
The girls they're making now... I have been a better cook than any one of my exes. None could cook or would bother to learn.
If there is no sexual acts performed or cooking in it for me then why the fuck would I get married. Guys get the short end of the stick.
I actually got into this same topic with a girl i went to highschool with about how her life as a mother was so fucking hard. she shut up as soon as i pointed the fact out she had made 20 posts to her wall throughout the day. couldnt be that busy
She probably shut up because she realized you're a self inflated asshole. Raising kids isn't easy. Just because you find time for other shit that doesn't mean your life is any different. What, so she shouldn't take what time she can to herself because of...? Lots of people have hard lives but that doesn't mean they never have any spare time. Sometimes I spend a good amount of time in a day on the Shroomery. Shit, I've probably made a few dozen posts today. Yet still I had time to watch my son, feed him, play with him, deal with him, take him outside, do my dishes, clean the house, organize my basement, help my dad move shit, spend time with my girlfriend, should I go on?
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propensity said: Damn OP did you ever think you'd make a thread where everyone tears your mom a new asshole?
That another marriage qualification for me. If I am to be the bread winner I want
1.Home cooked meals 2. somewhat clean house i am no clean freak i could give a fuck really just presentable to company. 3. anal. any woman anti anal is anti adventure
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Mescalean said: All you married guys with wives who cook and shit are lucky.
The girls they're making now... I have been a better cook than any one of my exes. None could cook or would bother to learn.
If there is no sexual acts performed or cooking in it for me then why the fuck would I get married. Guys get the short end of the stick.
I actually got into this same topic with a girl i went to highschool with about how her life as a mother was so fucking hard. she shut up as soon as i pointed the fact out she had made 20 posts to her wall throughout the day. couldnt be that busy
She probably shut up because she realized you're a self inflated asshole. Raising kids isn't easy. Just because you find time for other shit that doesn't mean your life is any different. What, so she shouldn't take what time she can to herself because of...? Lots of people have hard lives but that doesn't mean they never have any spare time. Sometimes I spend a good amount of time in a day on the Shroomery. Shit, I've probably made a few dozen posts today. Yet still I had time to watch my son, feed him, play with him, deal with him, take him outside, do my dishes, clean the house, organize my basement, help my dad move shit, spend time with my girlfriend, should I go on?
Then you'll just love what I said above Mr mom. If you grew up with this girl you wouldn't be white knighting right now.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean] 1
#21722852 - 05/25/15 09:59 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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White knight? Why the fuck would I care if some random bitch has a pussy?
I just think you're a dick for judging someone's situation that harshly, especially when you've apparently known eachother most of your lives. Who does that? "Shut up bitch, your life ain't shit!" It's insulting, as a parent, for any idiot to go around diminishing the good hard work we do over some base observations you can't truly relate to.
And I am Mr. Mom. Suck my cunt.
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I dont see the big deal, dont make a mess, and polish as you go.. laundry is throwing shit in a bucket and turning a knob..and then 30 minutes later switching it to the next box and turning a knob. Whoever wants to cook can cook, how hard are dishes? Change the occasional lightbulb. I dont see what the fuss is about.
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XLCaps said: White knight? Why the fuck would I care if some random bitch has a pussy?
I just think you're a dick for judging someone's situation that harshly, especially when you've apparently known eachother most of your lives. Who does that? "Shut up bitch, your life ain't shit!" It's insulting, as a parent, for any idiot to go around diminishing the good hard work we do over some base observations you can't truly relate to.
And I am Mr. Mom. Suck my cunt.
"I am Mr. Mom."
Are you too tired or have a headache when it comes to sex at night?
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what about roofing in the summer? putting in dvds and cookin a dinner in an air conditioned house is harder than that? how about mining? is being a mom the hardest job in the world? not even close it can be a tough job sometimes im sure but don't act like its the HARDEST job in the world. so you can keep patting yourselves on the back ladies no ones gonna correct you cause they want to fuck you.
Bill Burr is not a moron I am certain he brings in much more than stay at home mothers.
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When you finish work, what happens? You go home, relax.
Parents of young kids, they don't really get free time unless there's close and helpful family.
And those parents, they all obviously don't have jobs right?
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: qman]
#21722886 - 05/25/15 10:12 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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XLCaps said: White knight? Why the fuck would I care if some random bitch has a pussy?
I just think you're a dick for judging someone's situation that harshly, especially when you've apparently known eachother most of your lives. Who does that? "Shut up bitch, your life ain't shit!" It's insulting, as a parent, for any idiot to go around diminishing the good hard work we do over some base observations you can't truly relate to.
And I am Mr. Mom. Suck my cunt.
"I am Mr. Mom."
Are you too tired or have a headache when it comes to sex at night? 
I mostly work nights and she works days. If we're fucking it's usually when I come home or when I'm about to go to bed. Which is like 2-3pm.
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I FUCKING LOVE THIS WORD
While I won't deny me being a dick this girl was the school cum dumpster since age 13. Has leeched off multiple close friends and just in general is a crazy bitch. I've avoided anything more than platonic for years and for very good reason. While the last thing I could possibly think about now is a child, I know damn well she is not and will not make a good mother. Doesn't take being a baby whisperer to know that shit. She in general is just an unfit human being. Claims to be sober. I fucking hope so for that child.
I'm not saying that being a parent does not have its challenges. I do 100 percent think some women completely over-dramatize the whole thing. Personally I would choose chilling with a little me all day over working 60 hours give or take a week to support a family, if I change my mind in the future, which I may, I'll go ahead and say "you told me so i was being an ass" Until then I think raising a miniature me would be crazy. The thought of it trips me out.
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Being a good fulltime mother is the most important job in the world, more than any banker or CEO. Why the modern woman has demonized this role as something degrading to do is beyond me, it's one of the reasons why the family unit is not very stable today.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
#21722913 - 05/25/15 10:22 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Cunt is a good word.
As long as you won't deny yourself being a dick because I'd do the same. 
I don't know man, if you know her that well then maybe you're right. It's just the way you put it rubbed me the wrong way. I've heard a few things lately like that and it can push my buttons. Some people shouldn't have kids, I know that as well as anyone else.
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Considering she can leave and take half of his shit, yeah. Pretty worth it.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: WAN]
#21722947 - 05/25/15 10:34 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I think OP is in another country where women's attitudes might reflect actual cultural differences that do exist. I'm not sure where he's from, but I wouldn't be too quick to jump to conclusions. In many places women are treated like shit, and marriage is not entirely fair to them. Basically it is like how social conservatives wish it was here.
So if you don't mind my asking WAN, where are you and your family from?
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: moonrockmushy]
#21722957 - 05/25/15 10:38 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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And if you don't mind me asking.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
#21722978 - 05/25/15 10:45 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: All you married guys with wives who cook and shit are lucky.
The girls they're making now... I have been a better cook than any one of my exes. None could cook or would bother to learn.
If there is no sexual acts performed or cooking in it for me then why the fuck would I get married. Guys get the short end of the stick.
I actually got into this same topic with a girl i went to highschool with about how her life as a mother was so fucking hard. she shut up as soon as i pointed the fact out she had made 20 posts to her wall throughout the day. couldnt be that busy
The only reason to get married as a man now a days is to show off how hot of a bitch you can fuck no other reason
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XLCaps said: When you finish work, what happens? You go home, relax.
Parents of young kids, they don't really get free time unless there's close and helpful family.
And those parents, they all obviously don't have jobs right?
So don't have any kids? Don't complain about what you signed up for when you were to lazy to go the clinic. Bc is cheap and insanely easy to get.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Psychonautica]
#21723000 - 05/25/15 10:51 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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lol, wtf
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Enjoywho]
#21723013 - 05/25/15 10:54 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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XLCaps said: When you finish work, what happens? You go home, relax.
Parents of young kids, they don't really get free time unless there's close and helpful family.
And those parents, they all obviously don't have jobs right?
So don't have any kids? Don't complain about what you signed up for when you were to lazy to go the clinic. Bc is cheap and insanely easy to get.
When have I ever said anything? I wanted kids, I knew that when I was young. I'm having a conversation, if you don't like it, fuck off. Otherwise, do us both a favour and look through my post history before you go around mouthin' off about my life decisions, pup.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: WAN]
#21723052 - 05/25/15 11:09 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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WAN said: Hi. I was going to post this in the relationship forum but instead put it here because there are more people here.
My mother is always telling me that marriage is bad news for any woman. She said that a married woman would be burdened with most of the household chores, like laundry, washing the dishes, cooking, sweeping and mopping...etc. And if the woman has any child, she would also be tasked with rearing him/her, and she would do most of the worrying, because she is the mother and mothers tend to care about the kids more then fathers do. My mother also said the married woman would have to provide sexual service to her husband and she counts this as yet another negative thing against marriage, although I tend to disagree with her on this. She is also constantly telling me that if she chose to be single, she wouldn't be "tied down" to the home and her children. She would cook whatever she wanted to eat and however frequent she would have to do it. She would only have her own clothes to wash. She could also just hop on a plane and go travelling without worrying about anything.
So, what is your view on marriage as how it pertains to the woman/the wife? If you were a woman or if you have any sisters, would you recommend to them to get married?
She sounds like my mom. My mom warned me for years to never get married, for similar reasons.
As Samantha says from sex n the city: "why are single people in such a rush to get married, all married people want to do is be single again."
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XLCaps said: When you finish work, what happens? You go home, relax.
Parents of young kids, they don't really get free time unless there's close and helpful family.
And those parents, they all obviously don't have jobs right?
So don't have any kids? Don't complain about what you signed up for when you were to lazy to go the clinic. Bc is cheap and insanely easy to get.
When have I ever said anything? I wanted kids, I knew that when I was young. I'm having a conversation, if you don't like it, fuck off. Otherwise, do us both a favour and look through my post history before you go around mouthin' off about my life decisions, pup.
I wasn't necessarily replying to you. Just in general.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Crystal G]
#21723090 - 05/25/15 11:20 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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WAN said: Hi. I was going to post this in the relationship forum but instead put it here because there are more people here.
My mother is always telling me that marriage is bad news for any woman. She said that a married woman would be burdened with most of the household chores, like laundry, washing the dishes, cooking, sweeping and mopping...etc. And if the woman has any child, she would also be tasked with rearing him/her, and she would do most of the worrying, because she is the mother and mothers tend to care about the kids more then fathers do. My mother also said the married woman would have to provide sexual service to her husband and she counts this as yet another negative thing against marriage, although I tend to disagree with her on this. She is also constantly telling me that if she chose to be single, she wouldn't be "tied down" to the home and her children. She would cook whatever she wanted to eat and however frequent she would have to do it. She would only have her own clothes to wash. She could also just hop on a plane and go travelling without worrying about anything.
So, what is your view on marriage as how it pertains to the woman/the wife? If you were a woman or if you have any sisters, would you recommend to them to get married?
She sounds like my mom. My mom warned me for years to never get married, for similar reasons.
As Samantha says from sex n the city: "why are single people in such a rush to get married, all married people want to do is be single again." 
How's your marriage with one dude from last story going?
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Enjoywho]
#21723109 - 05/25/15 11:29 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Marriage is very personal and u must follow your own intuition. If you marry and your husband is shitty, don't be afraid to divorce and start again
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Thaj]
#21723129 - 05/25/15 11:36 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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How is marriage very personal?
Marriage is a legal status for taxes. Other than that it doesn't mean shit
Love is personal, I'd say. But marriage isn't really.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Psychonautica]
#21723148 - 05/25/15 11:44 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ya I don't really understand it. But that's why I have no kids and have never been married.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Enjoywho]
#21723157 - 05/25/15 11:48 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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How's your marriage with one dude from last story going?
Oh, well I explained in another thread that technically we aren't legally married. What happened was, we applied for a marriage license and we were going to get married before the license expired, but then I had the worst relapse ever. And I kept hiding the fact that I was doing drugs from him and shit kept spiraling out of control thanks to my dumbass. The last thing that was on my mind was getting married. And honestly, I was so paranoid from all the drugs, about barely even knowing this guy that I was kind of glad the marriage license expired.
So he pushed to go back to California to go to rehab and get my shit together. We aren't legally married, but we're still together. I actually feel very lucky to have him, he's been my entire support system while I was in detox and in rehab.
As a matter of fact, he's here right now. He flew out to come see me. He's sleeping right next to me as we speak. We just had sex 3 times and I came super hard on his dick doggy-style.
See, this is why women should always choose partners who are good in bed. So that way they don't feel like they are some slave servicing the guy at all. Sure, if you're just sucking his dick and he's just cumming inside of you in 3 minutes and using you as a substitute jack-off tool then sex is going to be boring and you're going to feel used.
Frankly, this is also why I believe being a "slut" is a good thing for women. Because when you have lots of sexual experience with many different types of men, you get a really good feel for what type of man you like, what type of sex you like, it becomes much easier to orgasm, etc. I wasn't even able to cum from penetration until a couple of years ago, and I strongly believe it was my vast sexual experience that helped me to achieve that stage.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Crystal G]
#21723172 - 05/25/15 11:54 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Marriage is wak
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
#21723236 - 05/26/15 12:16 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Mescalean said: All you married guys with wives who cook and shit are lucky.
The girls they're making now... I have been a better cook than any one of my exes. None could cook or would bother to learn.
If there is no sexual acts performed or cooking in it for me then why the fuck would I get married. Guys get the short end of the stick.
I love sex and I love cooking. Those are like the two household hobbies that I actively enjoy and read up or watch videos about constantly to improve my game at both. I'm super glad I'm with a guy who's a neat-freak and loves cleaning. Otherwise I would be cooking up gourmet meals and having sex in a house that frankly looks like a dumpster. 
Anyway, don't rip so hard on WAN's mom guys. I was reading in another thread that she is Asian, so I can understand where she's coming from.
Asian women of my mom's generation really were treated like domestic slaves. That is really not an exaggeration. This was back in the day when men didn't even open the door for women, women opened the door for men and held umbrellas for men when it was raining.
When my mom was 9 months pregnant, she was still expected to do all the cleaning and cook for 10 guests even though she was in a lot of labor/pregnancy pains. In America, it's the opposite. When your lady is pregnant and carrying your baby, the man is expected to cater to her to make her pregnancy easier for her.
My mom talks all the time about how jealous she is of me and my sister, because all of our boyfriends have been so different from how her husband treated her. And to us, we take it for granted because in America, we are so used to men treating us well. At least the men WE choose anyway, but that's only because me and my sister have a thing for nice guys. We don't pick assholes or trashy guys who will treat us like shit.
I can't help but feel sorry for my mom, because culturally she feels like she can't even get a divorce and is forever trapped now. I've tried to hook her up with so many of my friends, and she's never gone for it. She's still super hot too, she could totally land a young cub or another rich gentleman.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Crystal G]
#21723240 - 05/26/15 12:19 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Yeah. I'm a man. Sex and cooking are the shit. I love both.
Hell, I even like eating bitches out. I enjoy it myself, so I'm like, quite the catch for the ladies apparently.
Cooking leads to food, and sex leads to babies.
So cooking > sex
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Enjoywho]
#21723250 - 05/26/15 12:25 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said: I don't really get marriage myself. Instead of spending a fuck ton of cash on this stupid ceremony. Why not travel for a month and experience some shit together.
This. Weddings are overpriced and over rated
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: DOBAS]
#21723253 - 05/26/15 12:27 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Enjoywho said: I don't really get marriage myself. Instead of spending a fuck ton of cash on this stupid ceremony. Why not travel for a month and experience some shit together.
This. Weddings are overpriced and over rated
I totally agree myself. Weddings should be modest and cheap. The real money you should be spending on is your honeymoon. I want the honeymoon of a lifetime. Fuck the $10,000 ring, it's just a FUCKING STONE. Who cares about a FUCKING STONE that comes out of the ground. Get me a 6 karat lab-made moissanite, it's not like any layperson can tell the fucking difference between the two. And fuck the $5,000 dress, I'm only going to wear it once, I'm cool with the $100 one. Get married on the beach or at the park and you can mostly budget and have a wedding for less than $1,000.
But when it comes to the honeymoon, I'm going balls out. First class airplane tickets, Cuban cigars, Dom Perignon champagne, skydiving, smoke some dank opium, I want to experience everythaaaaang. We've been discussing either Australia or Europe on a backpacking visa or a holiday work visa, that way we can go for over 90 days and legally find work at the same time we're there too.
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Trichome_Delta9 said: what about roofing in the summer? putting in dvds and cookin a dinner in an air conditioned house is harder than that? how about mining? is being a mom the hardest job in the world? not even close it can be a tough job sometimes im sure but don't act like its the HARDEST job in the world. so you can keep patting yourselves on the back ladies no ones gonna correct you cause they want to fuck you.
Not all men work those types of jobs. What about the men who work cushy office jobs?
I would say that raising kids is easier if they are older. At least 5 years old and above, because then they are in school for a large part of the day at least. But when they're still infants they wake up crying every 1-2 hours. This basically means that new parents never get any sleep. Can you imagine waking up every hour every single day for at least 2 years of your life? That alone would drive me batshit.
Then you have to deal with the terrible 2's where they have ear-splitting tantrums several times a day. You can't hit them, you can't scream at them to shut the hell up, because otherwise you will have to deal with the consequences years and years later when they turn into large children and then teenagers.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Crystal G]
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fuck the cubicle zombies.
there are women that work labor, construction etc. and what not. usually butches and dykes but hey, respect.
im not even necessarily talking about stay at home moms but dads too.
baby sitting is not hard if you parent right, its all about discipline don't over think that and beat your kid to a pulp.
also im joking around mainly.
I have done hard labor jobs my entire working life and that's harder work, as in more labor.
I admit it can be work (if I use the term loosely enough) and can be a stressful job but its not the hardest job in the world?
cmon.
that's narrow minded.
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Are we really getting child rearing stuff from you? Your sole experience of child rearing is from being one. Ya know I love you so out of that love I am suggesting you might want to shut the fuck up on this issue.
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Trichome_Delta9 said: fuck the cubicle zombies.
there are women that work labor, construction etc. and what not. usually butches and dykes but hey, respect.
No. I'm construction. There are no women. Some have tried. They can't do it. Flag person on the highway is about all. Facts are not sexist
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
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but hey they are still do something to help construction aye
I have seen them in landscaping as well. and I have also learned to never be narrow minded because once I think something don't exist or cant happen there it is before my eyes.
have seen a female help roofers too.
at least they aren't sitting at home popping in dvds in the blue ray in their pjs right?
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They can't do the job. It is just a fact. I've seen them try and all of them fail.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
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they can flag. they can pick weeds they can help out roofers. I never said they can lay pipe under the ground but at least they got a job.
grandpa women are allowed to have jobs now too
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I'm in the roofing industry, we've only had one female try to join us on the job, she got fired within a few hours because she couldn't get the bundle of shingles over her shoulder and up the ladder, apart from that we work with a lot of metal, she basically got a paper cut from some .019 trim we were putting on, and left the job to go get bandaids...I'm not saying every woman can't do it, but most can not.
The most they'd be good for in the roofing industry (most anyway, not all) would be handing someone the tools they need when they ask, other then that I haven't seen one be able to keep up.
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Help out roofers how? Hump singles up a 32 foot ladder? Bring them water?
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
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bring water and hand them tools yes.
im agreeing with they cant keep up but don't be so sexist about this. they can be useful.
im just saying a job is better than no job, and putting in dvds and making lunch isn't as hard as roofing I have humped shingles up a latter and wouldn't even let a women do it because im a sexist but that doesn't mean I think they are worthless or only good for sex and baby sitting.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: WAN]
#21725215 - 05/26/15 03:08 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Less taxes for married statute
and a whole plethora of other bullshit singles don't get
so yes, it's worth it
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Trichome_Delta9 said: bring water and hand them tools yes.
im agreeing with they cant keep up but don't be so sexist about this. they can be useful.
im just saying a job is better than no job, and putting in dvds and making lunch isn't as hard as roofing I have humped shingles up a latter and wouldn't even let a women do it because im a sexist but that doesn't mean I think they are worthless or only good for sex and baby sitting.
Roofers have all the tools they need in their belt already.. The reason women don't hump shingles up the ladder is because they can't. I don't think they're worthless at all but roofing is not going to be one of their fortes
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
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Maybe Crystal can do a couple of bundles.
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Bundles of heroin, maybe.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Psychonautica]
#21725293 - 05/26/15 03:33 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I think we already know that
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
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HI, your moms insane, dont listen to her
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
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I think marriage is a dumb -legal- thing in general
my love doesnt get anywhere near the legal system
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: SunnyD]
#21725368 - 05/26/15 03:54 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Your financial loss
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#21725381 - 05/26/15 03:57 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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until the divorce when she takes half your shit.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: rackem]
#21725396 - 05/26/15 04:01 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Or you take half hers.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
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zappaisgod said: Maybe Crystal can do a couple of bundles.
After seeing the wrestling video idk about that man. I see girls go harder than just that 25lb plate strapped on themselves with dips.
Roofing was the first time I have ever really like fried sun burnt because of skin tone, i thought i was sun retardant. I was fucking wrooooonnnngggg. No wonder the older dudes looked like leather.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21725410 - 05/26/15 04:05 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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in the rare cases..
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
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A bundle of shingles weighs about 80 pounds. You put it on your shoulder and you tote it up a ladder. I figure Crystal could get a few of them up before she taps out. She is the only one. Maybe sprinkles.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
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id watch that shit for sure.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: rackem]
#21725424 - 05/26/15 04:11 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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If a man does housework he should do it when the wife or girlfriend is not home. I read a study that said women find their man less attractive if they see him doing housework.
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/relationships/11284963/Men-who-do-less-housework-have-more-sex.html
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
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zappaisgod said: A bundle of shingles weighs about 80 pounds. You put it on your shoulder and you tote it up a ladder. I figure Crystal could get a few of them up before she taps out. She is the only one. Maybe sprinkles.
What a fucking great cage match that would be
Are they really 80? The didn't seem that heavy back then. Just fuck roofing in AZ man wtf
I'd put a years salary on sprinkles.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
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If I'm not mistaken, they can weigh anywhere from 70-90 pounds a bundle depending on what type of shingle they are, I rarely work with shingles though and my specialty is in other types of roofing so I'm not too familiar with them.
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Id pay good money to watch crystal g and sprinkles cage fight
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
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zappaisgod said: A bundle of shingles weighs about 80 pounds. You put it on your shoulder and you tote it up a ladder. I figure Crystal could get a few of them up before she taps out. She is the only one. Maybe sprinkles.
What a fucking great cage match that would be
Are they really 80? The didn't seem that heavy back then. Just fuck roofing in AZ man wtf
I'd put a years salary on sprinkles.
Yep. About 80 plus or minus maybe 10 depending on the brand.
Have you seen Crystal's pics? Girl's been working out big time. Sprinkles is pretty tight too and probably has the advantage in pure crazy but I think Crystal has done too much training.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
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zappaisgod said: A bundle of shingles weighs about 80 pounds. You put it on your shoulder and you tote it up a ladder. I figure Crystal could get a few of them up before she taps out. She is the only one. Maybe sprinkles.
What a fucking great cage match that would be
Are they really 80? The didn't seem that heavy back then. Just fuck roofing in AZ man wtf
I'd put a years salary on sprinkles.
Yep. About 80 plus or minus maybe 10 depending on the brand.
Have you seen Crystal's pics? Girl's been working out big time. Sprinkles is pretty tight too and probably has the advantage in pure crazy but I think Crystal has done too much training.
Okay I was gonna say looking back on it they felt 60ish but idk im no scale.
Yes crystal has been training but I've seen more out of female lifters man (keep in mind i love this shit). Yes she may be slightly more built than the average female but she's not crazy without her PCP. Sprinkles is crazy. I know crazy. If crystal is any type of crazy its the kind that talks itself up in it's head and then freaks when sprinkles has her nose clamped between her jaws.
Keep in mind sprinkles have very large hands, grappling this will come in handy alone with grip strength and keep a hold on her prey. Those man hands will choke a bitch out. She was also raised by a military man. I put my money on sprinkles
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
#21725781 - 05/26/15 05:53 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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pure retard rage wins over training any day of the week
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
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Oh don't get me wrong I aint picking a side here but I think it would be a mistake to discount Crystal. If crazy was all that mattered I'd take sprinkles in a heartbeat but I think Crystal is in much better shape and much stronger. Sprinkles has reach and cray cray but that's it.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: rackem]
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It does go a long way
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
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While retard rage goes a long way training does matter. Just I dont see the level of training needed to beat some psychos ass.
Sprinkles doesn't seem to be some out of shake little thing. Small chest, nothing to get in the way, she has this advantage along with the big hands. She looks squirrely as fuck too. Doubt you could pin her
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
#21725853 - 05/26/15 06:13 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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I was going to say no... because that was just a simple wording error, but now that i think about it. idk man.
sprinkles = scraper
Theres only one way to settle this really. KY wrestling match.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
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We already have a match set up between them in OTD. The only rule is they each get as much meth before the fight as they want..
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Amanita86 said: We already have a match set up between them in OTD. The only rule is they each get as much meth before the fight as they want.. 
you just confirmed my bet man lol. ill throw stacks down on the crazy methed out blonde
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
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See I brought up the point that crystal is shorter and thicker, she has a better center of gravity for throwing. Sprinkles has the reach advantage. Id be willing to bet Crystals stamina would be a little better, but thats all up in the air since her pcp,crack,meth whatever else binge has come to light.
Either way it would be great pairing..
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Amanita86]
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Amanita86 said: See I brought up the point that crystal is shorter and thicker, she has a better center of gravity for throwing. Sprinkles has the reach advantage. Id be willing to bet Crystals stamina would be a little better, but thats all up in the air since her pcp,crack,meth whatever else binge has come to light.
Either way it would be great pairing..
Crystals stamina could help her. Personally I could just see sprinkles saying fuck it grabbing the nearest object and just start swinging.
If sprinkles does have a reach advantage elbows could come into play here for her if she knows how to throw.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
#21725938 - 05/26/15 06:33 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Crystal is a little Asian and Sprinkles has giant hands. She'd crush her like a pop can.
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maybe its too early but i figured crystal would be getting more support.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
#21725967 - 05/26/15 06:41 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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They would be unstoppable as a tag team.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: rackem]
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That's where my money would go
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I am very proud of myself for totally derailing this thread into the direction it has gone. Yay me.
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I think you're onto something. Possible end game / profit
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Crystal G]
#21726044 - 05/26/15 06:57 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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So wadda ya think? Can you take sprinkles?
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean] 1
#21726054 - 05/26/15 07:00 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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But then they would fight, who do you think would win?
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
#21726061 - 05/26/15 07:01 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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After seeing the wrestling video idk about that man. I see girls go harder than just that 25lb plate strapped on themselves with dips.
Roofing was the first time I have ever really like fried sun burnt because of skin tone, i thought i was sun retardant. I was fucking wrooooonnnngggg. No wonder the older dudes looked like leather.
Pauline Nordin only uses a 45lb plate for weighted dips, and she has been working out for 10 years to get in peak physical condition. I had only been working out less than a year and I could do up to 35lbs when I made that video.
Also, I was recently able to pick up and squat and deadlift my boyfriend while he was on my shoulders. He's 180 lbs so I could definitely do a bundle of 80 lb wood.
I do several minutes of stairs at full speed carrying 45lbs weight for cardio.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Amanita86]
#21726065 - 05/26/15 07:02 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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What is the protocol reguarding pre fight drug screening anabolics wise? This plays a huge role if both are allowed time to train before hand
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
#21726069 - 05/26/15 07:03 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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We're not setting this up for december, we're going now..
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Mescalean]
#21726072 - 05/26/15 07:04 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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also meth screening, what is going on with that?
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Crystal G]
#21726078 - 05/26/15 07:05 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Crystal G said:
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Mescalean said:
After seeing the wrestling video idk about that man. I see girls go harder than just that 25lb plate strapped on themselves with dips.
Roofing was the first time I have ever really like fried sun burnt because of skin tone, i thought i was sun retardant. I was fucking wrooooonnnngggg. No wonder the older dudes looked like leather.
Pauline Nordin only uses a 45lb plate for weighted dips, and she has been working out for 10 years to get in peak physical condition. I had only been working out less than a year and I could do up to 35lbs when I made that video.
Also, I was recently able to pick up and squat and deadlift my boyfriend while he was on my shoulders. He's 180 lbs so I could definitely do a bundle of 80 lb wood.
I do several minutes of stairs at full speed carrying 45lbs weight for cardio.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: moonrockmushy]
#21726080 - 05/26/15 07:05 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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All the meth they want before the fight..the only rule.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Amanita86]
#21726081 - 05/26/15 07:06 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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They should fight Ronda Rousey together.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Amanita86]
#21726082 - 05/26/15 07:06 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Amanita86 said: All the meth they want before the fight..the only rule.
Ok yeah I kinda assumed that just wanted to make sure before I started calculating odds.
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XLCaps said: They should fight Ronda Rousey together.
That's downright mean.
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Rousey is a bad ass.
lol backwaaaaarrrrrdddssss
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21726099 - 05/26/15 07:08 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Ronda wouldn't stand a chance.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21726109 - 05/26/15 07:12 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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arm bar for the win.
you cant escape that deep arm bar she throws every single fucking fight.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod] 2
#21726112 - 05/26/15 07:12 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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You underestimate the raw, untapped power of methamphetamine. If only we could harness it somehow.
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Maybe we can replace fossil fuels with it
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod] 1
#21726121 - 05/26/15 07:15 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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They would finally put the speed limits up.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Crystal G] 1
#21726195 - 05/26/15 07:41 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Trichome_Delta9 said: what about roofing in the summer? putting in dvds and cookin a dinner in an air conditioned house is harder than that? how about mining? is being a mom the hardest job in the world? not even close it can be a tough job sometimes im sure but don't act like its the HARDEST job in the world. so you can keep patting yourselves on the back ladies no ones gonna correct you cause they want to fuck you.
Not all men work those types of jobs. What about the men who work cushy office jobs?
I would say that raising kids is easier if they are older. At least 5 years old and above, because then they are in school for a large part of the day at least. But when they're still infants they wake up crying every 1-2 hours. This basically means that new parents never get any sleep. Can you imagine waking up every hour every single day for at least 2 years of your life? That alone would drive me batshit.
Then you have to deal with the terrible 2's where they have ear-splitting tantrums several times a day. You can't hit them, you can't scream at them to shut the hell up, because otherwise you will have to deal with the consequences years and years later when they turn into large children and then teenagers.
I do agree with this however imo the key to a good relationship is not trying to compete for who does more. Respect each other's responsibilities. Like I said before most of my friends and cousins have very long hours and back breaking work. They don't feel like they do more work then the wife in most cases. My friends that are fathers work all day and they are with their kid kid(s) all night.
Also I'd say taking care of kids is a full time job with challenges but keeping the family a float by doing labor for 10-14 hours a day at times is just as hard. I've done both so I have a tad insight. You're right CG,waking up at 5am every morning to screaming,poppy diapers,destruction and all the reasons kids make you crazy is no small feet. I respect what a stay at home mom does. However there's no way you can say the women always work harder and have to do more.
For example my cousin works 12 hour shifts 6 days a week at an oil refinery. He has to lift hundreds of pounds of equipment all day everyday. He gets about 3 hours sleep per night and he's having 2 more kids soon to support. He is the sole breadwinner for 2 kids and his pregnant gf who's having twins. It's definitely hell at times for his girl too and she does alot but if they switched jobs for one day she wouldn't be able to do what he does and vise versa. That's why they respect each other's unique strains and responsibilities as to not have one person feeling superior over the other.
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To like 11.
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Somebody got it.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21726266 - 05/26/15 07:59 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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zappaisgod said: Somebody got it.
It's one louder.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Enjoywho]
#21726314 - 05/26/15 08:08 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Like me
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21726319 - 05/26/15 08:09 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Should I change my username to eleven, 11, Way too or Way2
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21726321 - 05/26/15 08:09 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Why don’t you just make 10 louder and make 10 be the top number, and make that a little louder?
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Amanita86]
#21726326 - 05/26/15 08:10 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Amanita86 said: Why don’t you just make 10 louder and make 10 be the top number, and make that a little louder?
Because sometimes you need to crank that shit to 11. It's one louder...
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Amanita86]
#21726327 - 05/26/15 08:10 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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No. Then we would need a 12
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#21726374 - 05/26/15 08:19 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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My favorite scene in the whole movie. Holy shit that cracks me up every time.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Enjoywho]
#21726430 - 05/26/15 08:31 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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There isn't much that beats that. A few in Blazing Saddles but it is hard to find many othera
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: zappaisgod]
#21726444 - 05/26/15 08:37 PM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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This is a total catastrophe. 
One of my favorite movies.
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Re: Is marriage worth it for the woman? [Re: Beanhead]
#21727355 - 05/27/15 03:42 AM (8 years, 8 months ago) |
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Beanhead said: Your financial loss 
Am I missing something here? Besides the money you get back for each child, what other money do married people get?
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